Women, do you prefer a guy who is a good to them but is not perfect in looks.?

Question

Women what appeals to you more, a guy who has ambition brains and earning potential, but is not perfect in looks. Or a guy who is perfect in looks perfect in looks but doesnt have a job, treats you bad and mooches off of you. Why cant we guys who are not perfect GQ'S find a good woman, for long loving relationships.

Answer 1

Many people, men and women alike, are shallow. You have a handful out there who can't see beyond an outter shell to the beauty within. I have known men, who upon initial meeting were very attractive but after opening their mouth became less than desireable. I have also known men who may not be "Mr. Perfect" from other's point of view won me over because of who they are and what they stand for...but most importantly, how they were with me. "Ugly" people can become beautiful once their heart is seen. "Beautiful" people can become ugly the same way.

For me it isn't about what a man drives, where he works, where he lives, how much money he has, what he looks like, etc, etc. It's about who he is, what he stands for, how I feel when I am with him, how I feel when I am away from him...and most importantly, ABOVE AND BEYOND everything else, how they treat me. I said this before in one of my answers on here, but I believe it in need of repeating in this answer: I do not mind struggling WITH someone, but I will NOT carry someone who is capable of carrying themselves.

As for why the "less than perfect" guys "can't find" a good woman, perhaps you are looking too hard or looking in the wrong places. Sit down and evaluate what you find yourself attracted to. Does she have to be runway material? Do you find yourself never looking twice at the "homely" looking woman in the corner? Just remember, there is beauty in every ugly duckling, just takes that special person to see beyond the outter shell. Good luck.

Answer 2

I don't know how old you are, but I know that when I was younger. It was just like that. With the guys and girls. All about looks, almost never cared or asked about if they had a job or any ambition ect. Just wanted to date the hot ones. Although the good news is it gets better I think. At least I know I grew up and figured out what really truly matters in a person. Of course there has to be an attraction there. But I guess eventually most grow up about those kinds of things. Anyway I hope I helped. :)

Answer 3

The first thing I look for in a guy is this - does he love God with all his heart, mind, and soul? The second is this - does he treat others (whomever he come in contact with) with kindness and respect, to thier faces and behind thier backs? Next is this - does he respect me as a person and woman? All three of these things are personality and character consideration. While I notice what the guy looks like; I quickly dismiss the outward appearance and look inward to his character and personality. I don't look for the GQ's. I look for the Good Samaritans. There is a lady out there for you, keep your chin up!

Answer 4

Looks aren't everything - but if you love someone they are the sexiest thing in the world to you. So, I would have to just go with my heart and not judge a book by it's cover - a guy with learning potential, who attends to my needs in bed and out of bed, but that maybe has some flaws here or there - would be much better than having a self absorbed, "perfect" looking type of guy.

Answer 5

Some women just want a person who is good looking to make them look good, but a real women dont look for looks in a man all the time they really want someone who they could just hang with and be alright and have a good time. Yeah they want someone who could tret them right, they could have some knowledge but as long u treat them right ur in.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

I personally like a man that knows how to treat me. Looks fade, and I look for someone with a brain and can talk. Problem is they're all looking for Pamela Anderson. So believe me you're not in that boat alone.

Answer 8

I would rather have a guy that treat me good then a guy that treat me like s**t. because looks good away love never leaves. it is hard enough taking care of myself, taking care of a mooching man is not in my plans.

Answer 9

That's a hard choice sweetie, i think the brains count more, about not looking perfect, well there's always a solution to that!

Answer 10

personally a guy who is on the okay to not that cute side but knows where he's going in life and treats women like the Queens that we are would get my royal treatment any day rather than Mr. pretty boy with no real goals in his life, but wants to sit on my couch and treat me like scum.