Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2006

fast and hard
slooooooooooww and gentle
if it depends.....explain

2006-06-29 07:43:52 · 15 answers · asked by Mr nice guy 2U 5

Well I just had a b-day and all I wanted to do was hang out and drink a few beers. My husband didn't want to. But we did any ways. We went just 2 doors down and had a few beers with his uncle and a couple friends. He was worried about dinner, and my 3 kids just had some pizza. And my husband was hungry so he went home and expected me to go with him.(I didn't cause I wasn't hungry)Then he came back about 1 1/2 hr. later mad as hell telling me to we are done and to get my stuff and leave then he took our kids. So i went and got my stuff and left.
He's done that to me for the past 7years.We had our 1st kid when I was 17 and I haven't got to do anything.I sat home about 1-2 days a week for 7 years waiting for him to come home to me and he wouldn't untill 1or2 inthe morning(when the bar closed).Or I would leave fromwere we were and make dinner.I've only gone out 3 times in 7 years without kids. He won't let me do anything. He dousn't understand that I just want a little bit of me time

2006-06-29 07:42:57 · 11 answers · asked by mightymite 1

I feel sad when he doesnt call yet i feel guilt bcause i think, what if she doesnt know and maybe he is cheating. but he is great and we havent done anything, except a drunken peck on the lips. but i say no i cant do this till he leaves her. should i wait a little longer. maybe there is something i can say to find out if i mean anything to him to see if its actually worth waiting for. i know the right thing to do, but i think i might be in love, maybe not, but i dont want to loose my chances with him and i dont want to help him cheat.

2006-06-29 07:41:19 · 14 answers · asked by sensory deprivation 2

Just wondering what signs to look for?
Gay males or females respond please

2006-06-29 07:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by beAn*s MoMmy 2

I've been married for a little over 2 years and I'm absolutely crazy about my husband. He's the best thing that's ever happened to me. We are opposites in personality (I'm extroverted and he's very introverted), but we get along great.

I know some things about his upbringing that make him have terrible self-esteem issues. I try to tell him I love him as much possible. I tell him how handsome he is daily, how much I love and why, that I think he's sexy, that he's a wonderful father, etc.

I don't know if I embarass him or that I just shower him with compliments so much it just gets boring. If saying things like that all the time, does it make the comments less special?

I'm 41 years old and I think he is the most handsome man. I have to fight with myself to walk near him and not touch him or kiss him or hug him.

Is this too much for a man to handle?

Only serious answers please and I'd prefer answers from adults and not teenagers. Thanks!!

2006-06-29 07:40:18 · 12 answers · asked by joycestew2002 2

Where do you think is a nice place to raise a family that isn't too expensive. House prices are outrageous here now.

2006-06-29 07:34:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

would i get some benefit if i moved into rented accomadation with our children?

2006-06-29 07:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by bealbtl 1

I found out,that we are NOT common law.Only thing I found on the paper is his last will from 1997,where he is stating that in case of his death he is leaving the house to his PARTNER(to me).He did introduce me as his partner to his friends as well as I introduced him to mine.could that be enough in case of establishing common law in tx?During our relationship I put a lot of money into the house,but also he purchased about 18 houses in New ZEALAND.What can i do,not to leave with the naked behind after 12 years of our relationship?Can somebody give me any answers?

2006-06-29 07:30:09 · 14 answers · asked by inuska_2000 1

My wife had a boyfriend while we were seperated and now I want to watch her have sex with other men.It really turns me on when I see her talking to other guys when we are out.

2006-06-29 07:22:38 · 23 answers · asked by Jim k 1

2006-06-29 07:22:17 · 5 answers · asked by Please Answer 1

2006-06-29 07:18:53 · 26 answers · asked by Please Answer 1

My stepkids mom owes us back child support, she now says she is going to get disability. Will she still be ordered to pay child support, or will we get any help from her? Their dad and I work full time to make ends meet, but make to much to to get any assistance. Are we screwed or will we get help from her through disability??

2006-06-29 07:13:58 · 7 answers · asked by Amber 1

my husband and i have been seperated for 8 years i'm going for a divorce now how long will the judge give for a finial day what i mean is will it be 30 day's 60 day's or what

2006-06-29 07:13:52 · 15 answers · asked by bgreneyes 2

2006-06-29 07:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Charlie 2

2006-06-29 07:10:37 · 15 answers · asked by butterfly12 2

I have been married for 3 yrs now and i dont know if its me or him. He says its me. But anyway here it goes:
My husband gets jelous when i talk to any guys at all
He doesnt want me to have friends (not even girls) he says that being married and having friends doesnt work. Because they can influence you to do bad things
If you are married you should never do anything without each other.
He thinks that every guy i work with at my job i am having sex with
He doesnt let me do anything or go anywhere by myself or without his permission
if he is too tired to have sex he wont have sex with me but one night i was in a bad mood and told him i dont want to have sex because im in a bad mood so he got mad and went to the living room to sleep and then later came back and told me that i should have worded it better
He doesn't hit me but i sometimes think he is emotionally and mentally abusive to me but i dont know if its just me or not
There is alot more. PLEASE HELP IS IT ME!

2006-06-29 07:07:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

he works alot with other women and is also a big flirt.do you think he is cheating or just alot of stress.he said he is tired he is only 24.usually men would want it all the time,he used to want it all the time.now its like a chore.

2006-06-29 07:03:34 · 21 answers · asked by veronica o 2

Given that in Indian customs women are given higher degree of sympathy, what are the chances for a man to get a clean and peaceful divorce in situations where he finds that his wife is mentally sick?

Mentally sick wouldn't always mean a mad person. There are people who psychologically are unfit and ill. Such people from time to time do behaviors which often lead to unpleasant situations.

In situation like these what are the necessary documents required as proof and how viable are such situations for plea of a divorce?

2006-06-29 07:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by geek_is_seksy 1

I have a two year old son with my ex. He gets our son every other weekend and on some special occasions. I am currently in a new relationship, and plan to get married soon. After we get married we were considering moving to a different state for better job opportunities. I want to move, but I also want my son to see his father. Has anyone else been in a situation like this? If so, what did you do?

2006-06-29 06:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance is over in Kuwait right now, and wants to wait until he is home this winter before we start planning our wedding. I asked him why he wanted to wait and his response was "What if something happens to me?" I know that the chances of him getting killed are pretty small (although I know there is still that possibility). After he says that, he then asks if we can start trying to have kids when he gets back. I tell him that I will be finished with school before having kids because once they come, my plans are put on the back burner, and will be married before I have kids with him, or anyone for that matter. I have told him this like 15 times now, and haven't once changed my mind or my answer. I'm curious as to what I can do to make him understand that I have a logical reason for wanting to finish school before having kids? And what would a good compromise be?

2006-06-29 06:57:45 · 8 answers · asked by prettycute4u62040 4

Our one year Anniversary is coming up in a couple weeks. I have no idea what to get my husband. I want it to be something memorable.

2006-06-29 06:52:58 · 12 answers · asked by meisa777 3

We have been married for only four months, but one of the things that he promised to do was to close this checking account with his ex-wife as soon as we said I do. After the honeymoon I asked him again had he done it, and he stated that he was working on it, and that it would be done, for me not to worry. The account holds no purpose because this woman does not work, and we have custody of their only child. She is sneaky and wants to cause trouble in our marriage. She even went as far as to say that he was marrying me because he was "desperate". Now, I've been wondering why my husband only calls her when he is at work. When she calls his cell phone at home he gives the phone directly to their son. She NEVER calls the house phone, only his cell. All of this is very suspicious because they just got divorced right before we got married. Finding out that he kept this joint account with her really hurts, and I feel as though I can't trust him. What would you do?

2006-06-29 06:51:34 · 17 answers · asked by candy0813 3

2006-06-29 06:37:37 · 12 answers · asked by tonya340 1

2006-06-29 06:22:12 · 17 answers · asked by Arnoldlve 1

It's a fantasy of mine. I often think about it and wonder if other men think about this and have any wives ever done this .?

2006-06-29 06:22:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jim k 1

I am in a relationship with [john] we live together in texas and i came to florida to bring my son to visit his dad [james]. Now james has always told me he loves and has never stopped waiting for me to come back to him and live together as a family. I can no longer have children so me and john will never have children together and he is ok with that. I love john and he loves my son as if his own we have lived together for a year now and i don't want to hurt him he is waiting for me to go back home we talk everyday on the phone and he has been sending me money to help me out while am here. He doesn't know that i have been staying with james in his home much less that i have been with him. I think i still love james also but in a diffrent way than i do john. I don't know what to do? I don't know if i should stay and try to make a family with james or go back home with john?
I know that if john were to find out about me and james he would never forgive me. i left james when i met john.

2006-06-29 06:19:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-29 06:18:26 · 19 answers · asked by SWEETBABYRAY2002 2

I am a beautiful black woman who has primarily dated good looking white men. I have had gruff about my choices in relationships and have no problem dating men of my race. But for some reason, white men are all I seem to attract. Some of which who are very afraid to cross the marriage line. Are there any opinions on why this is? Are there any men out there who have felt this way and why?

2006-06-29 06:18:00 · 12 answers · asked by loveshy34 2

Ok I grew up where my dad was basically not around at all and for the important stuff he wasn't there to protect me. I had no male figure in my life that was like a father. How does this affect me and you as far as being able to have a healthy relationship and knowing our roles as male and female in a healthy marriage? I tell you I feel ike I should be doing it all takeing over but I know that isn't the right way. We each have our parts but since I never saw it I have a hard time knowing what it is. And head knowledge and experience I am learing are two different things.
PS I RESENT THEY PUT DIVORCE AND MARRIAGE IN SAME CATEGORY CAN WE HAVE A LITTLE MORE OPTIMISM ON THE PART OF YAHOO STAFF?

2006-06-29 06:11:39 · 2 answers · asked by xx_muggles_xx 6

do you prefer to sleep naked or somewhat clothed?

2006-06-29 05:57:17 · 28 answers · asked by silki_one 2