Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2006

my gf is continuously arguing with me because I enjoy flirting with other girls when we are out. i don't see anything wrong with complementing women to make their day. she nags me because i watch t&a movies and pause and slow scenes down to enjoy the beautiful art of the female body. it's not like i want to have an affair or anything...i love this girl...i want to marry her...why does she have to be jealous and insecure?i am a man and i just enjoy making women feel good about themselves by complementing them and my girl claims i am disrespecting and degrading her. i love her and feel like i will lose her beause of this. i don't understand what else i can do to prove my love for her. i do love her.

2006-06-28 03:45:33 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 21/2 years, we've been together for 6 years. He's really nice, but like every other relationship we had problems. Breakups were horrrible fights. I tried moving on many times but if he saw me with someone else he would start following me & scaring off my guy friends. After a couple of years of breaking up and making up I finally decided that I really had to get over the relationship because we were just hurting each other, he knew the things that hurt me and he would do them on purpose when we fought just to make me angry...Or to hurt me. I don't want to make it seem like I did nothing wrong, but honestly you really can't compare the things I do to the things he does, and to make things worst he always gets his family involved. He tells them his story and makes me look bad, then when everyone tells him his better off without me he starts acting like an a**. We break up I try to move on, next thing you know he's treatening my dates, & asking me to take him back.

2006-06-28 03:39:58 · 14 answers · asked by Chris 1

i need to get a copy of my divorce degree from a previous marraige, where would i obtain this & from whom ??

2006-06-28 03:33:21 · 4 answers · asked by sandy 1

My husband and still technically newly weds (in fact i just asked for newly wed advise!). We've been married for 7 months, and so far things have been perfect. But are we doing the things that will build a good marriage? We rarely fight, and when we do we only throw tempers around a short time before we head to different rooms. We spent maybe 20 minutes apart, then we talk things out. We refuse to go to bed angry, and if by chance he takes off for work before things are worked out, its not to long before we are on the phone calling each other to apologize. We realize that at times, we can't both win. And we make deals with each other, that way we both feel like we've won. "If you do the dishes, I'll take care of the mess in the bathroom..". Anything bugging us is always talked out, or brought to the attention of the other person. We say I love you often, constantly working on our sex life, & have a nice finical routine worked out. Are we on the right track?

2006-06-28 03:33:06 · 12 answers · asked by The Girl Next Door 2

Hey standing up for your wife is great, but why do some men go to the extreme with this and let their wife walk all over them and let her disrespect him, his parents, siblings, and close friends? And they do nothing about it because "shes happy"?

2006-06-28 03:29:34 · 9 answers · asked by SSc 1

husband went out both fri and sat and didnt want me with him,so i went out with a friend,on sun found a girls # and i called she said she didnt know he was married so they met up at a bar but nothing happend,should i leave him or get back at him by going out with another guy?

2006-06-28 03:29:32 · 18 answers · asked by jenna leigh j 1

2006-06-28 03:27:43 · 18 answers · asked by ricanprincess 1

My husband had a problem with pain pills, and refused treatment, so i left for the safety of my son and me. After I left i noticed he was calling escort services. I confronted him and he eventually admitted to it, but firmly denies there was any sex that it was just phone calls. I an inclined to believe that, but I still think there was phone sex or something. He has been begging me to come home, and has seeked counseling for his drug problem, but he still shows no remorse for the phone calls to escorts. He never even apoligized til I said said I didnt believe he for sorry for what he did. I told him in order for me to come home we had to get marriage counseling, after debate he reluctantly agreed. I told him I need time to think about things, and he said ok, but is sending me on guilt trips for leaving and taking our son with me. I want to work things out especially for the sake of our son, but I dont know if he has truely changed or recognizes he crossed the line.

2006-06-28 03:26:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have since found out that this woman was previously married and had a child with another man so they divorced and she remarried. I dont know where her current husband is. She by the way is half of my husbands age. He quit his job and left with her. He says it is something that he has to do. I was recently diagnosed with lung cancer. I am on disability and I am not working. He deposits some money into the account on a monthly basis but it is not enough for me and my daughter to live on. (not his kid) My daughter and I are now forced to move and I am not sure if we can make it. I have known this man for 15 years only married for 3. My health wont allow me to work the way that I could before to be able to support me and my daughter. He had previously said that he didnt want to divorce. It has been 3 months now and I cant seem to get my life back. By the way, he carries the health insurance which at this time I so desparately need. What to do?

2006-06-28 03:22:42 · 40 answers · asked by Jane 1

2006-06-28 03:18:13 · 9 answers · asked by fari 2

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Who would you want to marry and start a family with? ... let us say you have to choose a husband/wife ... (between 2 people) ... your choice is between someone who is not college educated but great in bed, in a mediocre dead end job:

... OR one who is college educated and in a good job with good possibilities for promotion etc. but the sex is not good!

Both people have similar qualities ...

All the other qualities are very similar/almost equal; good looking, attractive, well mannered, kind, honest, thoughtful, respecful, good religious/family upbringing, good sense of humour blah blah blah ...

NO ... I AM NOT IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH TWO PEOPLE. I AM HAPPILY MARRIED!! ... THIS IS FOR MARRIED/ADULT CONVERSATION!

2006-06-28 03:15:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 03:13:46 · 20 answers · asked by omar g 2

2006-06-28 03:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by Barbie 1

Does anyone have good advice for newly weds?

2006-06-28 02:58:20 · 15 answers · asked by The Girl Next Door 2

and my daughter, but as friends. And I said no!!! I don't think after 2 years I want to even be friends he broke my heart and I am having a hard time dealing with it. Was I wrong because now he is pissed saying I need to grow up!!

2006-06-28 02:57:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my gal friend is married to someelse for now ...but she loves me ask me to have sex with her as she loves it with me than her husband .wat shall i do

2006-06-28 02:56:25 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 02:53:56 · 45 answers · asked by enigma 2

2006-06-28 02:51:48 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-wife is filing for a child support modification because she states I have been diagnosed as bi-polar. First of all, she is the one who diagnosed me, not a dr. and second I am not bi-polar. Can't afford an attorney. What the hell do I do?

2006-06-28 02:49:22 · 5 answers · asked by thumper36301 1

Been married 12 years, we have nothing in common, sleep in separate rooms, im miserible..hes a good provider and doesnt cheat..Do i give up security to give myself the chance to find happiness or just stay ???

2006-06-28 02:47:09 · 27 answers · asked by LINDA E 2

if you fell in love with a married woman ?

2006-06-28 02:43:58 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have found that many of the men in their 40's are irresponsible and don't know how to cope. That is why women of our generation seem somewhat hardened. We are tired.

2006-06-28 02:42:05 · 6 answers · asked by rosemary83060 1

We are both 30 years old, have been together for 10 years and married for 5 years. There is no abuse or anything else negative. I just think we are 2 different people from when we got married. And I am no longer physically or spiritually attracted to her. May be that we were too young in the first place and didn't know ourselves.

2006-06-28 02:28:50 · 39 answers · asked by John 2

I found some online dating stuff on the computer's history and he says he does not know how it got there as he has not visited any of those sites (uh huh). So why not just admit it, say you're sorry and move on? Why continue to lie? I was at work all day and I KNOW it wasn't me.

2006-06-28 02:12:13 · 10 answers · asked by Lotus 6

2006-06-28 01:59:38 · 7 answers · asked by jasmy2206 2

2006-06-28 01:55:34 · 3 answers · asked by toots 2

2006-06-28 01:46:57 · 27 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3

2006-06-28 01:44:49 · 28 answers · asked by heartfuljoy 2

Single male looking for promiscuous open minded women who would appreciate a man who encourages her to have extra marital sex with other men and or women, while I stay true to her.
Are there any websites devoted to women who are looking for something like this

2006-06-28 01:26:50 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-28 01:25:51 · 25 answers · asked by relaxplease2005 3