Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2006

I found a phone number of another girl in my BF wallet. I called that number and the woman is married. My Bf & this women work together. I want to tell her husband that I found his wifes phone number in my Boyfriends wallet. But how do I tell her husband this without it getting back to my Boyfriend that it was me that was the one who told! please girls & guys can you think of any ideas, I dont want my BF to find out it was me- who could i pretend i am & what do i say to her husband when he ask who i am.

2006-06-29 11:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by clover 1

My wife had a boyfriend while we were seperated and now I want to watch her have sex with other men.It really turns me on when I see her talking to other guys when we are out. Have any other women reading this ever do this for your husband ?

2006-06-29 11:24:21 · 5 answers · asked by Jim k 1

2006-06-29 11:20:57 · 24 answers · asked by drew92 1

yesterday i caught my husband talking on the phone with a female friend of his he had told me a week ago when we where having problems he liked her and he was saving her as a backup in case things didnt work out but we are giving our selves another oppertunity i told him to end there friendship but he got ubset he wants me to end my friendship with a male friend of mine i've known for 5 years what should i do?

2006-06-29 11:20:28 · 27 answers · asked by barbee 2

i ve split up with my husband of 7 years, have daughter, he cheated on me, stole my money, now he is fighting me for custody of my daughter with atrocious allegations, but i still cant forget him or the good times we had together and i cry at night and dont know what to do, i dont think i will take him back but it hurts so much>

2006-06-29 11:18:54 · 21 answers · asked by fawzia h 1

I have been married for 9 years we have had three beautiful healthy children. My husband has been a great provider I have only had to work part time but I am not sexually attracted to him anymore and I would like to have sex with another man and I feel absolutely horrible about it and I just don't know what to do. I do not want to divorce my husband I love him very much he just does not satisify me at all I don't like when he touches me and he knows I am feeling this way I haven't told him that I do but he keeps telling me. I just would like some advice on how to fix this problem.

2006-06-29 11:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by motherof3princesses 1

2006-06-29 11:07:29 · 9 answers · asked by bunnyBoo 3

He is so over sensitive. When we fight, he doesn't talk to me for days. I feel punished. I have to beg for sex, and he lives in the mirror, it takes him an hour to get ready for work. Plus he is concieded, I think it's cute because personally I think he's cute, but he's not gods gift to women or anything. Let's just say, he's grown on me. I'm totally the guy in this relationship. What should I do to make him act more like a man?

2006-06-29 11:02:06 · 18 answers · asked by smiles 2

my 2 daughters are forced to go to college so their alley cat mother can continue collecting child support.she also collects child support from 2 other kids from from 2 different fathers.she is actually living off the child support that she collects.she makes my daughters take out student loans,and work full time jobs to support themselves.i am outraged that she can get away with this,i recently went to court to try and put a stop to this madness.big mistake,the judge actually raised my child support payments.is this fair,or do i sound like a dead beat dad?

2006-06-29 11:01:25 · 20 answers · asked by JBR 1

2006-06-29 10:58:50 · 21 answers · asked by Musty 4

He is currently in Iraq and he wants to pick up where we left off and make love immediately when he gets home in August. We were together 10 years (married 4 yrs) when we got divorced. Would I be wrong in telling him to wait for a little while? Advice please.

2006-06-29 10:54:37 · 12 answers · asked by bee_mcrae 1

girl but you know it dosent meen anything to him, he didnt even get her # is it worth leaving him?

2006-06-29 10:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by melinda 1

2006-06-29 10:37:48 · 34 answers · asked by Kramer_28 1

GUY I WAS DATING SEEMS TO LUV ME ALOT MAKES PLANS WITH ME ALL THE TIME GETS A LIL JEALOUS WHEN GUYS TALK TO ME-NOTHING BAD BUT WHEN I BRING UP LETS SETTLE DOWN HE ADMITS HE'S AN *** FOR NOT SETTLING SOONER BUT WHEN HE'S OUT WITH GUYS HE TURNS VICIOUS ON ME .. AS IF I'M THE BAD PERSON HE SOMETIMES ACTS PANIC STRICKEN AS IF I'M TRYING TO TAKE AWAY HIS LIFE OR CONTROL IT STARTS BLAMING ME FOR STUFF HE GETS ANGRY AND WILL TURN THINGS AROUND .I'LL KEEP MY DISTANCE BUT WHEN HECOMES AROUND & SEE'S MY FACE HE SAYS I'M SORRY ALL THE TIME HE SAYS THINGS LIKE I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WAS THINKING , I LOVE YOU, I NEVER WANT TO LOSE YOU, EVERYTIME HE SEE'S MY FACE. BUT WHEN WERE NOT IN THE SAME ROOM OR PLACE TOGATHER , I GET THIS JERK, IT'S HARD BECAUSE HE CRY'S OVER HIS ACTIONS OF BEING MEAN TO ME ,SEEMS LIKE HE FEELS BAD, HE ALSO DROPS TO BOTH OF HIS KNEES, SAYS HE'S SORRY, NOW I'M WORN OUT, I'M NOT EFFECTED ANYMORE BUY HIS PITTY PARTY BUT WHY THE ANGRY & PANIC TOWARD ME.... PLEASE HELP

2006-06-29 10:30:35 · 13 answers · asked by darkartistproductions 1

I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year & a half now. Things have happened quite fast between us, we've been on 2 family holidays together, last year & this year & we have been living together for over a year now. He was married but separated when we first met & got divorced in June last year. His wife was the one who ended the relationship & left him heart broken. We have never been that sexually active but we haven't had sex in over 3 months now! I do feel that he doesn't fancy me! He says he loves me but he's scared of getting married as he doesn't want to get hurt again. The problem is that I want to have children in the next year or so as I'm 34 in a couple of months time. He also wants children soon as he is reaching 40. I feel like I'm putting pressure on him because I feel like my time is running out. I don't know what to do because I do love him but I'm not 100% sure he feels the same. Please give me your opinions! Thank you. x

2006-06-29 10:30:16 · 19 answers · asked by mini m 1

I am not upset about her sharing the picture with her friends and family - but I do not appreciate her posting a picture of my daughter on her profile page on MYSPACE.....

I am concerned about my daughters safety - even though she is still a toddler - how do I explain this to her....? I am not trying to start a fight with her,.....

2006-06-29 10:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Bugs_Mom 3

some men suck......some are honest and faithful. butttttttt!!!@

2006-06-29 10:22:53 · 13 answers · asked by mine_2_her 1

I'd like to know what your opinion is...this affair was a one time thing, with the husband of a friend. Too many rum and cokes and two people who were not getting what they needed at home...not an excuse, just a factor of what led up to it...What do you think?

2006-06-29 10:19:52 · 41 answers · asked by SusieQFish 2

I have been married 5 years and my husband and I have decided to separate. Who knows what will happen in the end but we are in extreme need of a separation. We established unhealthy patterns and unfortunately the only way to break them is to take time off. I'm scared to death! Any advice on how do deal with the loneliness and sense of loss? We still love one another. I've many friends but it's not the same...I really liked being married. And how in the hell do I tell my family who doesn't believe in this stuff?

2006-06-29 10:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married once and the marriage was really bad and abusive I ended it. Now a year went by and got a boyfriend and I just get really freaked out when we have arguments I just don't want to make another mistake. Everytime my boyfriend (3 months) and I have an argument I just pretty much stop talking to him and it could go for days I know I am overeacting I know another person in a situation like that would just be like "whatever" but I can't I am trying so hard to make sense of little fights vs just forget about it and move on, what can I do to stop feeling like the relationship has to be perfect, I am so scare of going back to the same thing I had with my exhusband

2006-06-29 10:11:02 · 2 answers · asked by donatella_millian 1

we have a child together he told me that he was not inlove with me anymore after 7 years he also said that he was not attracted to me all these feelings are not postive feelings because he is not sure how he feels how should I react or resolve i am sure that he is not cheating

2006-06-29 10:09:06 · 2 answers · asked by Atv 1

We have been married 20 years. I told him how much i wanted him. I asked if he had a physical problem. He said it was me i wasn't much of a woman. I blamed myself. For the last few years he wants sex often. The problem now is me. I am repulsed by his touch and if i dont do it he gets mad. What now?

2006-06-29 09:58:12 · 4 answers · asked by mslostmymind 1

Tomorrow is my 5 yr anniversary and i am heartbroke. My husband acts like he hates me and the kids. About a year ago he got his Va disability and has not worked since. I work full time as a paramedic he also has a paramedic license and used to work as a paramedic and he still can. He started volunteering for the fire department a year ago and now thats all he lives for. I want to move into a house since we live in a apartment and we have talked about buying a house and now he dont want to do that all he talks about is staying in the city so he can respond to calls. Our kids cant play outside we live in apartments. He has offered me 1500 a month in child support if i will take our son and forget the divorce so he can be free. Well i believe he wants to be free from everything no kids no wife nothing but volunteering. Sad thing is the guys at the fire dept think he is a idiot. I have been trying to keep the marriage together for our 4 yr old son but i give up i wont stay no love here.

2006-06-29 09:55:22 · 15 answers · asked by paramedic9742 1

2006-06-29 09:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4

So today I get a call from a friend of mine who works with my fiance. He told me that it was AShley' birthday and he could not go out to lunch with her. She was going to lunch with my fiance. So I called himi at lunch time and asked him what he was doing for lunch. He got defensive asking why I was concerned about lunch. I told him that I wanted to meet him for lunch. He replied that it was the end of the month and he was to busy next week would be better for him. He also said that enterprise was paying for their lunch today. So I looked on our online banking and saw that 40 dollars was taken out by him. My friend than called again and said that my fiance and ashley did indeed go to lunch together he watched them drive off together. I am fuming.... He doesnt know that I know yet. I cannot stand Ashley I used to work their and last year she tried getting mike and I to break up. Funny thing is she is engaged as well. I am just mad about the lie period how do i approach this

2006-06-29 09:47:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was married for 32 yrs now iam divorced i don't know how to get started with my life again.

2006-06-29 09:45:56 · 27 answers · asked by nixxi 1

it effected me in a way i cant explain..... i need some help full ways to get over it even though it was 7 yeaers ago my dad hasent cantacked me in a year .....

2006-06-29 09:45:39 · 3 answers · asked by bberry112003 1

i just found out he ordered online a bottle of pheromones over a month ago...
yet whenever i talk to him about sex..it turns into a major fight.
he tells me im too demanding,since im wanting more than once or twice a month.
hes the one never in the mood for me...(gawd that so HURTS)
so why would he wait til i confronted him on the pheromone to tell me oh yeah i bought that for you, and you seem to like it...i never new he had it or wore it or even saw in the medicine chest (well hidden from me)...whats up with that...is he with someone else that he obviously wants ? (charge on credit card bill. i called on)

2006-06-29 09:41:49 · 6 answers · asked by rainbowz001 4

he always told me he would work but i was in the hospital for weeks and he never attempted he borrows money from my family tries to control who i talk to what about has to know everything

2006-06-29 09:36:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

You file for divorce over and over, he always talks you back saying he/she will change. They drink and smoke, something you have grown sick of over the years. It used to not bother you. You feel no passion or aching love for him/her. You feel like its more of a roommate situation, routine or spontaneus sex when its available. A dating relationship with the worst arguing/fighting you could imagine, sleeping together and living under the same roof, with or without kids, making decisions alone and together, whether you stay at home or work, sometimes its convienient.....but mostly....at the end of the day, you end up wanting to run away as fast as you can before the door hits you in the butt. Your a different person when your away from this "other" half. So if you were dating, and not married you'd say "screw this I'm outta here", but in a marriage.. all tangled with crap you say its a divorce. But its not that easy is it... Is it growing apart? Or simply a flaw of the human heart?

2006-06-29 09:33:12 · 7 answers · asked by msjinx39 3