2006-08-31 16:28:00 · 26 answers · asked by the_wire_monkey 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why do you go back to wearing the same pair of old shoes?? Comfortable and familar. If you want her back or to see if she still loves you, drive her crazy , by not answering when she calls or answering and telling her you have to go and cut it short. She obviously never has had the fear of losing you. DONT LET HER USE YOU AS HER SAFETY NET. Dont be there. If she cares for you she will be flipping through hoops for you to spend time with you, I bet she will even say she loves you.
If not move on.
If you love someone, set them free, If they come back to you it is meant to be
2006-08-31 17:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by galbee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex wife seems to be a very nice gurl. Her marriage and relationship with you is still strong but she just cannot love you anymore. She wants you to know she cares a lot for you and she wants you to have best for your future. Give you confidence in your search for a mate. Whether she has a new bf or not, is not an issue at all.
2006-08-31 16:36:04 · answer #2 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you hate that. I think she still loves you, bro. You can't just brush aside those intimate moments together and not leave amark. You know what I mean? Or maybe, at least she still trusts you as a friend. Question is, are u still hangup on her? S**** the boyfriend. He could be just a passing fancy.
2006-08-31 16:40:27 · answer #3 · answered by sleepy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and her have a history and just because you got divorced doesn't man that you can't spend time together. She is not married to her boyfriend. You may be more of a friend to her now than when you were married. She may feel more comfortable with you now than when you were married.
2006-08-31 16:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Selfish. To make sure you don't find someone new. To keep you believing she still loves you and you hope that she will come back to you. That way she moves on, has a new boyfriend but you don't. If you don't have a new girlfriend, it makes her feel she is still having you to herself but yet she doesn't want you.
2006-09-01 04:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are her comfort zone, and it's hard to move from a space, place or person you've grown comfortable with. But the true question should be.........why am I spending time with my ex-wife when she tells me she doesn't love me and have another?
2006-08-31 16:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by CLE CLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is your exwife and still likes you and she is not totally complete with this other guy yet and she feels that she migh lose this other guy and she needs someone's support.
2006-08-31 16:36:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have children together? That would be the only reason, otherwise it sounds as if she wants to get back with you before dumping the new boyfriend.
2006-08-31 16:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you still the one her's idol, having new boy friend was human being ,we need friend to talk.do business.
2006-08-31 16:46:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she realizes your the best thing she ever had and is trying to work the charm back on you don't fall for it don't go backwards in life move forwards or you have $ and she wants to borrow don't let her you will never get it back she can ask her b/f
2006-08-31 16:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋