What would you do if you found out that your husband/wife was having a online relationship???

Question

umm, it's just a question. I'm not saying that this is what is happening to me.

Answer 1

Confront the jerk! It's not right, whether it is a lustful or meaningful relationship. You're committed, and so are they!

Answer 2

Talk to him and find out exactly what the relationship is. Some on-line relationships are just on-line and are just about fantasy and not reality. That doesn't make it right but it's just the way it is. Decide what you can live with and go from there. Good luck!!

Answer 3

the first thing i would do is see what they are talking about. if he/she is willing to allow you to join in the discussion, then i would not worry about it so much. (that does not mean don't inquire about it) if they don't want you to know what they are saying or doing, then i would be concerned. the first question to ask them is " what is your online friend doing that i can't do for you" that answer will determine how you should procede. there is nothing in your spouses life that you should not be able to join in if you are physically and mentally able to. there shouldn't be any secrets in any marriage or relationship. don't be afraid to ask, and be ready to accept whatever is presented to you with an open mind and an open heart. that alone will help you to get pass this thing that is obviously bothering you.

Answer 4

FIRST OF ALL DO YOU KNOW FOR SURE? AND HAVE THEY TAKEN IT FURTHER? SIT HER DOWN AND TELL HER YOU KNOW WHAT'S GOING ON AND YOU WANT THE TRUTH FROM HER MOUTH..WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T YELL AND SCREAM ABOUT IT (THAT' THE WORST THING TO DO) TRY TO STAY AS CALM ABOUT ALL THIS AS YOU CAN..YOU NEED TO KNOW THE TRUTH SO YOU CAN MAKE A DECISION WITH HER .SO YOU CAN GET ON WITH LIFE..PEOPLE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT LIFE IS WAY TOO SHORT TO LIVE IN A SITUATION LIKE THAT..WOULDN'T YOU RATHER BE HAPPY ALONE OR MISERABLE WITH SOMEONE..AND BELIEVE NO HUMAN BEING IDS WORTH FIGHTING OVER...JUST GET ON DOWN THE ROAD AND START SMILING FOR AWHILE..GOOD LUCK TO YOU

Answer 5

Confront him and tell him to stop...install a program on the computer to see if he is still involved with the person if so after we have talked about it....i would let him go

Answer 6

okay, first things first calm down. you dont want to come on to strong. what you need to do is confront him/her about it. find out whats going on is it just a friend or are thry talking nasty. b/c you never know one of them may go out and meet the other in person it starts on the internet than you meet them than someone gets left behind in the dust and the other runs off with the new one. confront them find out whats going on and go from there. but make sure you have proof of whats going on. print out there conversation to show him/her. go from there. tell them you want it to end.

Answer 7

i would be furious and make sure my spouse not be on the computer anymore andmake him tell her that the relationship is over in front of me, then he would have to delete his email address and get a new one, i would change the email address password if i couldnt delete the email address, i would do everything to make sure this doesnt happen again and make sure it is over so that she does have any more contact with him.

Answer 8

I'd talk to my spouse about it and let them know that I knew what they were doing. Then I would make sure to tell them that they are hurting me and ruining the marriage and that the affair had to stop.

Answer 9

i would ask him,its the best thing to do,if he really loves you he will be honost.or do the same,be constantly online and laugh,if he ask what is up just laugh,make like you dont care.once he asks you if you are up to something,you know he is the one doing something wrong.

Answer 10

Have one myself to make her jealous. If it's online, it's emotional and NOT physical. Unless they're mutually jerking off. Then I'd divorce that sick ***** and take half her money.