Marriage & Divorce - 16 June 2006

2006-06-16 09:21:49 · 14 answers · asked by twinsmom 2

Anyone you think, from celebrity to your next door neighbor

2006-06-16 09:20:45 · 15 answers · asked by SOG Wrath 3

I am trying to help my friend. She has confided in me and asked for advice, but I am unsure of what to say. She had an affair with a much older married man at her workplace. She is 25. He is 51. He started out by pretending to mentor her on the job and following her around all the time. He fed her a bunch of lies saying that he hated his wife, wanted a divorce, etc. Those were all lies, but my friend can be naive. Eventually they ended up in an affair where he used her. I told her to break it off and she finally did 2 months ago. But the guy still tries to call her like 15 times a day. He doesn't give up even though she never answers his calls. Now she feels that she should tell his wife. She drafted a letter to the wife along with email evidence from the guy. I think she should go ahead and send it. I think my friend should speak the truth and let the wife know. What do you all think? Please don't tell me to lecture her about ethics since I've already done that! Thanx in advance!

2006-06-16 09:12:23 · 15 answers · asked by Chrissy V 2

I want to know someone & he is away "in another country "& we get to talk 30 min every 2 weeks & it is very hard to ask the right questions without borring him .......... pls. post any ideas about irregualr questions which can be easily answered & can allow me to discover his personality.......... Thank you for sharing

2006-06-16 09:08:30 · 2 answers · asked by nouga 1

ok, so im getting married in a couple months, and thinking of having my fiance use his old wedding band instead of buying a new one. i mean, its just a ring, and mine is new and pretty, and he does not care, and its a really nice ring. what do you think?

2006-06-16 09:01:51 · 27 answers · asked by Blonda 4

Need answers like, if I call using my US cell phone, with an international prefix show on caller ID, and any other suggestions for being on the down low.

2006-06-16 09:00:57 · 47 answers · asked by Playboy 2

Am I loosing out?

2006-06-16 08:49:45 · 24 answers · asked by lici05 1

2006-06-16 08:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by RockOn! 1

2006-06-16 08:41:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 08:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my husband of five years are living in seprate houses. He says now that i am the only one he wants to be with. I caught him writting other girls on myspace and sharing personal feeling with those girls. So i left him. Now he doesn't log on to myspace anymore and he changed his whole profile to show me and our children. I don't know what to do anymore because i still love him but i want him to change and only be interested in me . Not sure if that will ever happen though its been five years and we are still fighting over the same things we did when we first go married.

2006-06-16 08:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read it in cosmo that some types of birth control lower a girls sex drive... I recently changed my pills, and for the past two months I have had like NO sex drive.. I thought something was wrong with me? Has anyone else had this experience? I am afraid that our sex life is going down the tubes...What can I do to help it and our bond?

2006-06-16 08:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by sour_apple 4

Found out I was pregnant in Oct 05.He cheated in Dec 05. He meet a girl that worked at his bank.He asked for her # & come to find out they meet up twice or maybe three times.Once to Starbucks, another time he actually picked her up & took her to Olive Garden and he also bought her a Tiffany necklace for Christmas. I found out by reading his text messages.The started talking Dec. 9th & that ended on Dec. 26, when I called her & comforted her.She said she had no idea and that he never mentioned that he was married, let a one that i was three months pregnant. He was furious when he found out I called her. I felt like I was the one that did something wrong. I begged for him to stay and he did. Looking back I wish i rather have just let him go. It's been so hard to let go. It hurts more because it happen while pregnant with our first child. I still am, due July 23rd.I know I choose to stay w/him, but it's so hard to deal with the hurt sometimes.Why did he do it & why while me being preg.?

2006-06-16 08:17:54 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 08:00:54 · 22 answers · asked by me29876_ 2

My husband would rather give up his rights to our two beautifull kids that pay child support. does any one know what that means for him and if he would still have to pay child support? I really would perfer just to get him out of their lives but i need some info. please help. dont know if it verrys by state but im in Wv.

2006-06-16 08:00:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 07:56:25 · 14 answers · asked by shera 1

Ok, 10 years I have been in this relationship and there are 2 kids involved. This is my problem. It has always seemed to be that we alternate our moods. When I am in a good mood, he isn't and visa versa. My question is this....When a guy is doing the pushing away and in a bad mood, what is a good way to handle it. I know being aggressive doesn't help anything but sometimes it can be hard to just sit back and take it. What do you do when it is their mood swing time?

2006-06-16 07:51:37 · 9 answers · asked by Michelle F 3

I've been married three years now and since day one I've been dealing with bullshit. Why? dont damn know..myanbe cuz i was too young when i got married..but 3 months after I got married I had a miscarriage then a month later I found out he had a baby on the way, after baby was born startin sendin emails to baby mama talkin bout love her and ****, few months after that kicked me out and moved them in, moved back in months later, same emails, still cheating, i get pregnant, never home, gets deployed, while deployed find out the baby mama got pregnant AGAIN, baby the same age as mine...still accepted it still with him, dont think im inlove with him no more, just love him cuz he baby daddy..constantly says I love u to me then says to her once im sleep..disrespectful, verbally abusive.....im getting too old for this ****..what do you say...enough?

2006-06-16 07:36:16 · 27 answers · asked by sexyhester0603 2

Living in a state where most marriages happen at 21 for guys and 19 for girls ( not kidding - its completely true) I have a question for the rest of you who live in normal states.
This is really complicated. His religious beliefs dont let him sleep with anybody until marriage, not even do anything that can be considered fooling around etc. He is an amazing guy, very smart, handsome, funny, knows where he's going in life. I like his religion more or less, but am not That much into it. I am willing to let him do it though and even occasionally go with him to church. I really like the rules that forbid him to drink and smoke, etc. so that religion is GREAT for some things. but Im on fence about it, - I love him and want to marry him, but an opinion from the rest of the world - if I dont know anything about his sexual drive/ behavior/ preferences and wont be able to find out till after marriage - is it worth it? Do you think that is an important thing to know before tying the knot?

2006-06-16 07:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jackie 4

my attitude and my yelling is about to cause my divorce! help find find ways to control it please!

2006-06-16 07:27:45 · 14 answers · asked by Maribel 2

My husband and I are married for 9 years and have 2 kids. The last 4 years had been a nightmare, but we made it through. He had issues with his family which he took it out on me. The turning point was when I finally fought back. I admit I am a person of extremes - all or nothing. I thought things were worked out and okay, now (after a year) he says he doesn't know if he can forgive everyone involved, me and him included and doesn't know if he loves me. I say you either love someone and want to spend the rest of your lives together or you don't. He claims love is not that simple.
We made it through h*ll and now we can't seem to make it through the day-to-day. I feel petty for sticking out the rough patch and being willing to give up now. I am afraid I will regret it if I leave, but am also afraid he is staying for the wrong reasons.

2006-06-16 07:10:41 · 14 answers · asked by Jill M 3

I always took for granted that we were happy. boy was i wrong. about 6 months ago after an argument over the phone, my wife reveled that she was not sure if she wanted too stay together. Its wierd but now i relize that all along ive not been there for her. Weve tried too live in seperate rooms for a time. I thought this was over when she said it was but always knew it wasnt. i get very emotional when talking to her about this professing my love and the want to continue foward but i dont think she has much interest in this or at the very least wants more time. i am now living out of a suitcase which is miserable and dont know how much time i should allow before making a desion. she says she still loves me and needs time to sort out "things" in her mind. we have always been faithful to one another so i do not think it is someone else. our tenth anniversary is coming up soon and i would like some help.

2006-06-16 07:08:47 · 18 answers · asked by vader1779 1

My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half. Now, he doesn't talk of any future wedding date. We had a marriage license and it expired. He was the one who brought up marriage then he said I was pushing him and he wasn't ready. We live together and are expecting a baby in a week or two. He's really into porn. I've talked to him, cried about it and he still continues to do it. He hides it and lies about it. Last night I caught him in the second bedroom masterbating. I was in our room laying in bed alone. I'm never satisfied. I feel terrible. I've never had a problem satisfying a man. I told him I was willing to do anything the pornos were doing. I tried watching it with him. I've asked him what can I do different? All he has ever said was to be more aggressive sexually. It's hard to do that when I know he's been watching porn and getting it like that. He knows how to satisfy me, he just doesn't. Last night after I caught him he hit me and told me it wasme.

2006-06-16 06:56:04 · 35 answers · asked by youknowwho 2

i want to settle abroad this year got it

2006-06-16 06:52:02 · 5 answers · asked by mona 1

With gas prices being so high, I traded in my wife’s gas guzzling mini-van for a motorcycle. She thinks this new toy is for me, but the main reason I did this was to save our family money. She thinks it's too dangerous to put our 3 month old baby in the baby seat that straps to the back of the motorcycle. She also says there no room to put groceries when all she has to do is hang the
grocery bags from the handlebars. And get this, she thinks her hair will get messed up because of the helmet. Come on now. Once she gets a chance to drive it, do you think she will get over it. She has not driven it yet cause I cannot get off the thing.

I'm I wrong, or just being a nice guy!

2006-06-16 06:51:46 · 28 answers · asked by Bent 5

My husband and I have been seperated for 2 months and are currently in the process of filling for a divorce. I came home and he had moved all of the stuff out of our apartment. I hadn't been cheating on him, nor had I been talking to another man while we have been together. When checking the cell phone record, I found numbers to other women he had been talking to that added up to 550 minutes. So I started talking with some old friends and they introduced me to someone I enjoy talking to. He understands that I'm in the process of my divorce and it's not final. Now I'm being told that I'm cheating on my husband and that I'm a whore. but my husband has been calling and talking with other women for months and he's concidered to just be socializing and looking for someone to help comfort him. What should I do?

2006-06-16 06:51:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I were watching a movie, and I realized that something was coming on tv shortly and I wanted to check it out. I asked my husband for the tv remote, but he decided to change the channel instead of just passing the remote to me. I asked him why he wouldn't give the remote to me, he then asked me why do i have to give you remote? After the bickering he told me that he did that just to see if I would let him change the channel or if I would get fussy about not getting the TV remote myself. Why would he cause this arguement when we were having a nice time? What was he trying to do or prove?

2006-06-16 06:47:40 · 12 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

What does it mean when your spouse puts down married life in front of your friends while you're right there?
And what do you do about it?

2006-06-16 06:33:49 · 10 answers · asked by emilsignia 5

2006-06-16 06:33:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok my cuz he has a women but they aint marry and they got 1 girl their child of course and he been hittin on me and should i keep goin wit tha flow cause i mean he says he doesn't love her he is just with her for her daughter and also he likes me and everythin and yeah i like him to and i don't kno wat to do should i believe wat he says?

2006-06-16 06:27:42 · 18 answers · asked by **I Walk Alone** 2