You are not happy, no one knows you are cheating, (you are a 1-2 year cheater with more than one person.) You kick your spouse out & is gone for about 1mo or 2, your "spouse" comes back to "visit", you get his cell phone bill there is many 20+ min. calls to one number, you call it and it is your same gender on the other line. You find it is the same person they had only "talked" to that other time you kicked 'em out. Now you are upset and are really saying you want a divorce! Because YOU THINK they are now cheating on you. You call your spouse and let 'em know that you know they are "talking" to someone else and they "hang up". You call 'em the next day and the cell is now disconnected! Am I the Victim NOW??
2006-06-28 16:38:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To put it bluntly, you are both lowlifes and you deserve each other and the misery you provide each other. Cheat on!
2006-06-28 16:41:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u r the winner now u know for sure and your going to file for divorce change all your bank account info u may move change all passwords to whatever hehas of your and your locks on cars and home change alarm system info go get a new hair do wardrobe hit the gym girls nightout party on weekends take a trip here and there change house and cell phone number girl live it up he's no good u dont need him u both have hurt each other time to move on sad songs and days goodbye happy time hello good luck let the next b*** deal with the headaches
2006-06-28 23:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading this right, you cheated first right? If that's the case no you are in no way a victim. How can you even get mad at him for trying to find someone who is going to be faithful to him. If you kicked him out, you have no authority to tell him that he cannot have other relationships. You can't keep kicking him out and expect that he is going to keep coming back and wanting to be with you. If you've got other people why do you even care if he;'s seeing another woman?
2006-06-28 23:44:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're both cheating? This is a case of the pot calling the kettle black isn't it? No you're not the victim, you have just got a little taste of what it feels like to be on the other side of the coin.
2006-06-28 23:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you kicked them out it is none of your business who he talks too you women think u can have it both ways gt a clue you kicked him out thats means he can talk to or for that matter screw who he wants to
2006-06-28 23:46:00 · answer #5 · answered by wtf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This marriage ended a long time ago!
Let it go! Move on with your life and make the best of it.
Don't screw around... what comes around goes around. Deal with it!
2006-06-28 23:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are both cheaters and liars, end this pointless relationship and both of you move on.
2006-06-29 07:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude........but what??????????
2006-06-28 23:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by Ron T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋