I am happily married, mother of 4 children. Our sex life is intense and so incredible. I love knowing that men are watching me, excites me to know they are attracted to me. I have never cheated on my husband.... Just love the thought of another man desiring me. Would love to have husband and another guy...he says< "no way" and laughs at the idea. :) Thanks!
2006-08-31 14:35:06 · 18 answers · asked by beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dbf7721...why should he dump me...I havent acted on any impulses or done anything wrong?
2006-08-31 14:51:32 · update #1
I do too. We are women and will always be that way. Obviously you are attractive women as am I. Men like beautiful women, and that is also probably why you have a great sex life too. Because you feel good about yourself, you are confident and because men look at you that reiterates positively into your life. Shh.. Just keep your secret to yourself. A man on his motor bike that was staring at me ran into the car infront of him, it was funny. But that is what we sexy women do! Plus, isn't it great to have the power to turn on other men? Knowing that they can't have you and probably dream about you at night - I do! I love it and I fantasize too! Have fun!
2006-08-31 14:51:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are craving attention that your husband is not giving you. Everyone likes to think they are still desirable even though they are married. The thought of bringing another man into the bedroom is a good fantasy but it should only remain a fantasy. You do not want to ruin your relationship by bringing another man into it. Your husband can get jelouse thinking that the other man turned you on more then he did. Your husband could get grossed out and very upset if you did do that. You married your husband and you are suppose to be faithful to him. Do not let your fantasies be reality because you might just find out that the fantasy is way better then the real thing.
2006-08-31 21:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like and this is a fact if you think back something was missing in your childhood that really stripped you of your self confidence. This is natural for lots of people some don't even remember but as an adult have to be center of attention.
I have known lots of people like this and will go to any extent to get noticed. So your fine and I'm sure your happy doing this live it up and get noticed.Bet you even flash the guys when you have one to many to drink.
I will offer you a little advice never go out with a female friend just like you it would be a challenge to who would get the most looks.This would be a mans dream world. Been there done that and loved it.
Enjoy have fun keep it between the lines!!!
2006-08-31 22:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love that too. Its such a sensational feeling to know you still "got it". I would love to have my husband and another guy he said no, but is open to the fact of another woman(who wouldve guessed).
After 4 children men still find you desirable I say have as much fun as you can possibly have with it. Just dont step into the fire you might get burned.
2006-08-31 21:54:44 · answer #4 · answered by lalala 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to the negative people... You are totally normal and knowing that other people besides your husband think you are attractive definitely gives a self-esteem boost... It doesnt mean you are lacking confidence, just means you are completely normal and its nice to be reminded that you still have it going on after 4 kids and a happy marriage! All the best to you :)
2006-08-31 22:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by tappys_gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, all women have this complex. I satiate this certain desire by "gettin my sexy on" when we're out with his friends. And making an effort to come on to him sexually when they're around. (without being gross about it, think: a hand on his thigh, an offhand comment about how good he is in bed...u get the idea) It boosts my confidence to know they envy him...and it boosts his ego as well...its a win win situation. And if I have to let my skirt ride up a little high, or my blouse drift a little south...so be it!!!!
2006-08-31 21:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by BarbwireNRoses 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a normal human emotion to be desired...period. As long as that's where it ends. I'm perfectly happy with my husband and the attention he gives me.
2006-08-31 22:06:09 · answer #7 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because of they way they react to women.It can be really addicting.You know how they pant and growl and get so easily aroused.There is nothing wrong with wanting the attention.I mean,its just too easy.
2006-08-31 21:49:25 · answer #8 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's human nature to want to be desired. It's if you go out of your way to get men to look at you, I think you have issues...
2006-08-31 21:48:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is natural for a female to want to feel as if she is desired. Hopefully, you won't act on such desires for the sake of your marriage
2006-08-31 21:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by puresatin03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋