girl but you know it dosent meen anything to him, he didnt even get her # is it worth leaving him?
2006-06-29 10:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by melinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
girl but you know it dosent meen anything to him, he didnt even get her # is it worth leaving him?
Do you guys belive their is a such thing as to be married forever and never cheating?
and why is it called chetting
2006-06-29 11:08:37 · update #1
People always think the foundation of marriage is love...but it is actually trust.
He broke your trust and this probably wasn't the first time. Things like this don't just happen...they come from a feeling that is entertained. It won't be the last time either.
Unless you are into swinging (cause that will be the next step) or an "open" marriage...you should think about a marriage therapist or divorce.
2006-06-29 11:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Confuscious 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES id kick his butt to the curb! R U KIDDING? Its still cheating BIG time! The booze kept him from getting off not the woman! He is a cheater and you deserve sooo much better than that. He has totally disrespected you as a woman and didnt give a second thought to how u feel! Kick him out and find a real man!
2006-06-29 18:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you afraid of? Doesn't sound like you think he's going to leave. I'd worry about whether he's going to catch something or get somebody pregnant. Yeah, I do think that you need to assume that its going to happen again. In my experience, people do or don't screw around, and if he has, he will. So, I can only tell you what your question really is. Can you live with it or not?
2006-06-29 17:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by pag2809 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was an isolated incident in which he was very drunk, maybe you should give him another chance if you still want him. But if you leave, you have good reason. And if it happens again and you stay, prepare to deal with it dozens of times.
2006-06-30 09:14:38 · answer #4 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he at least say it was a huge mistake and ask for forgiveness?
If not, you should consider taking off.
If he is really sorry and you think he won't do it again, I would give him another chance. Possibly get marraige counseling.
2006-06-29 17:55:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently you didn't mean as much to him as you thought you did. He can casually screw someone else and not even consider your feelings and thoughts about this. That doesn't say alot about the man and doesn't make him a grand prize winner to keep around.
2006-06-29 18:21:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is an institution based primarily on 2 things: love and trust. In order to answer your question, you have to answer these 2 first: Do you still love him? Do you still trust him?
2006-06-29 17:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Charlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everytime he goes out with his friends you will have to wonder if it will happen again.
Personally, I could not stay. Actually, I'd kick his a s s out.
Trust is so important in a relationship.
2006-06-29 17:54:15 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter if he did not get her #---he still f**ked her and that means he is unfaithful to you and will probably do it again. Is this what you want, if so don't whine and complain---if this makes you agree then go with your gut---leave----
2006-06-29 17:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by 2muchcoffee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get some professional help. Both of you. What about your vows?
2006-06-29 17:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by SHANNON E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋