Newly Weds?

We are just coming up on our first year of being married. What advice do you look for.

Make sure you spend your quality time together, but not all the time. Dont jump right into financial situations, such as who will pay the bills who will work more.

The best advice I can give you is to take a little time to settle down. We started fighting about 3 weeks after the wedding and it came down to little things of course we made up. Do not let that happen to you. Spend time together, but remember you need time apart. Its a marriage not a business. Work together and support each other

if you do fight this is how you handle it - but 2 dog collars and leashes when you fight you put them on and hold each others leash this prevents you both from running away from the aguement!

2006-06-28 03:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Shannon C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋

The first few years (some say 3, some say 7) are the hardest to make it through. I would suggest holding off on having kids right away. Though lots of practice making them is always good, having them too soon - before you've really established a firm foundation - can be very traumatic for your relationship. Some may think if they've been together for awhile before getting married then its okay to jump in right away, but from experience that's still not a good idea. Marriage, though some say its just a piece of paper, takes some adjusting no matter how long your courtship was.
Also, just enjoy eachother. Pick your battles, don't get into it over every little thing cause in the big picture - whether or not he puts the toilet seat down isn't going to bring you everlasting happiness!

2006-06-28 10:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by liberalmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Listen, listen, LISTEN. You are still in the new phase of your married relationship. Always honor your spouse, saying no ill words about your spouse to another person. Do not let anger build, get your problems out in the open. Always remember what attracted you to the other person, but also remember that passing time can change a person. Blessings upon you both.

2006-06-28 10:01:40 · answer #3 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

The first year is the hardest. Or at least that's the BS that was fed to me.

Talk everything through. E V E R Y T H I N G !!!

2006-06-28 10:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Greta Leigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Don't forget that you are now one person learn to compromise. Through constant communication and expression of each others needs and desires you will learn how and when to give and take.

2006-06-28 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by jopdrza 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Enjoy life

2006-06-28 10:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Nikhil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

Don't let the sun set on your anger.

Talk, communication is a big part inthe realtionship.

Tell them "I'm sorry" even if it is something small.

Tell them "I LOVE YOU"

2006-06-28 10:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by laurieprentice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋

try your hardest to make it past the first 3 years it's hard!! get counseling if any issues arise.

2006-06-28 10:01:21 · answer #8 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋

CONGRATS! AND GOOD ADVISE......ALWAYS KEEP IT SPONTANEOUS BE HONEST,KEEP THE LINES OF COMUNICATION OPEN.AND HAVE LOTS OF SEX............A FRIEND OF MINE ONCE TOLD ME DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO KEEP YOUR MAN HAPPY BECOUSE IF YOU DONT THERES A DOZEN OTHER WOMAN OUT THERE THAT WILL....

2006-06-28 10:04:01 · answer #9 · answered by vallegirl2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

communication,be thoughtfulness of each other.

2006-06-28 10:01:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋

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