2006-06-28 10:55:30 · 49 answers · asked by Gretchen H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm sorry...is there a problem here?
2006-06-28 10:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, consider yourself bless that you husband want to touch and rub on you and stop your complaining. All that means is that he is really into you. If the rubbing and touching does not have to always lead to sex, relax and enjoy the admiration.
2006-06-28 11:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should touch him and rub him as well...if you love each other
Nothing is so good to do like this when really exist the love between the couple
2006-06-28 11:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by why not 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you failed to mention your age and how long you've been married. most women would be glad if their husbands touched them. Even once in a while. "don't look a gift horse in the mouth". would you rather he touch someone else? i say get used to it. he obviously has a need to manhandle you and since its in an affectionate manner, roll with it. if you truly are repulsed by his touching you, then maybe you really don't love him afterall and should end the relationship, especially before kids come into the picture. or you could simply talk to him in a gentle manner and explain your feelings to him. maybe you give off a signal to him that its ok or "HE'S" LOOKING FOR AFFECTION FROM YOU". is it because your "dead in bed?" Frijid? somethings not right and i think you should look at yourself FIRST!
2006-06-28 11:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by pete cochino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see the problem...a husband should be interested in his wife. The only things I can see as a problem is if he is obsessive or doing inappropriate things in public. If this is the case simply talk to him and express how much you love his attention but that there are times when it makes you uncomfortable. When you do this make it clear when the right time and wrong times are because you don't want him to think your rejecting him.
2006-06-28 11:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's doing it in public or something and it makes you uncomfortable, tell him. A man who doesn't stop when asked has a serious problem and needs counseling.
If you NEVER want to be touched by your husband, then I'm afraid YOU have the problem and need counseling.
2006-06-28 11:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kya Rose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touch and rub him right back.... See how he likes that! He'll soon get the message. You'll show him it's not all fun a games.
2006-06-28 10:59:55 · answer #7 · answered by rudytute 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a sexual or emotional overtone? Some guys like my husband are like that and I love it. It's just him showing affection. Unless he believes this is pre sex, I wouldn't worry about it. Its rare that you find men who like to pay attention to their wives. If it makes you feel uncomfortable then you should discuss it and perhaps tell him when its comfortable to you. You know set up boundaries for when its ok....Never the less he is your husband, talk to him!!!
2006-06-28 11:01:07 · answer #8 · answered by Glynis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile
2006-06-28 10:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by bkybdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should enjoy it while he is doing it. because he will get tired of you complaining and stop doing it all together most women would love to have there husband touch them
2006-06-28 13:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by casandra m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think yourself lucky you have someone who likes to touch and rub you and remember it won't last forever and then you'll be complaining that he neglects you.
2006-06-28 10:58:53 · answer #11 · answered by mr2demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋