Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2006

2006-06-28 19:44:03 · 12 answers · asked by columbus oh 1

I really cannot do it but is it really important? My husband has said that he doesnt need it as well. We've been having some problems with each other and while analysing all the things I could do better, I'm starting to wonder abt our s** life.

2006-06-28 19:33:46 · 17 answers · asked by Doll 1

2006-06-28 18:02:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband continues to keep in contact with ex girlfriends. He's denied my accusations of him meeting them for dinner. He works the evening shift (policeman) and talks daily with one ex girlfriend. This particular girlfriend asked my husband to talk with her nephew about staying off drugs. I feel like this matter is to be handled by her husband.... anybody else other than my husband. Do you think I'm being jealous and paranoid? Sometimes when she calls him on his cell phone, he pretends that she's someone else. What should I do?

2006-06-28 17:58:11 · 12 answers · asked by A loving wife 1

I been married for 6yrs and had 2 kids. I feel that I had lost my trust in my hubby when I found out that he been calling those online prostitutes and visiting night clubs during the birth of my 2nd kid. I did confront him and the reason he gave is due to peer influence. After this incident, I start to check on him and making a nuisance of myself. I had the feeling that he is switching off from the relation as he had been working for 2 jobs in order to avoid any ‘conflicts’ at home. I think I had done my part as a wife and mother for my 2kids; I need to work in the day and doing house chores during the night. At times, I do wonder what have I done to deserve all these! What should I do to maintain this marriage or is high time I should just let it go……

2006-06-28 17:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by MissS 1

2006-06-28 17:53:59 · 16 answers · asked by columbus oh 1

after 2 c-sections...some time ago....how do i flatten my belly ?? is surgery only option or will excerside do the trick??

2006-06-28 17:31:31 · 7 answers · asked by bootylishus 2

If wife denies sex to husband for several months (over 12), does husband have right to find someone else to do the job for her. That is if she has been given several warnings, but she gives all excuses in the world. How long does the man have to before taking offer from someone else just for that particular job?

2006-06-28 17:30:59 · 33 answers · asked by Max 77 3

2006-06-28 17:29:41 · 8 answers · asked by firemana105 1

I have gotten married ten years ago by an altamatume if you lve me you ll marry me & then used me for U.S pappers witchh i didnt have a clue what was all this. two years later he tells me now he really loves me. I ve caught him cheating to many times we hhave a 5yr old Im not working at thhe moment I want the divorce & he does nt want it. i have no love or reaspect for him this has been going on for ten years I feel trapped but i dont know what to do when i leave without telling him?

2006-06-28 17:24:40 · 11 answers · asked by stacia1469 2

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We have 2 kids (Aniya & Alayshia) and 1 more on the way. This one is a boy. Anyway he is 19 and I am almost 18Because of this baby we think it's time to tie the knot. This is definately our last child.I want to know if you think we should got ahead and get married?

2006-06-28 17:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by ponytail 1

i think they r stupid an they should think b 4 they leave them cuz they could b throwing away a good relationship.

2006-06-28 17:01:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

although I am married it was over 2 yrs since we had any sort of sex, (apart from my hand which is almost daily) can anyone help me? My wife just does not seem interested but I do miss it. I have tried gifts, romantic meals, running the house so she is not tired, giving her a bath to relax before bed but when I cudlle up she come right out and says she does not whant sex. please help

2006-06-28 16:59:19 · 18 answers · asked by littlebrother1961 3

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2006-06-28 16:58:50 · 16 answers · asked by renee 2

2006-06-28 16:53:56 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

2006-06-28 16:53:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband loved someone after our marriage when i was pregnant.mine is early pregnancy and iam basically shy girl which he knows very well before marriage itself.we roamed about before marriage for 4 months during that time he was very good and i also said iam very shy and i dont talk much,for which he didnot say anything.later after marriage he started loving my own sister and she also loved him,now i have 5yrs old boy .they both have been loving for past few yrs and after her marriage she have told him that she didnot love my husband but acted for my sister's sake as i had few problems in my in_laws place.so she have said that she loved him only for my sake that i should be happy. but my husband was in deep love with her,he couldnot tolerate that she didnot love him, so now he have become vexed and he wanted to either divorce me or even he wants to sucide.but all these 5 yrs he was good to me.iam in cricitcal position i love my husband verymuch and i dont want to miss him pls help.

2006-06-28 16:52:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 16:51:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 16:48:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my hubbies family ALWAYS plans their vacation EVERY single year to stay at my home for at least a week, all expenses paid by me.......shouldnt hubby put an end to this??? esp since it upsets me???

2006-06-28 16:47:09 · 7 answers · asked by bootylishus 2

I am married and have romantic feelings for a single guy who has a girlfriend he's been seeing for just a couple months. He claims that he also has similar feelings towards me. We are just getting to know each other but there are definitely sparks of attraction. Is it love or lust or just plain physical attraction? P.S. My marriage has been on the rocks for awhile, we haven't slept together in years. That sounds awful and I hate saying that but its true.

2006-06-28 16:46:53 · 17 answers · asked by lollygagger 2

My husband and i are not always together. He works on a different city and we only are together every weekend. On some nights he is not around, i have some urges and the only way to release is to masturbate. Is it okay? Please help....

2006-06-28 16:41:14 · 26 answers · asked by Sophia Beatrice 1

2006-06-28 16:40:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

You are not happy, no one knows you are cheating, (you are a 1-2 year cheater with more than one person.) You kick your spouse out & is gone for about 1mo or 2, your "spouse" comes back to "visit", you get his cell phone bill there is many 20+ min. calls to one number, you call it and it is your same gender on the other line. You find it is the same person they had only "talked" to that other time you kicked 'em out. Now you are upset and are really saying you want a divorce! Because YOU THINK they are now cheating on you. You call your spouse and let 'em know that you know they are "talking" to someone else and they "hang up". You call 'em the next day and the cell is now disconnected! Am I the Victim NOW??

2006-06-28 16:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was in a relationship for 7 years and we broke up 3 months ago. I've been feeling like I miss him alot and that I want him back. But he came over the other night and we had sex, and for some reason I didnt feel a connection when we had sex, that was the second time we had sex in the 3 months we've been broken up that I felt like that. But when Im without him I want him back. Am I over him subconsciously but my minds playin tricks on me tellin me that I want him back? Im so confused, whats my problem?

2006-06-28 16:37:12 · 9 answers · asked by miranda 2

2006-06-28 16:35:42 · 24 answers · asked by Ginny C & Hobie D 2

I'm in love with my wife and I found out today that she is trying to sleep with another guy. This is the second time I caught her trying to cheep. I don't clam to be perfect......I got caught cheating on her, but I learned my lesson. I really want to be with her, but I can't trust her now.....what should I do?

2006-06-28 16:31:25 · 19 answers · asked by inlovewithmywife 1

This is a serious problem I have, only serious, mature answers please! He feels ashamed about it and hides to do it. I've asked him nicely not to do it anymore and he tries but is sometimes very weak. i personally think porn is kind of ok if you are single and have urges, but not if you are in a loving relationship with a steady partner who doesn't appreciate it, unless of course, something is wrong in the relationship that you haven't discussed with the other person, and you feel like you are missing out on great sex elsewhere. anyway, it hurts me and i feel like i'm not good enough and i am just not that attracted by it to see why other people find it so special. i feel pity for the sex workers, a lot of whom i feel do not really enjoy it as much as the audience thinks, but do it because they have to for money, etc. it's their job, i wonder about their salaries, is it that good, to give away your dignity to sometimes very very gross spectators? anyway, please please please help me!

2006-06-28 16:26:46 · 28 answers · asked by lulu 2

We used to have time and energy, but not in the past year or so. Does the relationship survive the draught, or is this a sign?!

2006-06-28 16:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by seamonkey 2

My kids dad who i left 10 yrs ago is still yapping about his money problems.Ok here is the deal,we never went to court the kids live with me. I told him I didnt want money from him,all i wanted was him to take the kids every other weekend and if they really needed somthing i couldnt get them,like help with school stuff and so on.He cryes every time,he doesnt even pay health care.I make as mush as he does and i look at it this way i wanted the kids and even if they were not with me i would still need lights and food and a roof over my head.so why make him pay for that when i would of had to do it on my own any way.I want to show him that im not the rotten person he makes me seem,im fair and im happy that im not taking from his home,cause when the kids are with him i want to mke sure they have lights food and so on and another home to go to,but when i ask for help for school clothes and little things he wines about it

2006-06-28 16:13:09 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2