you are too young to marry this guy, because you won't be ready for marriage at a young age, you need to wait till' you are older enough where you can make life decisions for yourself, and for your mate.Also you will thank yourself in the future for waiting. (just my opinion)
2006-06-28 10:04:41
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answered by lil curt 1
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There is no right age to get married. You have to decide what is right for you and the life you want. I can tell you that getting married young is hard. One of the reasons that it is so hard is that over the next 5 to 7 years most people your age are going to experience a wide range of things that as a married person you will never get to experience. Also during that time people change a lot and eventually it is possible you will find out that your goals and values have changed and that this relationship is not what you were hoping for. If you get married now you will find out that most of your friends will remain single and that you can't live the same life as them. You will have more responsibilities and different goals and values than them. Marrying young can work out but just realize it takes a lot of work and you have to be willing to give up a lot.
2006-06-28 10:05:04
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answered by rkrell 7
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I waited and do not imagine about it, because it is going to pressure you nuts. purely talk with human beings, make acquaintances and be well mannered to women. they are going to come, per chance gown slightly extra efficient. also get right into a courting it really is severe and do not rush. don't be a A hollow participant and screw each whore which in turn can grant you with STD's and a nasty rep with different females. Amerca is incredibly screwed up even as you purchased those who're nevertheless youngsters ashamed of being a virgin. I waited until eventually eventually 25. this is no longer pathetic, it became a decision and that i'm married to the most alluring lady from that first time. also it type of feels like you want some muscle. pass to the health middle and hit the weights because you look kinda twiggy. also all men lie about getting laid at 12 or 14. and inspite of in the experience that they did, they risked getting ailments sound asleep with a whore. paintings on your self bro.
2016-11-29 22:23:46
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answered by baltrip 4
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You what to know if 18 years old is too young to get married. I can tell you that I got married at the age of 18 years old and I was married to the guy for eight years and I known him for nine years. If you are really ready to get married then go for it. I was glad that I did it. I got two kids out of our eight years of married. So, I don't think 18 is too young to get married. I hope this helps you out.
2006-06-28 10:11:51
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answered by Anonymous
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One thing tells me that you're too young still: You "really like this guy." If you'll give yourself a little more time, your womanly heart will grow and mature just like your body has done ever since you were 13. You can't see it on the outside, but now is when your heart, you emotions, your womanliness, your wifeliness, is just beginning to blossom. You're in the puberty of having the heart of a woman. So give yourself time, and you and your man will be glad you did. Wait until your heart has grown some more, so that you can love much more. If you marry now, you'll stunt the growth of your heart and stay immature forever. It's true -- ask older women who married young.
2006-06-28 10:10:57
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answered by Nanette W 2
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Ladies, we are going to be living until we are 100 years old. Is this the same face that you want to be looking at for the next 80 years? Is he sweet? Does he remember important things like your birthday? Is he kind to your family? How many children do you two want to have? Does he and your friends get along? What type of work will you both do once your marry? Where will the money come from once you get married? Who is going to pay for the rent, cell, electic, and gas bill? The questions are not terribly romantic,,,,but they are what people fight over once they are married.
2006-06-28 11:13:34
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answered by skybabe 1
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My experience...I got engaged at 18, married at 19. We split up after 7 years, divorce was final at 9.5 years. I KNOW I was too young...I allowed myself to miss out on so much by marrying when I was just barely done being a kid.
What's the hurry? Give yourself some time to mature into an adult, and find out who you are and what you want out of life. There is PLENTY of time to get married...and although they are "undoable", it's a lot more difficult than just breaking up with a boyfriend.
2006-06-28 10:02:58
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answered by . 7
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you are wayyyyyyyyyy too young. be engaged for a really long time. look think of it this way, its a 'for better or worse' deal, think of the worse and if you really want to deal with it. i always use this example: if he was in an accident of some sort and you had to spend your life supporting him, feeding him and changing his diapers would you still want to be with him? what if it happened on the honeymoon not after you spent years building your life together? THAT is marriage, not fun and sex and spending time together, marriage requires that level of love, devotion and committment.. even if something like that doesn't happen you need to know that if it did the other would still be there if it happened to you and that you would be there if it happened to him. anything less is just for 'now' and not for a lifetime. people fill their heads with fairy tale ideas of how life can be, anybody can be happy and stick it out living in a fairy tale, if you love that person so much that you couldn't be without them even if life was anything but a fairy tale then think about it, even then think again. good luck!
2006-06-28 10:14:00
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answered by dappersmom 6
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Too young...live your life...you will always have the chance to get married...your 18 only once
2006-06-28 10:01:43
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answered by Anonymous
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Too young
2006-06-28 10:03:07
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answered by LovelyMe 2
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