what do u think about ppl who leaves their spouse 4 another person?

Question

i think they r stupid an they should think b 4 they leave them cuz they could b throwing away a good relationship.

Answer 1

i think if its an abbusive relationship then they should leave, but if u just leaving 2 b with some 1 else then u r wasting your time cuz the new person could always leave u and then u will regret it and it will b 2 late 2 go back to your spouse u left.

Answer 2

I suppose it depends. A marriage doesn't always turn out to be a good relationship. What if you realized your spouse isn't the person you thought he/she was? Maybe they turned into alcoholics or druggies after the marriage. Then, leaving your spouse for another person would be a great idea.
But then again, in my opinion, most people who leave their spouses are irresponsible and in all likelihood throwing away a stable relationship.

Answer 3

It depends on why they left their spouse. Some leave to escape abuse in one form or another, some leave because the person is cheating on them first, some leave because they are jerks who got some thing on the side. Can't generalize though, each relationship is unique and the reason(s) they end are all different.

Answer 4

it depends if that person is in a very violent relationship and someone kindly shares his grief and deep affection better than his spouse offers.

also, if the other half have another agenda in life, like gambling, neglect to the children, put down of the in laws, humiliation of other half's physical handicapped, constant badgering when she lost all her money, the other will turn into someone who is sweet, caring and understanding his situation.

one already leaves but the other remain..i know these people, i feel them. they do exist and its real. they are not stupid, they are those special people who needs our understanding as well.

Answer 5

I think people should make sure that their spouse is someone that makes them want to stay with them and not leave them for another. It is sad when marriages fall apart and even more sad when it involves a third party. If you truly love and respect your spouse, leaving them for another is not even an option.

Answer 6

I think the person who is getting the leavee should watch out b/c however he/she left the spouse they wil eventually leave the new person the same way...its an ever going cycle......never a good idea...

Answer 7

Well, when I got married (and most likely most married people) I took vows. We looked into eachothers' eyes and said "till death do us part."

If someone is leaving their spouse for someone else, they're breaking their marriage vows. If someone told me (when I was single) that he was leaving his wife for me, I would've asked him how I can expect him to take our marriage vows seriously if he is so blatantly breaking them with his current wife. Well, I wouldn't have been dating him in the first place, but I'd tell him not to leave his wife. If he insisted, I'd tell him to go ahead...and keep on going!

Answer 8

they are ho hos! they are small small people with no character or personality to own up to their mistakes or what they did or have done...they are nasty people, who typically feel themselves righteous and wronged in every sense! they have social disorders and think that the world is against them in every way when really, they are their own worst enemy and they make everyone else around them, who still have to be around them, pay....it sucks! and the ones that suffer the very most are the dissolusioned children who suddenly realize that their cheater lame parent 'caused the affect of why they have to live the way they do now, and the children suffer with mental anguish over also being wronged by the nasty cheater parent.

Answer 9

Well then again their relationship could be shakey or maybe that relationship was bad. Example Johnny Cash left his first wife for June Carter and they had a great life.

Answer 10

I think that they will reap what they sow, as will the person they left with. One of life's ultimate lessons: The reason the grass is greener on the other side of the fence is because there is more sh!t to fertilize it with.....