We just got married, isn't there a 90 day grace period or a 100 mile rule i can invoke or something like that?
2006-06-28 14:22:28 · 43 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wow how many people were you trying to piss off
yes there is a 60 day return policy
2006-06-29 09:19:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 4⤋
90 day grace?? 100 mile rule?? Would you have that opinion if it were her ex's?? I would think NOT. Lose the numbers or lose your wife. It isn't much to ask. You made the ultimate commitment to her and now you should show her that you are hers 100%. The only possible reason you could have for even saving these numbers is thinking that they might come in handy later! If that is the case, then you really should have never gotten married to begin with!
2006-06-28 14:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get those numbers off. If those girls were important to you in the first place, you would have married them instead of your wife. Did you include a 90 day period or 100 mile rule in your vows on your wedding day? if not then cut that crap!
How would you feel if your wife had her ex-boyfriends numbers on speed dial. She should be your friend, lover, companion, and everything. Sweetheart, it's about time you started maturing and cutting off that kido stuff.
2006-06-28 15:27:05 · answer #3 · answered by xtreme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you are married, you gave up the right to 'keep ex girlfriends numbers,' just like she did the same for ex boyfriends numbers. Are you 'afraid' that this marriage won't last and that's why you are holding onto the number? Going into a marriage with a '90 day trial period' is the totally wrong attitude. DON'T go into marriage thinking that if you don't like marriage in a certain period of time, you will just leave and divorce that person. Marriage is a lifelong commitment, NOT something to be gotten into lightly. Personally, it sounds to me like you weren't ready for marriage.
I live with my fiance. The ONLY reason he has his ex wife's phone number is because of his kids being there (they are teens). If he didn't have those kids, he would have gotten rid of her number long ago.
So, think about your views on marriage, what you are expecting and not expecting, what you are 'holding onto' by keeping that phone number, then discuss this with your wife. SHE is right in saying that you shouldn't have your ex's number. You are totally disrespecting your wife by keeping the number, and by saying something about a '90 day trial period.'
2006-06-28 14:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The X girlfriends should of been taken off of speed dial way before you got married. If you loved this woman enough to marry her then don't think twice about her request......do it and do it NOW.
If you don't get this then you are in for a rocky road in your marriage. Isn't marriage all about commitment to another person? and that commitment doesn't include other women.
I am worried that you don't get this.
If you love her do everything in your power to make her feel safe and adored. If on the other hand you think having X girlfriends still on your cell phone- I question your maturity and ability to be grown up enough to be a husband.
2006-06-28 14:32:17 · answer #5 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually there is a clause now, you have exactly 45 days from the date of the marriage to get rid of all items pertaining to your exgirlfriends. And, that rule does not apply if you travel regularly more than 250 miles from home for 5 or more days at a time.
2006-06-28 14:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you just come up with that number? You want to start your marriage off right get rid of that number. Fact is you should have deleted it when you got engaged. There's only 2 reasons why you still have it. 1 your trying to piss your wife off, or 2 your not Thu with the ex and then you should have waited before you got married. If you really love your wife you'd get it off your phone.
2006-06-28 14:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to take them off your speed dial! Compromising on an issue like that would be a waste of time, If you really need to get ahold of your ex's that badly and you cant take 3 minutes typing in their number then you shouldnt be married!
2006-06-28 14:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Talia W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you really need to get advice on what to do in this situation???? And what do you mean isn't there a grace period? Marriage isn't like new product you test out for a few months and then return it! I'm fascinated you got someone to marry you at all!
2006-06-28 15:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by Naples_6 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you need 90 days to push delete?
Are you keeping in contact with your ex-girlfriends? Are you thinking you need someone to fall back on when things get tough? Do you seriously think your wife is being unreasonable by wanting that number gone? Do you WANT to make her insecure?
By keeping that number, by refusing to get rid of it, you're telling the woman you just promised to love and to cherish that she's not the only one in your heart.
Perhaps you shouldn't have married her if you weren't sure you wanted to spend the rest of your life with her.
Your marriage is going to be only as good as what you put into it.
2006-06-28 14:35:58 · answer #10 · answered by abbynormal92243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said a vow right? Then why do you need ex girlfriends on speed dial? You don't. You are a married man now, act like one.
2006-06-28 14:29:34 · answer #11 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋