2006-06-28 03:08:49 · 30 answers · asked by Barbie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its hard but sometimes you can. and the other times you cant.....piss on them just go home.
2006-06-28 03:09:54 · answer #1 · answered by chevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time and efforts trying to be what your not just to satisfy anyone else...Be the best person you can be and if that turns out to be a honorable and loving husband then the in-laws should not ask anymore of you than that...they may not always agree how you get things done, because your not doing them the way they would but if the results are the same, successful then they shouldn't be able to complain once they understand your all on the same team.
2006-06-28 10:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough satisfying any one. Specifically in-laws. The biggest thing you can do is be yourself. If they don't like you - who cares? It's the significant other that you should be worrying about anyways. If you have an "annoying habit" you might want to curb it around them for a bit.Never change who you are for someone else. In the end you'll only piss yourself off if you do.
2006-06-28 10:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 16 yrs, my mother in law STILL doesn't like me. I think it's because my husband is her only child. The way he put it was, "You could have been the Queen of England (whom I am distantly related to anyway) and still she wouldn't have accepted you. Just know that I love you and what she thinks doesn't matter"
Though we have given her beautiful grandchildren and been together all of this time, she still manages to make comments and do things to make me feel unaccepted. I have had to learn to let it roll off. Besides, my father in law loves me, so she can screw off. They are just trying to protect their child. I figure she doesn't really know me, so why should I care? My concern is her son and our babies, not her. She was disliked by her mother in law too, so maybe she's just dishing out what was handed to her.
2006-06-28 10:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by 0000000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says you have to satisfy them? It's important to be polite, civil and treat them with dignity, but no where does it say you have to make them happy. The only two people in your marriage that have to be satisfied are you and your spouse. Besides, the only people who will make them happy are themselves. Its up to them whether they are satisfied or not.
2006-06-28 10:54:50 · answer #5 · answered by Brenda F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Satisfy your self first and don't let them know everything
that's going on in you and your wife's life.
2006-06-28 10:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMPOSSIBLE my in-laws (specifically mother-in-law) will NEVER be satisfied with me, because i "took her son away"
2006-06-28 10:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Some Lady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by keeping and open mind and encouraging your husband/wife to spend time with them. most people don't get along with their in laws when they try to make them choose or keep them away from their parents. its good to have a healthy relationship with them but it also helps if you encourage them to spend time with them alone. most people i know get along well with their in laws but the few that don't are usually a result of a parent who is unwilling to accept that their child is an adult now with his or her own families or a child who is unwilling to realize that thing. try to keep an open mind and put yourself in their shoes. encourage them to keep a close relationship and they will be more inclined to include you in it.
2006-06-28 10:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by amyclay350 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its impossible..my mother in law is being so rude to me right now, not to forget bout my two toddlers. my hubby has two children with his previous marriage and my mother in law treats them great.. birthday presents christmas presents and presents for no reason. with my two toddlers she dont treat them with nothing. because of me... and also she told me to my face( how could you say that the two toddlers are my hubbys when they certainly are) that they are not my hubbys toddlers. i have try to prove to the mother in law that the toddlers are her grand kids with dna and she told me that there was a mix up on a test... so to make things better for me and hubby and all four children, we have decided to leave hubbys family out of things, birthday party christmas ect partys .. its been working out nicely. best of luck
2006-06-28 10:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by littlechicky_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible.
Is anyone ever good enough for their child, probably not, so don't worry about satisfying them.
2006-06-28 10:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way is making yourself miserable and I don't think you want to do that. Good Luck
2006-06-28 10:12:09 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋