Me and my husband of five years are living in seprate houses. He says now that i am the only one he wants to be with. I caught him writting other girls on myspace and sharing personal feeling with those girls. So i left him. Now he doesn't log on to myspace anymore and he changed his whole profile to show me and our children. I don't know what to do anymore because i still love him but i want him to change and only be interested in me . Not sure if that will ever happen though its been five years and we are still fighting over the same things we did when we first go married.
2006-06-16 08:19:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
a guy with kids, on myspace? = obviously he hasn't fully matured yet. if he's such a devoted husband and father, well he better get his a$$ off the chair and spend quality time with his family.
myspace are for people to MEET new people -- obviously his eyes are still "roaming"
wouldn't trust this recent behavior towards you -- maybe he got busted or something and now he wants you back. or he's trying to pull this "family man" image, which makes some girls melt. but im not saying to give him zero chance. just watch out for more clues -- don't decide immediately. if he's serious, he'll wait until you're ready.
2006-06-16 08:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not good that he did those things to begin with. And how do you know he doesn't now have a second myspace acct ? You will always wonder and worry. If you want to stay together I think you have to go to marriage counseling.....especially to work out all those issues that you have been fighting about since day one. Without that you will only have what you have had for the last 5 yrs.
2006-06-16 08:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has changed to show that he loves you and is telling you that he only wants you than whats the harm if you give him another chance. Is there anything to lose? I have friends on myspace, yahoo, msn.... friends whom i have known long enough and my husband knows them all we chat once in a while etc i am not cheating on him and he knows that! You will never know if he has changed unless you give him a chance! And if he has good for you and if not than show him the door, but this time for the final time and be done with it forever! At least you will know where you and him stand finally!
2006-06-16 08:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is look in the mirror. From what it appears, you are a bit insecure. Unless he was planning to be with those other girls and leave you or cheat on you, then he did nothing wrong.
If you love him and want to be with him and after 5 years he's not moved on and kept his vows, maybe you need to really look into those things you are arguing over and see where YOU can change b/c it's you and not him holding up the relationship.
2006-06-16 09:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is a grown man doing writing to girls on myspace? Sounds like a pedophile to me. I would not trust him!!!
2006-06-16 09:09:27 · answer #5 · answered by loshea65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess its possible that he really wants to change. But I'm not sure if he'll be able to. Then again, he may have gotten scared bad enough to stick with it when he realized he may lose everything he has with you. Don't be in a rush to do anything. Time will tell.
2006-06-16 08:26:06 · answer #6 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to counselling and get some help determining whether or not his intentions are good and genuine this time. its very hard to understand why they weren't the first time and you aren't obligated to give him another chance, he had one he blew it. do what you feel is right for you, if you aren't willing to gamble on a guy that took you and your marriage for granted the first time then don't, but if you decide to try again then you have to be in it all the way. good luck to you!
2006-06-16 08:37:30 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he shouldn't have a myspace....he's not 17 years old. That's really sort of creepy.
2006-06-16 08:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by write_something_happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you tripping over him writning girls at my space at lest he is not cheating on you give a man a break. He love you if he had stoped. :-)
2006-06-16 08:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by Queen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some things just aren't meant to be, just let it go. You can't teach an old dog new tricks.
Don't listen to that stupid sexy girl, she doesn't know.
2006-06-16 08:24:33 · answer #10 · answered by heybitches 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋