are you a morning lover or evening lover?

Question

My wife always wants to make love after work.... I work a hard job and I have no feelings after work ........I'm a early morning lover.....and she wants it in the evening
and i refuse until 6 a.m the next morning......any help ?

Answer 1

You both ought to be glad you both are still interested. I'm in a relationship where my husband comes up with an excuse whethers it morning or night not to even get close to me.

Answer 2

There shouldn't really be a "time" to have sex. When ever each of you are feeling sexual then you should do it. She should respect the fact that you work all day and are tired when you come home but sometimes you have to make sacrifices in life. I'm sure she might not want sex in the morning sometimes when you do and vice versa. But somewhere you have to make it work. If you don't have sex alot during the weekdays, what about on weekends? Maybe double up on weekends and have lots of sex to make up for the days missed during the week?

Answer 3

I'm an any time at all lover, no set time, no set place. After a hard days work there is nothing in this world to reshape my mind than making love, it redefines my priorities, and totally redesigns the relationship of why we make love in the first place.

Answer 4

both of you need to focus on what the other person wants, even if you're not into it emotionally what about just getting into it physically? try and work out a compromise, you do her at night she does you in the morning. hey what about starting off sharing a shower together after work? might want to try it in the morning too. try different ways to stimulate her that dont involve having to wear you down., maybe improve your foreplay and get a copy of the karma sutra. and id also say remind each other your both still in love and keep the communication going. if you HAVE to seek out good couples counseling.PEACE and GOOD LUCK!! ALWAYS keep talking things out!

Vin

Answer 5

News flash most women hate morning sex. There was a poll done on it. Bad breath, gucky eyes, bed head, not a good scene so I would rest up when you get home, have a cup of coffee and bend over your honey take it when you can get it. After a while you'll start hearing I have a headache, so just be a happy she wants it.

Answer 6

There's nothing better than morning wood to stick into someone. But u guys are married and must come to some kind of a compromise where both of u get it when u want. You should be lucky she wants sex. Some treat it like a damn chore after they get married.

Answer 7

It doesn't matter for us. We're both spontaneous but we also both work and sometimes we're tired after getting home. I suggest you compromise. Maybe you can relax for a couple of hours after coming home from work and she can give in to you once in a while in the morning. It's all about compromise and communication.

Answer 8

I'm actually up for both morning and night. My hubby lets me take care of business at night( doing all the work that is) . He takes care of me in the morning. It works out really good. Let her ride you if is too much work for you.

Answer 9

Perhaps if you comprimise with her, she wont mind returning the favor the next morning. We women love to feel sexy. Your wife is probally awake and in the mood in the evening, because she has her hair done and makeup on. She may not feel so attractive with bed head and morning breath. My husband massages me to wake me up in the morning. I honestly cringe and think "LET ME SLEEP!" , but his massages get me to wake up every time.

Answer 10

Try to or someone else just might be an "after work" lover!