i like an older man but he already has a wife and he knows i like him.his wife is pregnant.do you think he would cheat on his wife for me?they always get in fights and he's always flirting with me.i just don't want his wife to get mad at me for taking her husband. she has cheated on him many times
2006-06-29 12:22:52 · 29 answers · asked by elena_fitz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow I'm speechless and unable to type...nothing wrong with liking an older man however shouldn't you find your own instead of borrowing someone elses?
2006-06-29 12:35:29 · answer #1 · answered by djmantx 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it makes it right to take her husband because she has cheated on him and depending on how much older he is than you are in another trap. Don't expect him to leave his pregnant wife to be with you. If he is interested in you it is only for sex and sooner or later he will lose interest in you. Stay away from married men, it is a losing battle.
If you want an older man then find one who isn't in a relationship and have fun.
2006-06-29 19:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by inlitnme2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away and don't make eye contact. This is a situation you do not want to involve yourself in. If he didn't want to be with his wife then he would have left. You are a flirtation and nothing more.
Ask yourself why you choose older married men. What are you missing in your own life?. Do you need a father figure or do you have a need to be treated like a princess by a sugar daddy?
2006-06-29 19:27:58 · answer #3 · answered by anything_my_child 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just flirting and doesn't want to have any kind of contact beyond flirting. Just because they get into fights doesn't mean they don't love each other. Leave him alone! If you like older men, find a single, older man.
2006-06-29 22:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by Eileen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to like older men. Just learn where to draw the line.
Dont fall for the flirts if he is married. They lead for a fall.
Control your emotions and look for an older man whom is not married. They have more money and can spoil you.
But don't spoil someones elses life. Let them do that on their own.
Have fun.
2006-06-29 19:30:09 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't break up a marriage. He might be flirting with you just because he wants to find an easy way out, but it might cause more problems. The wife might find out, too, and that wouldn't be good for either of you. I would find someone else, who is not attached.
2006-06-29 19:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by poeticjustice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back away. If he is that interested in you, let him clean up the present mess first. Just think how would i want to treated if i were the pregnant wife? Walk a mile in the other person's shoes Peace.
2006-06-29 19:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by wildrover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you do not sound like a ho.But hey you never know but would you want some jerk off that cheated on his pregnant wife he could do it to you in the future.
2006-06-29 19:25:20 · answer #8 · answered by Førsâkëñ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is NOT ok to flirt with someone else's spouse. Give his wife respect and keep away from him. Just because she has cheated on him doesn't mean he should with you. And if she's pregnant, even more of a reason to leave him alone.
It is wrong to do that. I say don't.
2006-06-29 19:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by dotbrie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, generally it definitely is OK to like older men. However, in this case you have to be careful - think it through! He may be flirting with you because he and his wife aren't having sex while she is pregnant. Or, he may be flirting with you because he likes you and his relationship with her is falling apart. Or he may just be a jerk! And don't forget he has a responsibility to his child. My advice is to tell him you like him but you don't feel comfortable - let him explain himself. If you are satisfied with what he says, tell him you won't get involved till he sorts his life out first.
2006-06-29 19:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by Markie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋