2006-06-28 02:53:56 · 45 answers · asked by enigma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
gurl you should investigate on his *** and if he is cheating on you then leave his sorry ***....
2006-06-28 02:55:59 · answer #1 · answered by dangergurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not overreact to the situation. Look for all the facts before confronting them. How long have you known this friend, what exactly did the friend say to you, is your fiance seeing someone you know. Just take a deep breath and look at things first because if you confront them right away you could cause more problems, if he is cheating on you then you have a bigger decision to make. Sometime they cheat because they get scared of the idea of marriage, trust me it took 4 years to finally get my husband to understand that he did have a child and a fiancee that loved him and that we would take our time with the marriage that is what kept him with me and yes he cheated on me, but i was able to look past that, but sometimes you cant look past that. Truthfully you have to make the decisions most of the answers you get here will sound the same, but it comes down to how do you want to live your life, can you deal with the cheating or do you need to move on and sometimes moving on is better. Good luck!
2006-06-28 03:00:37 · answer #2 · answered by Shannon C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what would motivate your friend to tell you this, and put pressure on the friend to tell you WHO he's cheating with. If the friend is vague this could be just an ugly rumor.
Ask your fiance and gauge the reaction, and know that if a partner cheats before the wedding that person will cheat after the ceremony, too.
2006-06-28 02:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heavily guy, evaluate this a blessing and flow ON. She moved in only 3 months after assembly? in straight forward words to split 3 months later? Then get engaged a month later? Now she believes you cheated on her? She has reduce you off with regard to textual content, telephone, e-mail, etc.? She is loopy. loopy! there are this kind of huge volume of known women accessible, locate genuinely a variety of. you've expressed and defined a lot drama for a 9 month courting. How can this very last in a wedding ceremony? She feels like she's bipolar or manic depressive or who knows what? actually no longer sane. flow on quick and not in any respect look back. good success!
2016-11-29 21:38:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gte sthe facts DONT EVER JUMP 2 SOMETHING UR NOT SURE OF cuz if you heard wrong you'll ruin what you have I know this sounds crazy but follow him dress up differently borrow a friends car and justf follow hime this is your future husband you cant throuw this over your shoulder and forget about it At the time (he was my boyfiend) now were engaged but i heard many things and I used to follow him I dress up like someone different liek throw on baggy clothes wear a scarf over my head go by some glasses and just drive nbehind him and I did this for a month. MAKE SURE YOU TAKE A CAMERA so if he comes that he is you have proof cuz men will turn it around on you and make ulook bad adn youd ont want that
2006-06-28 03:03:42 · answer #5 · answered by C I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the fiance. Do you feel like he/she is cheating? Usually there are suspicious signs of this that you might be just ignoring. Go straight to him and ask. Maybe your 'friend' is just making assumptions. But hey, this person is your FIANCE'!!! ASK...nicely. If it's true...dump them like a hot potato and go buy your friend a drink!
2006-06-28 02:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
calm down 1st
Ive known friends to say things like that and it turns out not to be true
1st find out by your friend who she is were they meet what times etc is she knows he is cheating she will no this
then once you have all the information you need sit your man down and talk you have to find out the truth so don't go screaming and yelling
has he got a cell phone??? if so i no this is wrong but look in his phone book and see if there are numbers of girls you don't no and do some ringing if you have to if you don't think he is telling the truth
but be careful because i have known of friends telling porkies because of them wanting what you have got
good luck Hun i hope he has not cheated on you
respect
shaz
2006-06-28 03:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, can you trust your friend? Second make sure you got it right. Third, if it's true, say bye bye to him. You deserve better and if he's cheating on you now, he will do it again. So before you become Mrs cheated on and have to go through a divorce, just let him go, maybe that's what he needs. Good luck
2006-06-28 02:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by johanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How "should" you react? You should react the way you need to. There isn't any manual out there titled "this is how you should react to every situation", and if by some chance there is....they missed the point of being human. I think its more important to know how you actually are reacting.
2006-06-28 02:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by brattiness73 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can find this out for yourself. Sometimes our so-called friends will say anything to break up relationships that they are jelous of. I would ask your friend how they became aware of the situation and through that you might be able to discern whether your friend knows this first hand or if it is just a rumor.
2006-06-28 02:57:10 · answer #10 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight up if that is the case. Confront the situation, especially if you have doubt. You want to have peace of mind about the situation, especially if you are considering marrying him. You don't want to marry him and then find out something like this. Better to find out the truth for yourself.
2006-06-28 02:58:47 · answer #11 · answered by Lina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋