I'm married. But when my husband is away, i do masturbate... Is this normal?

Question

My husband and i are not always together. He works on a different city and we only are together every weekend. On some nights he is not around, i have some urges and the only way to release is to masturbate. Is it okay? Please help....

Answer 1

Just like your husband, I work in another city. My wife does that too. In the matter of fact, I would ask her occassionally if she did it. It brings no harm and it's healthy. Better that than having her with another man releasing her sexual urge on another.

Answer 2

there is not any fixing this in any respect, I promise you. you want to divorce him on the instantaneous. you do not love him, yet you do have a deep-seeded favor for some attachment to him. this isn't a healthful courting. Divorce him earlier you've youngsters. in case you do not, you'll sorely remorseful about it. pass even as the getting is nice. he's demeaning you by doing all this garbage. Why does he do it in the front of you? because you enable him. you'll lie back and enable him do his aspect to you understanding he's fantasizing about your sister. What does he care??? He would not. Lose the bastard. finally end up first. Then locate someone who will deal with you want you're the love of his existence.

Answer 3

It's very okay, I've been married for 16 years and I'll pop in a movie and masturbate when my husband is not around, he works in another state also and only come home from Friday Thur Sunday, It's better than cheating and bringing home a nasty disease or a unwanted baby by another man. YOU'RE OKAY!!!!

Answer 4

If it isn't normal then I am a freak lol
My husband works 12 hour shifts in another city so I ee him exactlly 1 hour a day I am in bed when he goes to bed and he gets up at 3:30 leaves at 4:30.
I can't help but mastubate. It is either that or find a different man and there is NO WAY IN HELL I AM DOING THAT!!!!

Answer 5

This is the easiest question I've ever answered here: Yes. It is completely healthy, completely normal, and you shouldn't worry about it one bit.

Here's a thought: have you mentioned this to your husband? He might find it a turnon. If he doesn't like it, tell him "Well, the next time you go away, why don't we take a little time and fill me up so I don't need any more until you get back?" This way you get some extra nookie, and you can still masturbate while he's gone -- just don't tell him, since he doesn't like it.

Answer 6

Stop masterbateing every time you do that god kills another kitten. DoYou want the deaths of thousands of poor inocent little kittens on your conscience, and the terrible thoughts of all those little kittens lined up just waiting to be killed every time You decide You want to play with Yourself. Are You heartless? And what about the poor children in the world who dont have kittens now, because You can't keep Your fingers away from there. If You are a animal lover then please just dont keep touching Your self haven cant keep storing up all those poor little kittens. For the love of animals and everthing rite keep Your fingers away from Yourself woman. Just kidding I'm sure he would rather have You playing with Yourself then some other man. Just keep it tight, and I dont think he will mind. PLAY ON PLAYER ;)

Answer 7

Why would it not be right for a woman, men do it all the time. Some never would admit it. The urges are normal human feelings.

Answer 8

Of course it's okay. Masturbation is normal and healthy and nothing to be ashamed or worried about. Masturbating in front of him is okay too.

Answer 9

I don't think there is anything wrong with that. It's safe. It's not dirty. And it is a great stress relief. Maybe try doing it over the phone when you are talking with your husband. He might like it.

Answer 10

You are perfectly normal. Everyone masterbates. I would recommend it much more than cheating. I'm glad you and your husband trust eachother. no a days it seems there is just no more trust and faithfulness anymore.

good luck