I am not upset about her sharing the picture with her friends and family - but I do not appreciate her posting a picture of my daughter on her profile page on MYSPACE.....
I am concerned about my daughters safety - even though she is still a toddler - how do I explain this to her....? I am not trying to start a fight with her,.....
2006-06-29 10:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Bugs_Mom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree that this is wrong of the g/f. I'd be most upset as well. I guess you can start by talking to the ex....are you guys on reasonable terms? If that doesn't work, I'd look at the rules of myspace to see if it's somehow in violation.
Worse comes to worse, you may want to speak to somebody of authority about what your options could be. (If the divorce isn't final, maybe you should speak to the judge, or the case worker or something like that).
I don't think it's starting a fight to tell her that it is wrong and foolish of her to post a child's pic on HER myspace (personally, she sounds like a ditz)
2006-06-29 10:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with everyone above me. Just talk to your soon to be ex-g/f of yours and explain the dangers that might be out lurking especially on a site like Myspace. I've heard so much dangerous occurrences regarding Myspace on Dateline NBC, local news and even the morning newspapers. I have pictures of my niece who is 1 yrs old and like to share the pictures among my close family and friends and I also have a profile at Myspace. I'm a very secure and private person and don't like strangers looking or even lurking so I don't post any pictures of my niece except of myself. I don't post pictures of her for obivous reasons and don't want to put my niece in any danger because of me. So yeah, talk to your ex-g/f ASAP and have her delete your daughter pictures in front of you. Your ex-friend should cleary understand in what you want and she should have moral and common sense not to violate your trust by posting pictures of your daughter on a site like Myspace. You should also let her know that there are so many sick people out there and even though she may not think that she won't harm your daugther let her know that anything can happen at anytime. Good luck talking to your friend!!
2006-06-29 10:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Bobcat9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask your spouse how might want to she imagine might want to you've been sending section bare and sexually suggestive pictures on your ex and carrying on a usually emotional affair of a few sort jointly including her. tell her also, that besides the actual incontrovertible reality that she will be in a position to no longer have touches this guy, she has genuinely disrespected you as someone, as her husband and he or she or he has disrespected your vows and your marriage. tell her you do not believe her and performance no theory in case you'll manage to move ahead jointly including her on your existence, understanding that she contains on in this kind of approach. inspite of in case you do not plan on leaving, you've were given to inform her this and also you've were given to likely go away for some days. this would provide her and also you time to think on what the subsequent step may be. If she does no longer come calling and apologizing, your marriage is over and he or she or he did no longer have the balls to allow you to comprehend.
2016-11-30 00:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by brezee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right as her mom to say something about it. We hear about sex offenders ,being on myspace as well on other sites. To some it don't matter if she is a toddler, she would be a good prey for them.
If she was my daughter, I would demand for her picture to be taken off. I would tell my ex gf to get it off, and to keep it off for my daughter sake. Explain to her how it makes you feel for her doing that. She should had ask for your permission first.
2006-06-29 10:41:42 · answer #4 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to remove it she does not have your permission or the right to post it. She is just the GF not the parent, or even a legal guardian. She has no rights even if the Dad says its okay. It has to be mutually agreed between the parents.
2006-06-30 05:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by sinneragain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a right to ask the woman to please take the photo involving your daughter out of her myspace. Ask her nicely and do not resort to nastiness. If you do not get the response you desire, ask your EX to step in and get it done.
2006-06-29 10:28:49 · answer #6 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should like maybe you should,
1: have a talk to your soon to be ex and try and sort it out cause i would also feel worried...
2 if number one dont work then find legal addvice...
hope you get it sorted
2006-06-29 10:30:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
myspace is not safe for children and many children have gotten raped on that website. i don't mean to scare you but my child has gotten raped on this MYSPACE.how old are you. e-mail me @you know yahoo.my child got raped on myspace.it's was so sad.she got really scared but the filthy man got arrested
2006-06-29 10:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by elena_fitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her nicely to please remove it but also let her know that you are not upset with for sharing it with her family/friends
2006-06-29 10:40:04 · answer #9 · answered by Darlene M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your child, your decision!
2006-06-30 04:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by msria1979 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋