I been married for 6yrs and had 2 kids. I feel that I had lost my trust in my hubby when I found out that he been calling those online prostitutes and visiting night clubs during the birth of my 2nd kid. I did confront him and the reason he gave is due to peer influence. After this incident, I start to check on him and making a nuisance of myself. I had the feeling that he is switching off from the relation as he had been working for 2 jobs in order to avoid any ‘conflicts’ at home. I think I had done my part as a wife and mother for my 2kids; I need to work in the day and doing house chores during the night. At times, I do wonder what have I done to deserve all these! What should I do to maintain this marriage or is high time I should just let it go……
2006-06-28 17:56:22 · 6 answers · asked by MissS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to talk to your husband and be honest with him about how you feel. Your marriage can be saved as long as you are both on the same page and willing to put in the work to get your relationship back where it needs to be. That basically means getting your friendship and relationship with your husband back, and also working on your communication. The fastest way to do that is to see a marriage counselor.
2006-06-28 18:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad to see such thing happen to your marriage. I think both of you should have a talk to each other and clear the air.
If your husband is not interested in doing so, then maybe both of you should be separated for while so that you can cool down and identify the path that is most suitable for you ( I don't mean divorce)
If things can work out well, it actually benefit the children more than anybody else.
All the best to you
2006-06-29 08:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a little time apart would help. I am not saying that filing for divorce is the answer yet just a seperation. This would give you unbiased time to evaluate your own life and help you to decide if he is truly what you want. 6 years is a long time to give up on so try to work this out first. The time apart will also give your husband time to do what he thinks he wants and allows him to see what life without you would mean. It may make him wake up to all that you do. Hopefully this will make him wake up and if not then you will know for certain if this is built to last. Good luck.
2006-06-29 02:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by lvb524 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby would never treat me so bad, if he wanted out or wasn't getting something from me that he needed, we would talk it over before we start hurting each other. It sounds like your hubby is not interested in working it out, he is already hurting you. Just leave him and move on.
2006-06-29 01:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by qtee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. Some men just never grow up!
2006-07-06 06:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by cecimad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your state of mind and your emotions. Are you happy? If not you need to leave.
2006-06-29 03:28:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋