2006-06-28 16:53:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hell No, I love my man and love trying new things but i am not into sharing him!
2006-06-28 16:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 11⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem and I just told it like it was.
I told him that if we did it and I found out that the other took more interest in me and spent more time with me,.....then I might would just go the other way because it would be better. Either way....with a man or woman. That shut him up.
Also, how would he feel if it was the other way around? What kind of feeling would he have if I asked for another man in bed with me and would he be jealous? and what if I really liked it with that other person? Where would my feelings be at? Would they be on him or the other person?
It seems like the more questions that you asked to their stupidity, the more it makes them think.
It shuts them up quick.
2006-06-29 00:05:46 · answer #2 · answered by So_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not for me but if it's something you want to try remember this it could hurt your relationship because you may feel threatened by another female entering the relationship (me personally I don't like to share my man that way at all) You could turn the pages by agreeing but only if the third party is a male, watch how fast he may change his mind. Be care-full in what ever you decide because if you choose this it will change your partnership with him. Ask him why he wants to have a threesome it may be a fantasy or his way of having his cake and eating too. Good luck to you both......
2006-06-29 00:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by Beauty Queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HONEY- I "urge" you not to do it!!! It's a desaster waiting to happen. Most of the time when they ask. it usual indicates that he's bored and want to try something new w/o the cheating behind your back. I've seen and heard many times after a 3 or 4some- the trust that used to be there are gone. And worse- most of the time- he would go bang the other chick again! and behind your back too. If it was me- I would be so damn hurt.
2006-06-28 23:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been a counselor for twenty years. IN all those years I have found out two things. ALMOST every Man, thinks of this fantasy at least once in his lifetime and two most men who dwell on this are hooked on porn.
However, It should just remain a fantasy. Most men who continue to want this. It is a stupid macho, egotistical my %$#@ works so good that I had two women.
Actually what I have found is that most men who desire this OUTSIDE of the fantasy I spoke of .......have been viewing perverted pornography or were themselves molested or taken advantage of sexually in their youth. I am not trying to be mean...I'm just telling it like it is.
Tell this MAN that you are uncomfortable about this and that YOU will satisfy him.
2006-06-29 00:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by JudoMan77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who's #3? the maid? -kidding!
This may be his way to explore sexual curiosity.
If theres no way you would do it: tell him to rent a freaky porno and watch that to get his wonders out.
If you consider doing it: find someone who you know is clean and who you could get rid of afterwards(ie not a neighbor or a family member)
At least he's asking you instead of going to some swingers club and doing some weird **** with a bunch of strangers.
2006-06-28 23:58:39 · answer #6 · answered by Billy Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for people experimenting when they are single and everyone involved is in agreement, however I do NOT believe that two people who are in love, espeically two people who are married, should bring someone else into their bed. It only serves to create numerous problems. If he wanted to do this playing around it should have been done prior to getting married. I would strongly recommend not doing it.
2006-06-28 23:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by adagia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all husbands will ask that eventually
talk it over if you wouldn't mind it go for it
if can't stand the though of it then tell him
myself my husband and i have had this talk but i asked him we haven't done it yet but we know if the situation ever comes up we are both game
2006-06-29 00:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by shellshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him for a divorce because if he wants a 3 some that means he is not happy with just me.
2006-06-28 23:56:42 · answer #9 · answered by hotmama3712 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope -- that is just plain destructive, and it never turns out a great as the fantasy. Buy him some porn instead and watch it with him, but don't ever bring anyone into your bedroom.
2006-06-28 23:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by tsopolly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you answer if he proposes the 3 some to be with an other men? MFM
When you know that answer you can set your terms.
2006-06-29 00:00:18 · answer #11 · answered by serious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋