Marriage & Divorce - 28 June 2006

I'm wondering if anybody out there know if there are pre-marital counselors in the Southern California area that is low cost or free? No ministers please. Me and my boyfriend are contemplating marriage in a few years. Any interns or graduate students interested in counseling in Los Angeles?

2006-06-28 11:06:35 · 6 answers · asked by redgirl 2

2006-06-28 11:02:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married for 4 months, been together almost 4 years. when we first got together he use to smoke but quit. He recently picked it back up again and I really do not like it. (for obvious reasons) I've tried to talk to him but he doesn't want to quit. What do I do????

2006-06-28 11:01:47 · 32 answers · asked by ♥Gïrl¥♥ 5

2006-06-28 10:55:30 · 49 answers · asked by Gretchen H 1

what is your wildest fantasy and would have the guts to do it?

Just asking.

2006-06-28 10:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by maylacson 1

I have been married for 4 and a half years. My husband had very serious family conflict with his parents and financial failiure in the beginning of our marriage. He said he was depressed. We didn't have sex for first 4 years of our marriage. After fighting and arguing, he reluctantly tried to sex (also it was time for us to have baby) He doesn't have sexual interest, sometimes I wonder if he is asexual. Also, first one year and half of our marriage, I was supporting us financially by myself. He could have helped me to make us get by, by getting any job that he could get. But he just told me he applied and can't get a job. (Often I saw him playing video games) My earning was not enough that we borrowed money from various family members and used our wedding money that was given by my parents. He didn't even get me a engagement ring. I still find myself trying to figure out how we can be financially stable by myself. He said he is trying but it doesn't seem like it. We have no baby.

2006-06-28 10:53:44 · 17 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

2006-06-28 10:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by Gretchen H 1

...a man can be completely in love with his wife (satisfied sexually, emotionally, etc.) and STILL will have sex with other women.

2006-06-28 10:51:44 · 12 answers · asked by Brian Y 1

2006-06-28 10:41:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

He has been extra good to me lately, what should I do for him??? GIRLS and GUYS give some things I could try to do.....

2006-06-28 10:39:11 · 16 answers · asked by KJ 1

2006-06-28 10:32:56 · 38 answers · asked by miss-used 1

My boyfriend proposed I said yes. I dont love him. He is a great guy compared to all the jerks I have dated before. He dont drink or smoke. He helps me take care of my 2 young kids. The like him very much. He is a grad student from college. He treats me like a princess & would do anything for me. Im afraid I will not find another great guy like him. Should I just deal with it to have a great husband and a good romodel for my kids. Im only 23 years old.

2006-06-28 10:29:45 · 10 answers · asked by mexchick316 3

2006-06-28 10:23:33 · 17 answers · asked by mainedaddy_2000 1

Why is it that widows/widowers are pressured into "finding someone new". ive noticed that a lot..and it bothers me. Why not just leave them be! if my wife passed and i was left here without her...that's IT. she is my soul mate, my bestfriend. she is THE one. so why is it that people pressure others (widows esp.) into re-marriying??

2006-06-28 10:23:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

And that man can look and gawk but if he catches his wife doing it then she is wrong. So tell me what do you think? A married man gawking at other women like they are a piece of meat. Are all men gawkers?

2006-06-28 10:23:08 · 6 answers · asked by danaispeace 2

Marry the one u love inspite of the so much differences between u
OR
Marry the one who loves u and has lots of common with u

2006-06-28 10:22:48 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

help someone!

2006-06-28 10:19:06 · 8 answers · asked by ray 2

2006-06-28 10:10:24 · 24 answers · asked by KJ 1

2006-06-28 10:10:13 · 5 answers · asked by yetty 1

2006-06-28 09:59:40 · 40 answers · asked by britt16 1

2006-06-28 09:56:55 · 10 answers · asked by MrCw 1

I beleive in GOD,. But there is one thing in the bible that is so hard for me to understand. In the bible it says that if you divorce that you can not remarry becuase the person you marry would be commiting adultry. I know that you can get a divorce in GOD'S eye due to adultry and abuse(and it is not defined as physical, verbal, or emotional). But my thing is what if you are not happy any more and you are being verbally and emotionally abused.
But even if the two of you deside to marry that person would be commiting adultry. But I feel that GOD would want all of his children to be happy.
Can anyone please shead some light on this for me.

2006-06-28 09:55:40 · 25 answers · asked by firecrackertx 2

2006-06-28 09:51:50 · 13 answers · asked by JOANNE E 1

2006-06-28 09:35:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 4 and a half years. My husband had very serious family conflict with his parents and financial failiure in the beginning of our marriage. He said he was depressed. We didn't have sex for first 4 years of our marriage. After fighting and arguing, he reluctantly tried to sex (also it was time for us to have baby) He doesn't have sexual interest, sometimes I wonder if he is asexual. Also, first one year and half of our marriage, I was supporting us financially by myself. He could have helped me to make us get by, by getting any job that he could get. But he just told me he applied and can't get a job. (Often I saw him playing video games) My earning was not enough that we borrowed money from various family members and used our wedding money that was given by my parents. He didn't even get me a engagement ring. I still find myself trying to figure out how we can be financially stable by myself. He said he is trying but it doesn't seem like it. He is very selfish.

2006-06-28 09:31:40 · 25 answers · asked by whattodo898 1

can you tell me method of veginal exercise without kegel device

2006-06-28 09:30:09 · 3 answers · asked by fari 2

brings in the most of the earnings into your home,and controls the spending and how your money is spent is that considered domestic abuse?

2006-06-28 09:24:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would just like to know how does your Marine husband act when he's upset or angry? My husband gets very defensive like he has to attack me back or something, kind of childish, yells, sometimes curses, will hit somthing across the room, or just run away. I'm just trying to figue out how much of this is my husand and how much of this is about the Marine Corp. Do you husbands act the same?

2006-06-28 09:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

after 5 years of trying my husband has been told that he is infertile,has no mobile sperm and can not have kids ever. one option is to use a sperm donor but he refuses, he won't even speak about it. does not consider that an option but I want to get pregnant at least once and adopt the rest. What can I do??

2006-06-28 09:15:07 · 15 answers · asked by ani2525 3

LIVING TOGOTHER .. NOW AFTER 8 LONG YEARS DIVORCE I STILL LOVE HER . WHY?

2006-06-28 09:14:06 · 10 answers · asked by david p 1