Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2006

I am married been with my husband for 11 yrs i have cheated on him several times he has forgivin me everytime but lately we have been fighting over the internet cause i am in chat n guys call me but i never met anyone i am just looking for people to talk to i dont get along with gurls and i never leave the house i am on the computer he gets mad cause i talk on im but tha thing is these guys do try to get with me i dont want them n they know i am married but my husband still dont trust me n i cant blame him but i love him he says i dont but i need to get some advice cause i am screwin everything up n i dont wanna lose my marriage but i feel like a prisoner i mention to him about marriage couseling n he sayz i need it not him i been with him since i was 15 he was 27 now i 27 n he 39 he treats me ok . wen we dont fight but when we fight most of the time its fist to fist or itz me puttin him down or him puttin me down.

2006-06-29 14:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, this woman is a friend of mine. I know her husband as well, he is a good guy. They have been married for four months and she freaks out about everything. Both were previously married, she had four kids he had one. Now she is pregnant with twins. Im kinda worried about this womans stability. Take a look at her profile and tell me what you think about her....mabye you have some advice for her......

2006-06-29 14:04:48 · 19 answers · asked by Massa Bruce 2

I am looking for some tips on dividing up the duties in a marriage
when the husband works full time and provides all the finances and the wife has chosen to stay at home and be a full time mom.

2006-06-29 13:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by cmsb705 5

My husband is 845 miles away helping his parents with their new house, they baisicialy have to re-do the whole house, he doesn't know when he's comming home and I miss him so bad, I cry myself to sleep every night also because he has a bad back and he dislocated a spinal disk.... what do I do?

2006-06-29 13:49:58 · 7 answers · asked by Pearl 2

A civil annulment...how much did it cost? How long did it take? Did they need a lawyer?

2006-06-29 13:39:41 · 1 answers · asked by ? 2

I know it sounds like we need to be in Springer. However, we are church going good people whose life sounds like we are on a soap opera. I found a sexual email from my sister in law to my husband. She was also my best friend and we did everything together. Obviously, they had been together for over a year or more. When I called my brother in law and read him the letter, he chose to bury his head in the sand. I have been to counseling for 6 months now but I don't trust my husband that it is over. I am embarrassed to say I find my self looking at his phone calls and emails. She is gorgeous and weighs maybe 90 pounds. I am 140. Both say it is over and that it was more an emotional affair and that they only kissed once. Ya right!!!!!! And the check is in the mail. Help! My husband gets angry when I bring it up and tells me not to rub his face in it. Should I divorce him after 20 yrs of marriage? Am I an idiot for staying? Please answer my heart is hurting . Thanks!

2006-06-29 13:39:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been selfish, but only because she's so selfish with me in the bed. I'm trying to improve in every area other than sex, so that I can have a better intimacy with my wife. Example, treating her like a queen, telling her how I feel, etc. Is there any possibility that if she sees me in a new light as a changed man. She'll stop denying me so much romance and the things she'll do for me as far as romance goes?

2006-06-29 13:31:50 · 8 answers · asked by Shawn J 2

2006-06-29 13:07:47 · 33 answers · asked by jingles 3

i'm all abt good relations btn spouses n in-laws. but my wife has totally put me aside and sides w/ my sister and vice versa. i feel like an outcast. the other day, she wrecked my car and calls my sister 1st and comes to me two days later. is this normal?

2006-06-29 13:05:17 · 7 answers · asked by wamisely 1

2006-06-29 13:03:49 · 25 answers · asked by CoffeeChick 3

I'm a deployed soldier in Iraq and I've been gone for awhile. My wife never thinks about sex and she rarely makes sexual comments that much. She does make a lot of jokes, she's got a good sense of humor. She told me over the phone her and her next door neighbor were going to get the words harder tattooed on their lower backs. She said she was serious, I don't know whether she was joking or not. That's not the point, I'm kind of disturbed about why she would say that to me over the phone knowing I'm over here in Iraq. I asked her was it to be funny, something for her husband, or are you trying to be funny about something you did behind my back that only her and her friend know. She hasn't responded yet. I just sent the e-mail not too long ago. Am I little insecure about this? Also, what do you think?

2006-06-29 13:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by Shawn J 2

What could I say? Men, just listen!

2006-06-29 12:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by Texas Cowboy 7

2006-06-29 12:48:08 · 16 answers · asked by christopherhannond 1

I want to someday but I think it will be pretty nerve-racking to ask someone to marry me.

2006-06-29 12:35:31 · 17 answers · asked by Toadbaboad 2

I lost my reciept to wal-mart where i bought her so i cant return her she only been used a few thousand times. shes still in healthy condition but i just need something new please respond if you need a slightly used women. shes working on having kid number 7 now so just a little used as i said earlier may except trades and or yahoo points!

2006-06-29 12:34:23 · 17 answers · asked by dave a 3

We have been married 6 yrs. In the beginning he bought extravagant gifts and all the affection in the world was showered on me, now we sleep in seperate rooms, never kiss passionately, never say i love you, To make a long story short there is no intamacy in the marriage. I love him and want our marriage to work but i am starving for affection. In his defense he does work 2 jobs to support me and our daughter. Our anniversary just passed and when I brought it up to him he told me that I just don't get it he doesn't see the big deal. Then he had an attitude with me the whole day. I am confused, I feel as if he is not happy in the marriage, yet he says that he is. I have talked to him over and over about how distant we are from one another and it seems to go in one ear and out the other. hhheelllp

2006-06-29 12:29:43 · 9 answers · asked by poeticnay 1

i like an older man but he already has a wife and he knows i like him.his wife is pregnant.do you think he would cheat on his wife for me?they always get in fights and he's always flirting with me.i just don't want his wife to get mad at me for taking her husband. she has cheated on him many times

2006-06-29 12:22:52 · 29 answers · asked by elena_fitz 1

We just got married in March and we have hardly had anytime for each other. we live with his parents,and he works the graveyard shift so basically when I'm working he is asleep and when I'm asleep he is working. Well he is always wanting to go hang out with the guys every single weekend! What is it with him?

2006-06-29 12:14:49 · 10 answers · asked by tx80sgirl 2

Emotions? Happy times? Explain...

2006-06-29 12:14:47 · 11 answers · asked by C.J. 2

2006-06-29 12:12:05 · 21 answers · asked by Jai 2

I'm not an advocate for violence against women, but a woman would have to be a real pain in the rectum for a dude to want to kill her. Am I insensitive or a truth sayer?

2006-06-29 12:03:21 · 15 answers · asked by Perfect Specimen 2

2006-06-29 12:01:07 · 9 answers · asked by minxy 1

Whether you have or not, have you ever thought of having an affair? If you did, why? and if you did not, why not?

2006-06-29 11:56:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so tired of trying to work it out and I want to leave my marriage of 5 years. Now that I told him I am leaving, he is doing what he can to show me he is willing to work it out. But I don't want to give it a try and find out in 10years and realize I should have just left. I still love him but I have no hope if our problems will be solved. How do I know he will be back to where he was before after trying for a little while?

2006-06-29 11:46:59 · 27 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

2006-06-29 11:44:09 · 9 answers · asked by Lorretta 1

Could I be paranoid? I don't know... how can u tell if hes looking or not? I have been feeling insecure lately. I always feel this way when I am pregnant!

2006-06-29 11:43:38 · 16 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

2006-06-29 11:40:45 · 18 answers · asked by angel 1

You know, in a marriage, but still your lonely as hell........

2006-06-29 11:38:50 · 10 answers · asked by msjinx39 3

we're both 18 right now and about to have a child together and unlike some ppl where not gonna get married just becsue of that because more than likely it wont work. he actually said 28 but that seems so far away. is it that he's not ready to be commited or is it that he just thinks thats better than gettin married sooner

2006-06-29 11:28:32 · 19 answers · asked by Dirah 1

Ten years ago my best mate got married.Since then he has been with no other woman.I on the other hand have paid about £25,000 out on prostitutes (I have had about 500 (one a week)).He is now getting divorced and will have to give his wife half the value of the house (about £145,000).I still have my house.Just who is the mug in this tale ?

2006-06-29 11:26:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous