Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. We have 2 kids (Aniya & Alayshia) and 1 more on the way. This one is a boy. Anyway he is 19 and I am almost 18Because of this baby we think it's time to tie the knot. This is definately our last child.I want to know if you think we should got ahead and get married?
2006-06-28 17:23:55 · 12 answers · asked by ponytail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would wait.dont get married bcuz of the babies.you two are still very young. you can still be good parents wiithout getting married.i met my kids father right before i turned 18 and had our daughter exactly a year later.5 yrs later we had a son.but through the years we grew apart as we got older and we split up at the end of"04". we both moved on to other people but we still loved each other.so now at the age of 26 and 28 we finally got married this year. just make sure your right for each other. good luck
2006-06-28 18:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Moniluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should get married. And you should begin a quick track of maturing. If you always put your husband first, it will work. It won't be easy (marrriage and children rarely are), but it's best for the kids. Just make sure that he is a good person and that he won't do you and your children wrong.
2006-06-28 18:14:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and ask yourself a list of questions. Example...
Is he worthless or is he a real man that provides for his family? can this man hurt me when he is angry? Does he have a good work ethic? He is young but does he have any goals in life? There is more to a marriage than just having sex and babies. Wait on marriage.
2006-06-28 17:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by muchacha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should. Three kids? It'll be kinda hard of you guys don't get married, even though you guys are young. I think things will work out better that way.
2006-06-28 17:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by čŖåŻęĤ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, you have 3 kids together that should tell you something ,and you guys are young, but if you love each other than go for it. good luck it is a big step, but no bigger than having 3 of his babies.
2006-06-28 18:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by she_devil282000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is considered rather shabby to produce children outside of marriage.--- yeah, tie the knot, then get your tubes tied -- three children more on the planet is more than enough for one lady
2006-06-28 17:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS CAREFULLY: DO NOT MARRY HIM. If you guys are that in love it can wait. You would be amazed at how much you grow up and learn. If you guys can grow up and change together then you'll know you can continue your life together. Just wait it out and love will prevail!
2006-06-28 18:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should get married.
2006-06-28 17:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think that's what's best for you then yes it is also better for the kids if you marry it more healthy for you all.
2006-06-28 17:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jojo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good god, your just a kid. Think about what your doing before you act. Good luck
2006-06-28 17:35:46 · answer #10 · answered by army_powerlifter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋