feeling sad, i think hubbie is being unfaithful,?

Question

i just found out he ordered online a bottle of pheromones over a month ago...
yet whenever i talk to him about sex..it turns into a major fight.
he tells me im too demanding,since im wanting more than once or twice a month.
hes the one never in the mood for me...(gawd that so HURTS)
so why would he wait til i confronted him on the pheromone to tell me oh yeah i bought that for you, and you seem to like it...i never new he had it or wore it or even saw in the medicine chest (well hidden from me)...whats up with that...is he with someone else that he obviously wants ? (charge on credit card bill. i called on)

Answer 1

Once or twice a month is usually not as much as a guy would like it, although desire varies from person to person.

(I don't think I've met a guy who actually ARGUES to NOT have sex with his wife -- maybe he should get an award or something...)

It's possible that he bought and used the pheromone secretly on you... but that makes no sense, if he is actively avoiding sex. (Why would he want to turn you on.. and simultaneously reject you? Illogical.)

Probably he is into something he shouldn't be. But you should be more sure before you challenge him.

If the tone of your e-mail is the usual tone of how you approach him, though, I can imagine him being very defensive.

I know you're angry (and have a right to be), but approaching him emotionally probably has little chance to win him over or get him to spill his guts. I'd just be aware of it, and try to keep things toned down even while remaining firm.

Answer 2

Don't automatically assume sometimes that can make situations worse than they actually are. Maybe he did buy the pheromones for you but was too embarassed to let you see them. He might be having sexual problems and doesn't want you to know he's trying to correct them. There's almost no way to tell that someone is wearing pheromones they really have no strong smell and the bottles that you buy are usually very small, maybe he kept it in his underwear drawer so they could noty be seen. If you suspect cheating that much maybe you should look into a private eye or do a little investigating of your own - but i wouldn't jump to conclusions - here in Texas there's a reality show called cheaters which will investigate for you and give you the information. If you really feel in your heart something just isn't right don't ignore it. Hope this helps some!

Answer 3

Its as plain as the nose on your face. You know he is. Womens intuition is sooo clear. Come on, girl. A guy who thinks you want too much sex?! WhatEVER!! The pheromones are for putting someone in the mood not the opposite (which sounds like he wants from you!) If the pheromones WERE for YOU he would of ran home to show them to you and let you know what he was up to. Im sorry but he is a dog!

Answer 4

Signs of a Cheating Husband
1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress's home.
8) His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband's shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse
1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse's co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is "touchy"
8) You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

Answer 5

Yeah i would be dissatisfied, however i would not electronic mail her identification select up the mobilephone and speak to her, loved ones is so main you will have to fairly take the time although there now not, do not forget normally lifestyles simply will get in the best way. I can pass a 12 months with out speakme to a cousin but if we do ultimately neither folks have a crisis with it. Capricorn

Answer 6

women just KNOW when hubbie is being unfaithful, if you have this feeling there are probly other signs besides the phermones. Also if you are writing to yahoo answers asking "is he being faithful" you probly ALReady know the answer!!!

Nevertheless, i think you should hire a private investigator to follow him and take pictures of him cheating. then you can take it to court during the divorce and get a nice punitive damages settlement.