My name is mohamed. I'm 27 years old engaged to a good girl,who's loving me so much but the problem I feel is, that I can't feel any attraction to her.
May be because she is not that much pretty as I dreamed one day.the real reason I don't know yet but this intention all the time to breake up this engagement signing always to me on the other side the girl finds me as her hero & I don't like to hurt her by running away.please I'm realy dieing to find a proper solution for this problem.Shall I breake up relationship or not.
2006-06-29 18:05:06 · 5 answers · asked by m_fathy80 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Dont ruin her life .. sounds to me she really loves you and she deserves someone that really loves her back and if your not that person, then let her go she'll thank you later when she does find a good man to love her the way she deserves to be loved. It doesnt make you a bad person, but marriage is hard enough with two people going into it whole heartedly.. so just tell her the truth , yep she'll hurt now, but in the long run your doing her a huge favor.
2006-06-29 18:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, if you have no attraction for her it is not going to get any better. Your best bet is to break it off without hurting her.
You must feel something for her otherwise you would not have gotten engaged. You are still young let it go or people will get hurt. Quit playing with fire and move on.
2006-06-30 01:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anastacia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the proper thing is to stay engaged but if you love her you should stay with her work with her on being attrated to her and if you dont love her because she isnt attractive then that is realy shallow and just wrong but i think you should stay with her she deserves for you to at least try giveing up on it is just a waist of time and i think if you give up on her it will hurt more then if yo utlaked to her about making herself more attractive theres always things she can do lose weight if thats the problem wear make up do her hair all sorts of stuff
2006-06-30 01:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Ralina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married to a person you're not in love with. That is why there is engagement. This is a time period for each other to think about. If they change their mind, it is a break-up. If you get married and change your mind, it is a divorce.
Note the difference?
2006-06-30 01:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It's not fair to her. She wants someone to love her as much as she loves him. If that's not you, then let her find that person. You are only prolonging the inevitable. Break it off, and the sooner the better.
2006-06-30 01:12:40 · answer #5 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋