he works alot with other women and is also a big flirt.do you think he is cheating or just alot of stress.he said he is tired he is only 24.usually men would want it all the time,he used to want it all the time.now its like a chore.
2006-06-29 07:03:34 · 21 answers · asked by veronica o 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is the weird part he said if i needed it that bad masterbate.
2006-06-29 07:29:23 · update #1
oooo God honey im so sorry i hate when this happens! just umm keep all things possible. try keeping yourself busy out of sight out of mind.. if you feel hes cheating or u know he is dont you sit back and get hurt you go out there and be dirty too! and you will see a change in him, if not put him out or just keep doing what you are doing
2006-06-29 07:08:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sorry to say that he is showing all the signs and symptoms of being a cheater. If a man feels that he has a reason to flirt, then he is only one step away from cheating. Flirting is very disrespectful in a relationship, and if he has no respect for you, then the next thing for him to do is cheat. However, you are married, so try and work it out. Please let divorce be the LAST resort. Good luck.
2006-06-29 14:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by candy0813 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust your man, don't second guess him. He might really be tired. Just because he works with a lot of women doesn't mean he's cheating. Why don't you just change your strategy, sometimes men get bored of routine.
In the morning, wake him up by giving him oral sex, he would like that. Then get up and make him some breakfast, make it about him. You will be on his mind all day. So make sure you have dinner & wine ready when he gets home, and make sure to look your best. I bet you'll be having dessert sooner than you know it.
I believe that sometimes men want it to be about them. We women sometimes forget, and always make it about ourselves. We have to remember that its both the woman and man in the relationship, so we both have to step it up from time to time to keep things interesting.
2006-06-29 14:58:21 · answer #3 · answered by Carm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not think that he is cheating I think that he has hit the point in life where his sex drive is down and the fact that he works with women all day could make is drive lower. just because he works with all females does not mean that he is cheating and if you have to question yourself maybe you need to step back and look at yourself and maybe then you can find a resolution to the problem...
2006-06-29 17:02:53 · answer #4 · answered by Atv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate these answer saying give up and get rid of him. I can assure you if you were not giving it up to him he wouldn't complain it happens to men every night when they go to bed they get rejected but let a man do it to a woman and automatically he is cheating. Your right most men would want to have sex at that age but sometimes there are exceptions he may be an exception he may actually be tired. Here is what I recommend tonight when you go to bed right before he goes to sleep ask him if wants to have sex, if he says no then ask him if he wants to watch you masturbate sounds odd but there is not a guy in the world who could go to sleep while watching a woman play with herself it is what we like and since you can make yourself *** we are not obligated to do anything BUT watch and enjoy
2006-06-29 14:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Best answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the opposite problem and I am 29. I want to but she doesn't that often. If you work a lot though, some people get too stress out and don't feel like doing it. I would like to 3 times a day but it just doesn't happen. And the longer your married the less you have it seems like.
2006-06-29 14:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by b-in-oc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! I went through that same thing not that long ago. Try sitting him down & telling how you feel. Try not to use accusing words. Just say that this is the way you feel. It worked for me. Just turned out that he was stressed & had a lot on his mind.
Best of Luck!!
2006-06-29 14:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poor you. My husband is the same way. He's 27 and I practically have to force him to have sex with me (and I'm quite attractive, mind you). If your guy says he's tired though, probably it's the truth. You could try threatening him that you'll hire a cute young pool boy :-p
2006-06-29 14:14:36 · answer #8 · answered by Peaches M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in love with othyer woman , When man act this way that mean he cant see any but just that new love , trust me i am man and i know that for sure , he might not cheating on you but but he is on thye way to do so or leaving you , good luck finding another man !
2006-06-29 14:08:23 · answer #9 · answered by kald 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call that show "Cheaters". It sounds like he is cheating but just from what you are saying. At 24 they are like bunny rabbits, they never stop.
2006-06-29 14:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by tmb867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋