Marriage & Divorce - 29 June 2006

And may I ask too- is it normal if me and my hubby only does it once every two months? Some people find it odd. I mean, once a month is ok for me too. But sometimes it could go up to 3 months. And he says once every week is too much. (We've just been married for 3 years by the way) Sometimes I feel so unwanted. What is your opinion on this?

It can be normal right? Are their couples out there like this too? I would like to know, so I would feel so alone.

2006-06-29 19:15:19 · 26 answers · asked by mama_prito 2

2006-06-29 19:11:14 · 11 answers · asked by Luvbuz01 5

2006-06-29 19:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 2

Thank you all for your answers MOST of u I have saved and will review in the morning(about the 9 yr relationship) Again thank you k??? GOD bless you all!!!

2006-06-29 18:59:37 · 5 answers · asked by bedard r 2

2006-06-29 18:48:19 · 22 answers · asked by Gina 1

ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, hes all i have i really only had one or too friends my whole life and my ex bf from hs was one of them. i have a trust issue and am afraid of getting close, due to being adopted ,mother passing away.
but anyways
my and my bf went through a pregnancy our 3rd month of being together, i cheated on him, with his friend, he kept accusing me and adventally i did what he was accusing me for.
Then after that he took me out with his cousin there wife friend and sister, and the 3 girls were talking about my breast at the table , wispering. and my ablivious bf didnt even know!
so i started crying when we left and he didnt believe me. and so since then i dont want to be around anyone of them at all.
its been 3 months later and i feel that i lost feeling for him, but i also feel i cant go on without him .
what should i do?

i try talking to him about it then he starts being understanding then a few weeks later he just goes back to normal

2006-06-29 18:47:37 · 2 answers · asked by lovesugarkisses 4

someones always watchin me i got that same feelin when i was gettin ready for a bath the other night but noone was here just me am i weird or imagining things

2006-06-29 18:42:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just bought my husband a new wedding band and I am trying to figure out a creative way to give it to him for his birthday,,, For example when he gave me my ring , he stuck it in the middle of a single rose, and it was awesome,,, any good ideas out there for How i could give it to him? Thanks a ton in advance

2006-06-29 18:36:49 · 17 answers · asked by stina 2

2006-06-29 18:30:06 · 10 answers · asked by star4 1

Now here it is almost 6 yrs later and I have changed(trust me) She still talks to me and is my friend so how do I get her to come back my way as I do truly love her and want her but without her throwing the past back into my face?

2006-06-29 18:16:48 · 15 answers · asked by bedard r 2

I am married (happily for the most part). I have met someone on this site that I enjoy.(she is married also) We often answer each others questions. I dont think we are doing anything wrong. We are not having cyber sex or goofy sh*t like that... We have sent e-mails back in forth just two or three times. I have to admit that I have looked forward to running into her here @ Y/A. I'm not trying to "get with" this person..... I dont even know her name, just a nickname. It could be a hairy old man for that matter!

I'm just courious as to why so many folks would consider this cheating?

2006-06-29 18:15:53 · 25 answers · asked by and,or,nand,nor 6

2006-06-29 18:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by dadx2 2

After finding out his cell phone records and the after hours calls back and forth between them I observed the behaviour between them. He admits he let it get out of hand and promised to transfer her to another position. Now a year later she is still there and I am not allowed to come to his work place without his permission. Everything is so secretive. I have become the outsider. Twenty five years of marriage and she has been married thirty four. He directed her to call me and tell me there was nothing between them but when I asked her were they ever intimate she did not answer. Then lied to him and said I didn't give her time to answer. He believed her.

2006-06-29 18:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by weve1151 1

My name is mohamed. I'm 27 years old engaged to a good girl,who's loving me so much but the problem I feel is, that I can't feel any attraction to her.
May be because she is not that much pretty as I dreamed one day.the real reason I don't know yet but this intention all the time to breake up this engagement signing always to me on the other side the girl finds me as her hero & I don't like to hurt her by running away.please I'm realy dieing to find a proper solution for this problem.Shall I breake up relationship or not.

2006-06-29 18:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by m_fathy80 1

2006-06-29 17:54:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-29 17:53:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you get your husband to treat you like a wife again? It is like our relationship has just gone down hill and I am afraid that I am ready to look somewhere else. I have tried sexy clothes even none. He seems to always be pissed and/or drunk. HELP!

2006-06-29 17:52:04 · 11 answers · asked by Jamie S 1

what's a good breakup song with good lyrics? I love him but it's definetly over, i want to be on good terms with a love song/poem

2006-06-29 17:51:41 · 3 answers · asked by mina 2

2006-06-29 17:46:32 · 7 answers · asked by hazmat6983 1

2006-06-29 17:37:58 · 8 answers · asked by DonnaMaria B 1

I thought I read that they just passed a law you can get married as young as 12 or 14.

2006-06-29 17:35:04 · 2 answers · asked by J T 6

i love my hubby he is a great guy and doesn't deserve me to be questioning anything. But yet when I daydream and make goals for my future i always think of my exboyfriend as if he would be somehow part of it or wonder what he would think or what advice he would give me. does this happen to anyone else? when will it stop? i've been married 2 yrs.

2006-06-29 17:29:20 · 7 answers · asked by macasoga 1

I have been with my fiance for a little over 2 years. We have a 5 month old baby together, and we want to get married. (We were already planning to get married before I became pregnant.) I am having some fears and wondering if I need to get a prenup. I own a house (in my name only). My fiance, our baby, and I live there together, and my fiance helps with the payments. I am afraid that when we get married, his ex can get more child support out of my fiance because our salaries will be combined. (I make a higher salary than he does, and she knows this.) I'm also afraid that I will acquire my fiance's debt. Does anyone know from experience if that would happen? I love him very much and do want to marry him, but it's complicated and scary. I want to be protected, and I especially want our baby to be protected. Ugh! I'm going to have to get a lawyer, aren't I?

2006-06-29 17:27:51 · 16 answers · asked by stevie ann 2

When my husband of 6 years gets a "buzz", he is verbally abusive to me and my son.(from a previous relationship) When he's sober and I tell him what he said or did he calls me a liar and denies it all. I have left him many times but I keep coming back. He has started AA classes and soon as he realizes I'm back, he stops AA and starts drinking again. I love him but this is causing me to really dis-like him. I am not attracted to him anymore because of this reason. When we lay down together all I smell is beer and his eyes are glossy. I need advice on what to do. I don't want to turn my back on him, we have 2 children together and i have one from a previous relationship who looks up to my husband as his daddy. I don't want them to think it's o.k to drink a case of beer a day.(and still walk a straight line)

2006-06-29 17:23:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seriously, be mature about it. Don't give some **** faced answer like 'zomg itz so dum'.

Me and my boyfriend plan on getting married before he goes to airforce. So it'd be...soon. Not too sure when, but possibly within the next 2-3 months.

We've been together for 3yrs and 6 months. Neither of us have any doubts, we're just ready. Not to mention all the benifits of him being in the airforce and married. They send extra money home.

Anyway, I'm 18, 19 in october, and he's 20, 21 next saturday.

What is your opinion on young people getting married? I've heard a few different answers from the people I work with, and they have very different views on it.

I personally think if someone knows the person they're with and is ready....Then they're ready. I don't think it's right for one person to tell someone else 'you aren't ready for this' even though they can't expirience the relationship themselves.

2006-06-29 17:22:52 · 46 answers · asked by Steph 2

well my husband gets mad at me if i go on line, so i have to wait till he goes to bed, and he gets mad when my kids are not doing what he wants, so we fight all the time, we use to get alone when we 1st got together, now i hate to wake up.

2006-06-29 17:11:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-29 16:57:28 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ladies, how would you react to your husband if he said that he would happily pay for a boob job after you finished breast feeding three kids?

I slept on the couch for a week.

2006-06-29 16:45:30 · 43 answers · asked by tailingred01 1

I mean I wanna buy the perfect ring but I dont have much money and I wanna ask her already...but I dont wanna ask without having a ring

2006-06-29 16:41:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

love is gone afraid now nothnig left

2006-06-29 16:40:47 · 60 answers · asked by Anna N 1