If im having awesome sex with my husband ,is there still a chace all my fears in my previous question could be true still?I mean could you have great sex with your spouse and then they still go screw around on you
2006-06-16 05:35:48 · 20 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah i've heard of that. but that is attributed to the sh*itty person that the man would be inside of himself, and little to do with your sex life. question is, what kind of man did you Really marry? good, or sh*tty?
2006-06-16 05:38:55 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, yes. It's really sad to say that nothing in a marriage is really safe. The only way is to stay close to one another, sharing everything with each other, on a daily basis. Stay best friends. Do things together. I guess you have to learn to trust, and that comes with time. You prove your love for one another by not breaking that trust...ever. And, if it does happen, you have the option of forgiving and moving on. Divorce isn't always the first option in a failing marriage. It takes a strong person to forgive. But, the one who needs forgiving needs to ask for it first. That shows humility and a real sorrow for breaking trust. And that trust will never really be the same, because you'll always wonder. It gets better, with time, but it's hard. I speak from first-hand experience and over 28 years of marriage. It would help if you both can find a regular time to get away alone, even if it's a walk after supper. Or go fishing on Saturday morning. Something you both can do together. I never fished before I met my husband, but I now love it. Have fun together. That keeps the excitement going. <*)))><
2006-06-16 12:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people is have amazing sex, but their spouses do still cheat on them. It is not about the sex, it might be that you are not treating him how he would like or doing things together. To avoid this, always communicate with each other. If you have a problem tell him, and assure him that if he has a problem, let you know.
2006-06-16 12:39:32 · answer #3 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible? Yes. Is it likely? No! if the two of you are enjoying a great sex life then the chances are that you are getting along well with each other in most other ways too! Stay positive and talk to each other. My wife is my lover, my confiadant and my best friend too!.If you can be all of that to eachother, you don't have anything to worry about!
Good luck
2006-06-16 14:48:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ekimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex in sex for some guys and they can really make it wonderful for anyone if they want to, it sucks because you think you know that nothing could be going on because of how you feel, but there is and you are blind to the other signs around you
the way i look at it if you think there cheating on you and you dont trust them you shouldnt be with them
good luck, i hope your guy is unlike some of the others that are out there
2006-06-16 12:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by what2do? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Some men just cheat even if the sex at home is great.
2006-06-16 12:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by curiousgeorgia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is allways that chance that your man will cheat on you,no matter how great the sex between the two of you is.
But.....that doesn't mean your man will..that he is like all those other guys.Try to relax a bit,open up to him and give him the trust he deserves.....
2006-06-16 12:38:29 · answer #7 · answered by marjoleindnl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can do it anyway but I think that your chances decrease if you have an active and fun sex life at home....no need to lok for it outside of your home...I would like to believe that this is true.
2006-06-16 12:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by CRIS14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely.... some times they could just be cheaters... it's just in their blood.... that comes natural to them... they could have the perfect life at home and still go out and be dogs.... but not all men... I do believe there are some good ones out there. I just haven't found him yet!! good luck.
2006-06-16 12:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by Jennie C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN DRAIN HIS LIZARD ALL YOU WANT BUT THE MIND THAT CONTROLS IT WILL STILL BE ABLE TO FIRE HIM UP WHEN A HOT WOMAN COMES ON TO HIM. WHY WORRY ABOUT IT AS LONG AS HE TAKES CARE OF YOU AND TREATS YOU WILL. THINK POSITIVE BUT DO NOT FORGET TO CHECK HIS UNDERWEAR WHENEVER HE IS MISSING FOR TOO LONG. IT IS SAD THAT YOU DO NOT TRUST HIM.
2006-06-16 12:41:47 · answer #10 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋