the best thing you can do is love him even on his worst day when your actions show how much you care and are interested in him anything material is a waste material items rot and rust a loving nature endures in the memory love him after God and before yourself
2006-06-16 06:13:46
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answered by jkpoet2@sbcglobal.net 3
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Light a few candles that are made of soy wax, after the wax starts to melt you can use it as massage oil since the wax itself doesn't get hot...found at your local candle or sex store. Any Alicia Keys CD softly in the background will work. Chill some champagne. Where something great, most guys don't really get off on lingerie, but a wife-beater and a thong are a total turn on for a manly man. Put a shower curtain liner or plastic sheet on the bed. Place yourself in the middle of the bed and slowly pour the champagne on your breasts like a wet t-shirt contest!!! Maybe do a little bump and jive while you do this. Next add a drizzle of chocolate to each nipple and enjoy!!! Then give him a little champagne bath you know where, same as before drizzle with some chocolate and enjoy. Then feel free to splash as much champagne on the plastic liner as needed for some fun slippery action on the workbench (bed). Hope this helps have tried it before and it's too good to brag about. Have a GREAT night!!!
2006-06-16 06:02:46
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answered by centralfiresafety 2
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I just listen to him. When he comes home from work and he's had a day, I try to just listen. I'm not a good cook and don't really enjoy it yet (we've been married almost a year now) so the best thing I can do is listen. I also make sure to give him at least one good full body massage a week - sometimes two, depending on his schedule. The best thing a married couple can do is laugh, spend time together, and relax together. It is so soothing to have that someone special to hang out with, to go to bed with, to just be with. And I tell him I love him all the time - daily - because life is too short.
2006-06-16 06:26:20
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answered by Rachel 7
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Okay I have been married for 3 years but with him on and off for 10 and the thing that got him was, I picked up his favorite food from his favorite restaurant and ordered take out took him to the beach (or a place you have an awesome view of the sunset) in our truck I had a surprise bag, when we got to the beach, we drove up to where the tide breaks on the sand because where I live in CA we can do that at a certain beach , went to the bed of the truck I served him his favorite meal with candles lit and we ate and watched the sun set together. After the sun had set and a few minutes before it did I played our wedding "first dance" song and our song and we slow danced together on the beach.
2006-06-16 09:15:13
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answered by Anonymous
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My husband and I have an odd relationship by the standards of other people I know. But, the old standby of a home-cooked meal by candlelight with small talk - keeping it light and not touching on important subjects. Then I draw a bubble bath for him with scented candles and his favorite soft music followed by a full body message - but not a sexy one that would put pressure on him to have to perform afterwards.
2006-06-16 05:55:03
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answered by Jill M 3
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My answer is going to be different than everyone else's for one simple reason : We know romantic is different for men and women. Men know if they want to plan a romantic evening for us they need candles, soft music, bubble baths, and a bed filled with rose petals - then we are putty in their hands and will fulfill any wishes in bed they have. Now on the other hand - if we do the same thing for them, they just go along with it .... Romance to a man is usually a little different (unless its a honeymoon or just started dating ). Romance to them involves something they love.. Like, say cars - In example - My man loves to work on cars, in particular his Mustang - and he really likes for me to be a part of it. So late one night while he was out working in the garage on his car, I got dressed up in a short skirt with nothing underneath, a halter top and stilletos. He was working under the hood and I went and bended over the hood, looking at what he was doing. He immediately took in my appearance and within minutes we were ..... busy... against the car, then we took it inside to the shower and then to the bedroom. My plan worked like a charm (trying to get him in the house away from the car), and it turned him on immensly , and was also like fulfilling a fantasy of his in sorts, and made for a wonderful night.
Men are different, very different than us women, and they like SPICE - if you can mix a lil kinky with the romance, your man will be in heaven - and so will you :)
2006-06-16 07:46:45
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answered by Tam 3
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i imagine it varies through the females besides as adult males do not continuously pay interest to what there spouse is attempting to positioned across to them. the following, she is telling him that she needs more effective time with him and needs that connection. the answer the following would were for him to paintings a lot less and her to get a job throughout the time of his pastime to make up the version. even if, different females opt to be able to stay at homestead and be a homemaker over more effective time with their husband. I see this regularly taking position at the same time as both are not any further listening to one yet another out and for that reason won't be able to fulfill each and each others needs. even if, I nonetheless do not imagine dishonest and divorce are the answer in my opinion yet I see the position they orginate from.
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answered by wansley 4
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Depends on what he considers romantic, but most often, from what i hear, guys like massages and sex, so, if yours is the same, anything different than what you have been doing in the bedroom that he would like, possibly, taking his clothes off, taking yours off in front of a mirror, giving him oral, vice versa, making love and watching yourselves?
2006-06-16 05:58:02
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answered by theodorais 2
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Find out his greatest fantasy...if you know, try to fufill that. Try cooking his favorite dish..get some good wine, play some "Get it on" music, and feed each other the food.
Get some post it notes and leave little notes in his pockets, car, etc. that he will find when he least expects it!!
2006-06-16 06:19:36
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answered by armywife 2
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here is what works for my babe..i have his favorite dinner served and ready to eat.....he comes in from work...very tired...as he walks in the door ..i hand him his favorite drink....i slowly help him outta his clothes...and have him relax a few on the couch....give him a few kisses ...then slip to the bathroom....fill the tub with really warm, sudsy water....i then serve him dinner....then lead him to the bath..where i inturn join him ...and massage his shoulders...washing his hair in a massaging way...and i ask about his day.....of course we know where all this leads...
....i have heard him tell his buddies...that i am the best at giving him what he needs...and that i know when he needs it....i in turn get unexpected flowers...and such..and that means more to me than anything.
2006-06-16 06:19:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Men love good food and good beer. They don't care about mushy stuff like us women do. I have been married to my hubby nearly 3 years (together 11yr) He loves a good homecooked dinner and good beer. If I had that for him every night he'd be happy! :)
2006-06-16 08:35:56
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answered by kym2098 2
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