2006-06-16 08:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they are waiting for you to contact them first in a reasonable amount of time. And if you don't it's like.........Oh well....another one bites the dust! :)
2006-06-20 05:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by fantasy_lady428 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's just our nice way of saying we're not interested in you. Unfortunantly we tend to say that to not hurt your feelings. Some women are nice enough to actually be friends with you and even make an attempt to call you, others do not. Sometimes women try to keep their distance from the men they want to "be friends" with because sometimes being friends can still hurt the other person by still having some sort of contact with them.
2006-06-16 15:33:21 · answer #2 · answered by MedStudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, would you really want to see that girl if she said she just wants to be friends? This is assuming you approached her with telling her you have feelings. If that was the case you created a situation where she's fond of you and a caring person, but unwilling to say" I simply can't be romantic with you, I'm just not attracted to you that way"....would this be less hurtful? better she try to let you down easy, give you time to adjust and be let down...ask her if you could call her in a few weeks to see a movie coming out. Try and make the friendship thing work BUT if yu see her out with another, you have no leg to stand on if jealousy hits you between the eyes. Just be aware..Good Luck
2006-06-16 15:57:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kezza T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if these are women you went out on dates with they told you they wanted to be friends to let you down easy. Usually they dont have any intention in calling.
2006-06-16 15:39:24 · answer #4 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's the nice way of saying they no longer want to date you. At that point you can date others then ask them this question.
2006-06-16 16:12:25 · answer #5 · answered by King H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dats because women always want men to make the first approach, so when she wants to be friends, she wants u to contact with her and once she is free wid u she'll keep in touch wid u the way u keep in touch wid her
2006-06-16 15:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Preeya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the same reasons guys do the same thing. Who knows why. To spare the other persons feelings i suppose.
2006-06-16 15:30:04 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be nice but it isn't. Best to be honest but most have a hard time with that.
2006-06-16 15:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a nice way to say "later".not.
2006-06-16 15:34:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweetie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becaue they only said it to get you to not ask them on a date.
2006-06-16 15:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋