Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2006

I really love her and want her back. I hope that the love we shared is still strong. She is with somebody and I do not think she is in love yet. Need to do what ever it takes to get here back including leting her go. Please HELP!!!! LOST WITHOUT HER

2006-06-28 16:12:49 · 23 answers · asked by Hurting man 1

2006-06-28 16:06:36 · 22 answers · asked by anonymous 2

How did you know that that person was the right one to marry?

2006-06-28 16:00:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents divorced because my mom had an affair with my uncle when I was 11 yrs. old, I feel i could have grown up so much better financially if it never happened. Im 23 now and on been on my own since I was 18 but I think about it atleast once every day, how will I ever get over it???

2006-06-28 15:58:34 · 11 answers · asked by skdfjasl 2

well what if after 8 years the love is gone?

2006-06-28 15:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women what appeals to you more, a guy who has ambition brains and earning potential, but is not perfect in looks. Or a guy who is perfect in looks perfect in looks but doesnt have a job, treats you bad and mooches off of you. Why cant we guys who are not perfect GQ'S find a good woman, for long loving relationships.

2006-06-28 15:52:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I lived common-law with my man for 11 years, we split up and 5 months later, he had a serious vehicle accident, and was put in jail for 1 year as a result. We began corresponding by mail and then phone calls and recently visits. H e will be released in August, and wants us to be a couple again. I love him with all my heart, but before his accident, he had moved in with another woman. She began cheating on him as soon as he was gone and now a new man lives in her house with her. Should I give him a second chance, I am worried that he might want to be back with me because he has no where to go upon his release. By the way she is not the reason we split, she was not even someone he knew at the time. We split because my daughter and young grandson were living with us and he wanted them gone. That issue has resolved itself. I want to give him a second chance but want to do the right thing, for all involved.

2006-06-28 15:48:35 · 24 answers · asked by dawg 3

My husband lied to me about so many things. Some of them were pretty important like his last name changes over the years. His other lies were about random stuff that was not too big of a deal. I am not sure of what to do from now. He has never been too open about his past and i've had to be ok with it. I had learned to accept it, but now i just dont know how to rebuild my relationship with him. Lies has always been a big issue with me, i really cannot take lies, but i love him. We have only been married a couple months and now i am finding all this out. any advice is greatly appreciated.

2006-06-28 15:40:28 · 17 answers · asked by estefany v 3

what can I do, we are so far away and see each other ones a month.His wife its giving him hard time as she wants more then she can have,if I tell him do I help him and myself too, or I should wait till his wife signs one of his proposal.He lives in Arizona, and me in europe.I did not know for 5 months he was married, when he told me via email,I find out after, that I'm pregnant and I sow him 2weeks ago but I could not tell him.I dont want to stress him more than he is already, but we love each other so very much and I'm sure in that.What to do in did I'm hurt happy and confused at the same time.

2006-06-28 15:29:25 · 20 answers · asked by divina 2

2006-06-28 15:28:17 · 7 answers · asked by Amber 1

2006-06-28 15:22:47 · 12 answers · asked by cuttiepie 1

Today my husband & I got into an argument. Basically the whole thing was blown out of proportion and he became more upset with me because I started to ignore him. Is that normal to not want to talk about things?

2006-06-28 15:18:38 · 26 answers · asked by Kristin_Eggs 1

2006-06-28 15:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by Mr.Seeexxxxxy 1

Is it you or your spouse that wants more physical intimacy? And how do you handle the difference?

2006-06-28 15:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by Neerdowellian 6

Heads up~ this is drama...
Would you rather your husband, now ex, who is kind, mature, considerate, generous and respectful, yet a tad boring and doesn't make you want to rip off his clothes....

OR

Your boyfriend, is sweet, caring, affectionate, and loving, who you have awesome sex with, yet doesn't provide security, has some drinking issues and does things that seem immature?

What if you had a child for each of them?

Don't even comment on how crazy it is, because that is a given.

2006-06-28 14:55:21 · 34 answers · asked by ladybug 2

doing term paper on various types of lifestyles marriages i like some input on discipline marriages and d/s marriages the contract agreed upon and how does this discipline make the marriage must better than a traditional marriage.

2006-06-28 14:50:24 · 3 answers · asked by wonderingmind 1

My fiance' has not had any income for about 4 months now. We have 5 kids together and we have been together 7 years. I have been telling him that he needs to get back to work to help support our family, and hey says that he is trying, but to me he is not trying hard enough. He may go out and fill out applications once a week at the most 5 each time. He has no college education and I keep telling him that he needs to learn a trade or something, so that he will be more employable. I have been working my butt off and I am tired of coming home to a messy house and having to do all of the cleaning. Lately when I get home from work, he leaves to go over to his friends house to hang out. I have told him again and again that things need to change. What can I do?? I am at my wits end. I love him, but I cannot live like this much longer. I am tired of being angry and sad all of the time. Oh yeah and the other day he came home with a tatto with my name in his shoulder!!!!!!

2006-06-28 14:48:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother in-law can not stand me. I try so hard to get along with her and make her happy. I always try to respect her even when she obviously trying to disrespect me. I'm afraid this will affect my relationship with my husband. What do I do?

2006-06-28 14:35:58 · 41 answers · asked by butterflykisses_1897 2

My ex husband was not so nice to me from my age of 19 till my divorce at 33. He was involved in drugs, cheated, gambled and terrible with money. We have two kids. He let me and my family down many many times. The last time, after I was pregnant with 2nd child and left, my parents said they were all done giving him chances. They have financially helped me and it took a while but i created a great home where my children are thriving, are in a private country club, attend the camps here and have friends here all because of my parents. My ex finally quit drugs three years later/ 1 year clean & seems changed. He wants another chance. If I gave him one, my parents would never be friendly with him ever again, probally would barely see me or grandchildren and my children would lose all that they have provided & also my brothers/cousins.. In parent's eyes he made too many mistakes. But I still love him. What should I do? Get over him and move on. This decision would greatly affect my kid

2006-06-28 14:34:40 · 11 answers · asked by 22marie22 1

We just got married, isn't there a 90 day grace period or a 100 mile rule i can invoke or something like that?

2006-06-28 14:22:28 · 43 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-06-28 14:21:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

This guy I met at my friends wedding decided to talk to this other girl instead of me first. He claims he really wanted to talk to me but I was busy with my friends wedding. Well he spoke to her for about 6 months and it didn't work. Now I have seen him at a white linen party and we exchanged numbers. She calls him upset I'm I wrong??

2006-06-28 14:15:10 · 1 answers · asked by New k 1

My husband does not kiss me, hug me tell me he loves me. He pays little attention to me. OUr son on the other hand he is the opposite over. When we first got together it was inseperable. Now I feel trapped in this relationship that is very lonely. He pays me attention only when he needs a favor than he is gone again and I am junk. so now I refuse this all together and I am a b####. I feel used and not wanted for other than his needs and wants. I am sorry I have needs too and that is too bad. Course I am being a baby for crying myself to sleep. This entire relationship is a bummer. I have been married to him for 8 years now and it gets colder and colder. wouldn't you feel used? I take care of the children, do the house work, he has a hot dinner in the microwave everynight when he gets home, I also work fulltime out of the house and do volunteer work when called upon by the ambulance. I did the ambulance to get out of the house. He hates me for it.

2006-06-28 14:10:19 · 8 answers · asked by stellaM 2

2006-06-28 14:07:55 · 40 answers · asked by melanie f 1

2006-06-28 14:05:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband, who my son and I have an order of protection against, because of abuse, wants visitation with my son. My son is afraid of him and does not want to see him. The court guardian appointed to my son lied in court and told the judge that my son agreed to see his father. He also did not discuss with me what he was going to tell the court. I signed an agreement for visitation because the guardian told me that my son had told him that he wanted to see his father. When I got home my son was very scared and upset and told me that he never agreed to that. My daughter, who was present when they talked confirmed what my son said. I want to file a complaint against the court guardian because I signed the agreement based on his deception. How do I do this? thank you!

2006-06-28 13:59:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 13:56:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

what a dumb question but, oh well.
I'm bloated and I've already had dinner. I'm simply bored and wanting to get out and just chill.
I barely have any money and I have two girls who are watching tv right now that I will have to take with me.
Oh yes, I'm so tired too.

2006-06-28 13:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by fiestygirl 3

Honestly. It looks like it should be painted yellow or red and sat out on the curb. If it weren't for the balls attached to it, I bet a fire truck would pull up next to it.

2006-06-28 13:46:22 · 7 answers · asked by JoJo Pnuckle 2

2006-06-28 13:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by New k 1