Marriage & Divorce - 16 June 2006

I have talked to her ex, and he says she was awesome in bed with him. (He made a few ammature porn films w/ other gorgeous girls be4 her, so he has a rep of being good in bed). She says my fascination with collecting porn and drawing flawless women while I'm still w/ her makes her feel miniscule. Is it possible maybe I don't make her feel beautiful like her past lovers obviously have?

2006-06-16 11:40:28 · 6 answers · asked by whoremonger 1

i told him that if he wants to keep me he has to forget about the mistake he made behind my back that means forgetting about the child, and everything that goes along with it, am i wrong in saying so, weve been married for 6 years, he cheated last year because i left the country for 8 mos on business. he just found out that this ho was pregnant by him and recently concieved a baby boy shes not in this country with us nor is the baby she in jamaica, just wanna know if im wrong because i cant live with the fact that my husband of 6 years concieved a child by someone else, if i havwe to accept it than we are finished, because i love him to much to have these feelings keep haunting me, hes willing to forget. answers please desperate

2006-06-16 11:37:22 · 9 answers · asked by jayrok027 2

2006-06-16 11:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by melodym28_99 2

It was in small European town, I picked her up in a small slizy bar. she is from Italy. we had great night and day together and in the next night I lost a bet to her - promising to marry her if i lose.

what to do now? should I marry her or should i break my word? I

I don't know nothing about her although the time together was the best of my life.

2006-06-16 11:35:26 · 11 answers · asked by jb1220jb 2

2006-06-16 11:33:44 · 8 answers · asked by slape78 2

I have been married for a year and a half and I am just no happy in the marriage my husband does a lot for me and for some reason I am just not happy I have thought of getting a divorce because I am not happy. He has not cheated or done anything of that nature I am just not happy I try to act like it but not possible. What should I do??

2006-06-16 11:22:23 · 9 answers · asked by ~Ms Eli~ 3

2006-06-16 11:09:11 · 9 answers · asked by rimorchione 3

I just want a guys perspective on this.My husband met me at the gym and persued me for months.I finally went out w/ him.He did everything he can to make it super romantic.I gave him my virginity.We got married, had a kid.I finisshed school and concentrated on my family & him & got a great job with benefits for the family.Then he got a job w/ the movie studios and started making fun of me with his friends for not having experince in bed and then cheated on me w/ another girl het met on the set.The same guy who used to say I was so "pure" for saving my self for one man.Anyway, I moved out and now he wants me back and he left that girl.What's the deal? I just need a guys opinion since I'm contemplating on starting a new relationship eventually with this other guy (currently my friend) who is waiting for me untill I get it together. Just trying to figure out where I went wrong.

2006-06-16 11:09:04 · 15 answers · asked by kelly 2

my boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half years but 3 months into the relationship he slept with someone else.i love him to bits but i refuse to be gullable,since i found out about it a left him for a week and then decided he knows hes been stupid by the way he begged me to come back,since then we have got a baby together.i trust him 90%but there is the 10% that says id be stupid to think he will be faithfull forever.....what do you think i should do,end it now or forget the one off?

2006-06-16 11:08:21 · 20 answers · asked by sanders_sammy 2

i play softball twice a week with a group of older guys. im talking like from 60-80 years old. my husband is actually jealous of these guys! he started taking off work on the days i play so he could keep an eye on me. my husband is 39 and im 44. obviously i like younger men not older. do u think this is as rediculous as i do?

2006-06-16 11:05:49 · 15 answers · asked by scooter trash 2

I know someone who lies, even when the truth would be better. Its usually little things like his conversations with friends r smething small. Never anything huge like infidelity. He used to lie all the time. He's forever pointing his eyes to the right when confronted, (a sign of the creative right brain working, I've heard). And when he's caught, or at lease accused, he gets overly defensive and tries to turn it around on me. We've come so close to parting ways over this. Now he says he's really working on telling the truth 100% of the time. (But he's a liar, remember? So who can really believe him?) Plus, who has to "WORK" at telling the truth? Seems to me that there would be no work at all in being truthful. Deception would take more creatitivity. So what can I do? I'm sick of feeling so crappy about myself,... like I don't eve deserve him to show me at least the respect of looking me dead in the eye and just telling me the truth. This is crazy. Can you ever change a liar?

2006-06-16 10:46:37 · 14 answers · asked by tracy_0229 3

My husband and I have been separated for over 2 months, because of his methadone addiction. Anyway, he finally called our daughter who turned 3 yesterday to wish her a Happy Birthday at 10:15pm. I thought he was calling too late, so I didn’t answer the phone. Why call his daughter now and at such a late hour! He left a message wishing her Happy Birthday and that he loves, misses her and how he wishes he could be with her. Was it wrong of me not to answer the phone? Should I feel bad that he didn’t get to talk to her?

2006-06-16 10:35:29 · 34 answers · asked by September 2

My spouse spends most of his time away from home. He sometimes is gone for 8-10 hours after his shift is over at work. I know he helps his parents on occasion but 8 to 10 hours on a daily basis?? I want to get out so bad. But I am afraid.

2006-06-16 10:34:58 · 11 answers · asked by I love winter 7

when it comes to separation (be it legal, or not) does the father have a right to gain full custody of his children and what are the conditions? what if the child is around 8 or 9 and old enough to decide who he/she wants to live with -- let's say one of the parent is unemployed, but the child prefers to live with that parent, will this be honored?

2006-06-16 10:30:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

he says he loves me and says that my body has nothing to do with it he is only 37 years old i've been in some bad relationships and he is the first man that gave me my first orgaisiam i was 38 years old and i cant let it go i want him to make love to me all the time this man has me crying after sex thats how good it is to me he says that the reason he dont want it all the time is that when we do it its very special and he dont wanna get gourge out on it should i get upset with him are let it be and no he anit cheating im disable so he is home with me everyday he is a very good man and i dont want sex to cause us to seprate.

2006-06-16 10:30:11 · 6 answers · asked by teressis_freeman 2

2006-06-16 10:28:16 · 10 answers · asked by Kenny ♣ 5

going out or doing certain activities of which he does not approve? They are not illegal activities and will NOT affect the child. Also, what about the ex-husband telling the ex-wife not to ask his family members to watch the son either? because he thinks ex-wife is engaging in said activities, whether this is true or not, does it matter? Isn't my time my time? As long as our son is not abused or neglected, does it matter if I want to date a woman? Does it matter what sexual proclivities I have?- as long as they are not illegal or harmful to others? If it matters, then tell me why? I think he is just being controlling and jealous. Jerk. But that's just my opinion. What's yours?

2006-06-16 10:28:03 · 7 answers · asked by sundrizzler 2

2006-06-16 10:20:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Or is it where they filed papers that would dictate the divorce requirements? MD has a law that states you have to be seperated for a year before you can file papers? But wouldn't they be a CO resident??

2006-06-16 10:03:29 · 9 answers · asked by COblonde 3

2006-06-16 09:58:18 · 37 answers · asked by BeachGirl 2

My friend brought a good point cuz I dont like my step-mom. And, she was like dont she have 2 adopt you 1st so you can be her step-daughter. And thats a good point. Does she? Or when my Dad got re-married she automatically became my step-mom.

2006-06-16 09:56:14 · 5 answers · asked by soccer_chick_1530 1

Would like to hear response from someone knowledgeable about Catholicism.

Catholic wife discovers Catholic husband's 11 mo affair. She informs entire family, has him visit priest for absolution & cut-off affair.

Husband tells other woman (OW) he cannot divorce wife (they have 2 kids) because of duty & moral absolutes (i.e., no divorce). He loves wife, but is not in love with her. He loves OW, but cannot divorce wife. He is sorry. No contact for 2 - 3 mos.

Husband reinitates contact with OW a day after he & wife return from "Retrovaille" weekend (Catholic-based 'marriage encounter' for troubled marriages) which teaches principal that "Love is a decision." He tells OW he has decided to love wife & is trying very hard to do so, but feelings for OW have not changed. He is sorry. More time passes: 2-3 mos.

Husband again contacts OW that feelings for her have not changed. Says love for OW is non-decisional, meaning he feels it without having to try. He wants to see OW again.

2006-06-16 09:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by Randa 3

I've been divorced for a couple years, my ex is remarried, and my fiance lives with the kids (6 and 8) and myself. I have always faithfully taken the kids to pick out xmas, birthday and father's day gifts for their dad....sometimes we just make him something special. I think this is an important thing to teach the children and I think it should be taught by us parents. My ex doesnt' do the same in return, nor does he even remind my children to say Happy Birthday or whatever (my fiance has started doing this recently) He doesnt bother to find out if someone else is taking care of it. His birthday just passed and for the 1st time the kids and I got him nothing. I dont' feel this is right, but I'm trying to make a point to him (which I dont' think is working). Do I buy him a father's day gift and be the better person, or just leave it up to someone in his family to go out of their way to do it(he and his family hate my fiance, but I have no prob with his wife).

2006-06-16 09:55:22 · 13 answers · asked by paintgirl 4

If my chick tells me she needs me to leave her alone cuz it's too painful for her, and that there is a very real and good chance we would end up together if I don't(her words) and she doesn't want that to happen, why should I if I can win her back???We broke up 5 weeks ago and were supposed to be married this week. I don't see what the problem is. Love is emotions precipitated by action. Once you begin to act lovingly, the emotions are sure to follow. what's the problem here?

2006-06-16 09:54:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 09:42:48 · 22 answers · asked by stephie5555 2

Man~ Woman, what is it that makes us love each other?

2006-06-16 09:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Simply Red 1

do you think a couple married 10 years, 4 kids would/should have sex a week? Honest answers please.........

2006-06-16 09:33:35 · 25 answers · asked by bart26262 1

if you are dating a married person, why do you assume your not cheating?

2006-06-16 09:32:36 · 15 answers · asked by Blonda 4

he is just using to make her think he is more into the relationship than he actually is ? I was told some time back that if a man tells you he will never marry you, he means it. So should wanting marriage and kids be believed ?

2006-06-16 09:27:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 09:25:24 · 26 answers · asked by bigblock_475_hp d 2