Help! I keep thinking my husband is looking a ot her woman!?

Question

Could I be paranoid? I don't know... how can u tell if hes looking or not? I have been feeling insecure lately. I always feel this way when I am pregnant!

Answer 1

Trust that your husband loves you, and he could just be looking around. Don't be so insecure, if you know he loves you. Don't make the mistake of accusing him of something he didn't do, it will effect your relationship in the long run.

Answer 2

Of course he's looking. He's a man. He looks and yet he's with you. Ask him to point out the women he looks at. Don't get insecure. Instead think, wow my husband has really good taste in women. And since you're with him... then guess what you're just as gorgeous if not more so than the women he looks at.

Answer 3

i have a friend who was married and 4 months pregnant and found out her husband had 2 other "girlfriends". i've never been pregnant so i don't know what it's like, could be hormones/your natural insecurities, etc. But the best advice i've gotten about stuff like this is if you have any kind of suspicion, you don't need to doubt; because you know.

Answer 4

he probably is, its human nature. come on admit it, you see a really hot guy at the store and you don't look? of course you do, you are married not dead, but the point is it doesn't mean anything more when he looks at a girl than it does when you look at a guy...your brain says oh he's hot and you get on with your life and minutes later you don't even remember it happened. relax, he's always going to look just like you are, its no big deal, it simply means you married a human, and seeing as how you are pregnant that should be very good news!

Answer 5

You're not paranoid, he's looking, if he says he's not, he's a liar. If you say you don't look at other men, you're a liar too. Just because people look at other people that doesn't mean that they're looking for someone to jump into bed with. People are interesting to look at, sometimes more fun that watching a movie. Don't believe me? Sit in a mall one day and watch people. You'll find some beautiful, some funny, and some down right scary. Watch people to see things in them you want to see in yourself. You can find things in them to make you better yourself or better things around you. Let him look, then remind him where you are

Answer 6

He probably is, most guys do, some are better at not getting caught than others. As long as you own it, don't trip, it's once it goes past just looking you have a problem, I mean honestly do you think any other guys are hot? It's human nature-plain and simple.

Answer 7

It happens......Every man and women does it.....it's human nature.

You can't tell me you don't look at other guys and even find some attractive.

It doesn't mean that you or your husband are bad people unless you get carried away and take it too far.

Just realize that your husband is human and I'm sure he loves you.

Answer 8

My husband and I have one rule: Look, but don't touch. Be happy he's only looking. If you think he's doing more than that, it's definitely time to sit down and have a calm discussion about it. No accusations, no screaming, no mud slinging.... just talk.

Answer 9

Ok, he is looking at other women....it's almost a given. It's human. You even look at other guys(assuming your normal...).

You could be paranoid.

It's doubtful you will be able to tell he is looking or not. If you don't see it now, he may have the skills to hide it(many guys do).

Answer 10

You can never stop that. He should be tactful and not be obvious, however. If he did not look, he would not have ever met you. You can not change him., or what he finds attractive. He married you, relax.