Marriage & Divorce - 16 June 2006

i only went after him to see if i could get him,now we're seeing each other once a week and not just for office visits.my husband and i are so distant that i don't even feel guilty.oh yeah , he's married too. we just click together and its great, but we dont love each other,we're just having fun.....what you think

2006-06-16 06:24:59 · 37 answers · asked by babyblues 2

I am recently married. After marriage, my wife moved into my house. We have slept on my queen size bed since then.

The problem is that I could not sleep very well if someone is around me. I wake up many time at night and feel drowsy at work everyday.

I try to convince my wife to sleep seperately. However, she feel very bad about my idea. and tell me that she is hurted .

What should I do? We just fresh couples, I really love my wife and don't want to hurt her. On the other hand, I feel my health is suffering because of lacking of good sleeps. Any marriage advice and medical advice?

2006-06-16 06:22:20 · 21 answers · asked by arayoflight76 1

1. someone very affectionate and very emotional and sensitive OR someone less affectionate but practical?
2. someone you argue with a lot but have a lot of fun (roller coaster) OR someone who is stable/calm but perhaps less fun to be with?
3. Someone very different from you but is willing to compromise OR Someone who is very much like you but is less willing to compromise on a few differences
4. Someone who is beautiful and a bit higher maintenance OR someone not as attractive but very low maintenance?
5. Someone who is more crazy about you than you are about her OR someone you are more crazy about, but they may not be as crazy about you?
6. Someone very dependent on/possesive of you but does a lot for you OR someone independent but doesn't do as much?

2006-06-16 06:21:19 · 6 answers · asked by Confused 1

2006-06-16 06:10:27 · 17 answers · asked by thatgirl127 3

I'm just sad, i want to be my husbands real best friend but he cheated and it's questionable how far they actually went but who cares things are just differnt now. I used to feel really special i used to put him on apedastal and brag about him. i really thought he was the most good looking guy out there and i never even thought about other men in a sexual way. Is all that not reality in most marriages? Hkow could he betray me when i loved him sooo much???

2006-06-16 06:09:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to put a camera on every guy's head,The only person who can turn off or take it down from his head would be the wife.lol

2006-06-16 06:06:57 · 20 answers · asked by ? 5

2006-06-16 06:01:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i cheated on my husband. when i told him he started cheating on me over and over. it took my stupidity to make me realize that i did still love him and want to be with him. Even after his cheating i want us to be together to be in love to be happy. i regret my actions but he does not regret his. how do i help him get the thoughts of my cheating out of his head so we can make our marriage work like we both want it to. we've talked about my cheating several times but i have no idea why I did it and dont have an explanation so he has no closure. if it were not for the thoughts in his head we would be fine. we both love each other and we both want us to work and be better. we both believe it can happen if he could fix the issues in his mind. tho i have the same issues in my mind i have a different way of dealing and my way is not working for him. neither one of us want to seperate or divorce.

2006-06-16 05:53:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 05:51:50 · 11 answers · asked by liquer_n_front_poker_in_rear69 1

I am just looking for ideas to be super romantic and pleasing my husband and all ideas would help!

2006-06-16 05:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Lily♥ 3

I am 18 getting ready to go to USC in the fall!! I have a WONDERFUL bf whom I love VERY much! he proposed last night and I said yes!! his parents and my parents have been trying to break us up since they found out we were dating about 3 yrs ago! we told our parents we wanted to get married and they totally lost it!! what should I do! I don't wannt lose my family and I definitly don't wanna lose my bf!! can yall help me plz?!

2006-06-16 05:48:27 · 11 answers · asked by NC_baby_gurl 2

Is it lack of ability? Stamina? Desire?

Maybe there are just more important things in life?

2006-06-16 05:46:05 · 12 answers · asked by crazytexasgirl 1

I have been married for almost 11 yrs and I love my husband dearly, but I think I am in love with another man but I am not sure what to do. I never thought it was possible to be IN LOVE with more then one man.

2006-06-16 05:45:06 · 7 answers · asked by Jenn 2

So, my husband and I seperated in late April. Just wasn't working for us. He's already back dating, but I don't want to jump back in to fast, in case it affects our divorce. So when should I consider going back to dating?

2006-06-16 05:43:13 · 11 answers · asked by bannasmom1 2

Many boys/men follow myths or cultural norms -- should it be so?

2006-06-16 05:36:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean my grand parents have been married for over 50 years. They don't get a long all the time( in fact all they do is fight) BUT they love each other. What makes people get divorced so freely? Would people still get married if divorce was against the law? I always tell my friends that I don't want to be a (baby momma) that I want to be married before starting a family but really there's no guarantee my marriage will last. Sorry I asked like 4 questions!

2006-06-16 05:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by Honey Bee 4

If im having awesome sex with my husband ,is there still a chace all my fears in my previous question could be true still?I mean could you have great sex with your spouse and then they still go screw around on you

2006-06-16 05:35:48 · 20 answers · asked by nikki 1

2006-06-16 05:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by CanadianGirlAbroad 3

I really don't want to scare or make her feel down. Is it necessary for me to tell her, or should I keep it a secret?

2006-06-16 05:30:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

And how long did the marriage last?? From my experience those marriages hardly ever last because the women is getting bored with their husband and looking for a new guy to sleep with cause they feel they have been missing out. This has been the case with some of the married women I have slept with. Yes I am a pig, and I have no morals or ethics. Has this happened with any of you??

2006-06-16 05:20:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-06-16 05:15:20 · 13 answers · asked by LadyLatina 1

How do I react?

2006-06-16 05:06:56 · 8 answers · asked by shera 1

I have been happily engaged over a year about and I was wondering what is a good time to seriously talk about getting married. We have decided to wait a coulpe of years to see if we feel as much in love now as we will later in a few years time.

2006-06-16 05:00:15 · 14 answers · asked by Christina L 1

From Texas.....Ive been married for 6 years, have three kids who i ADORE. Problem is my marraige. She is someone who has to have everything "her" way. Is an anal-relentive, control freaks worse nightmare. Yells, screams and puts me down for the fact that i dont do everything the way she wants it done. Everytime we sit to have a talk about things...its her telling me what i do wrong (a list that goes on for hours). Constantly tells me, in ways that are very hurtful....whats wrong with me. We havent had sex in a very long time (which again is my fault) and i dont see that changing because....i cant. I cant be sexual with someone who bites my head off whenever she feels like it.

what should i do?

2006-06-16 05:00:00 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my husband but, he has hurt me in many ways (not physical) i cant feel the same love how can recreate the strong feelings for him

2006-06-16 04:59:52 · 11 answers · asked by taylor 2

In a relationship (your current one, or most recent, or whatever one) How Long did it take you as a couple to say "I love you"? ( and hopefully mean it as you said it) Most say its a few months on average. whats your experience?

2006-06-16 04:49:09 · 11 answers · asked by Jackie 4

Can you make yourself squirt during an organsm? I dont mean urinate like in porn, but really squirt. If you can do you make it happen or does it happen naturally? If you can make it happen how do you do it?

2006-06-16 04:43:55 · 24 answers · asked by Scott C 2

2006-06-16 04:41:35 · 5 answers · asked by sabrina 3

Wife at 29 had a bad case of UTI that lead to kidney infection. She blames the guy. Got married, after 3 years the couple have sex once or none a month and the husband is having to take care of himself every night when she goes to bed.
Should he stay with her or get a divorce?

2006-06-16 04:40:28 · 16 answers · asked by srk2040 2

other females... I'm 40 married and desire women.....

2006-06-16 04:38:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous