2006-06-28 18:02:44 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're not a 'girl,' you're a woman. Before you get married, you should start thinking of yourself as a woman. Marriage isn't for girls and boys. It's for women and men, and making it successful is tough, so you need to be--and think of yourself as--a grown woman to enter into it.
As far as the part about marrying someone eight years older than yourself: Sure! It's great if he is a good man and you have a lot in common with each other--the same basic values and hopes and dreams--and if you're in love with each other.
Congratulations and God bless!
2006-06-28 18:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Einsteinetta 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u're asking if its ok 2 marry him becuz of the age difference, then u should really think hard about marrying becuz if its an issue in ur rship then maybe marriage isn't the best answer yet.
And in my opinion, age is nothing but a number... BUT u shouldn't really care what other ppl think becuz regardless ppl are going 2 judge u but u 2 have 2 be strong enuff as a couple 2 not worry about what ppl think and jus be happy!!!
2006-06-29 01:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age does not matter. What matters is that you love him and willing to spend the rest of your life with him.
Build on the love dont let what others tell you about the age pull you apart.
God bless
2006-06-29 01:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on EARTH are you asking a bunch of strangers on the Internet? If you love the guy, and this is the right time/relationship, you shouldn't be having doubts.
2006-06-29 01:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, that's not that much difference in age now. It would have been if you were 16 and 24 but you're not, you're both adults and that's not a bad age difference at all.
2006-06-29 01:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Sounds like you found a man, not a boy. Congratulations!!!
2006-06-29 01:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my humble opinion, you shouldn't get married if you have still have questions about your age differences.
2006-06-29 01:35:19 · answer #7 · answered by chicalinda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are over 18 age does not matter, what matters is in the heart as long as you two love each other that is all that should matter
2006-06-29 01:08:12 · answer #8 · answered by she_devil282000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea thats okay but if were twenty and marrying a fifty five i would say you was a mutherfukin golddigger cuz i know if you was that young and he was that old some money was involved but nal you straight congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-29 01:07:38 · answer #9 · answered by HotCaramel2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should be.....does he treat you like a "child"? Are you just getting scared now and looking for a reason to make it not happen?
2006-06-29 01:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by adnerb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋