2006-08-31 14:36:04 · 20 answers · asked by I love sushi 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i join him. it is another way to spice up our sex life.
2006-08-31 14:49:27 · answer #1 · answered by melinda w 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
When I was a young stupid wife, I saw no harm. Until I noticed, men have more of a problem with it than women. It became addictive, eventually he began to cheat. I've learned a few lessons the hard way over the years. Now I am married to a man who has boundaries. Also, I don't have to worry about my children finding the porn. And If it's in the house, they will find it - including the internet without a filter.
2006-08-31 22:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I cannot stand my husband looking at porn. When I was married I would find his porn hidden in different places. No matter how often I threw it out, I found more every time I cleaned.
I don't think it is right to have porn. I was raised that it was "dirty old men" who looked at porn, and I don't want it in my house.
2006-08-31 21:58:56 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
People that look at porn don't just look at the same porn every time. They get bored with it and want something new. So what does that say about their spouse? They get so used to a variety that they will eventually grow bored of you too.
2006-08-31 23:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by ckoladawn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I hate it. When our sex life is fine, I have no problem with it, we can even watch it together, it builds up more heat. But, when the sex life is kind of slow, well, why on earth does he have time for other women (even visually) and no time to work the issues we might have to better our lifes. That is the moment I absolutely hate internet porn, and I feel cheated on and neglected, insecure and all things possible.
2006-08-31 23:14:17 · answer #5 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-08-31 22:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didn't have a problem until he stopped having sex with me - now he only has sex with the porn-sluts (figureatively!)... THIS is a problem for me. Don't know what to do, he says its his meds but how can he get off to a computer then??
2006-08-31 22:12:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Love it ,, especially when I get sex after wards!!!!
No seriously it's a very normal part of adult life,, unless it becomes an addiction or he would rather look at porn than be with you. Then there's a problem.
I would much rather know my hubby looks at it then have him feel that he has to hide it from me. That's as bad as cheating to me.
2006-08-31 21:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by B V 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am not a wife but I dont have a problem with the guy I am dating looking at it. Think of it this way; they are just looking and not anything else. A little porn never hurts them and keeps them happier.
2006-08-31 21:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by mommynokissies 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I have mixed emotions on this one. It does not bother me because I would rather have him looking at that then doing the real thing. On the other hand it kind of makes me think he is bored of me and has a need to look at other women. Men are going to look at other women naked or not. I would rather have him be open on it then hide it from me. I think when a man hides things there could be a chance he would hide more things.
2006-08-31 21:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's not a very wholesome habit, but it's better than he having an affair with another woman..
2006-09-01 12:15:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋