If my chick tells me she needs me to leave her alone cuz it's too painful for her, and that there is a very real and good chance we would end up together if I don't(her words) and she doesn't want that to happen, why should I if I can win her back???We broke up 5 weeks ago and were supposed to be married this week. I don't see what the problem is. Love is emotions precipitated by action. Once you begin to act lovingly, the emotions are sure to follow. what's the problem here?
2006-06-16 09:54:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
So, something serious must have happened if you were to be married this week and your apart. Is she confused and needs to gain her balance back? If you do love her, you need to do what she asks and needs you to do. She probably said that to you (about the good chance...) because she can't be with you now for some reason but she wants you to stay near and not completely go away. Let her take the lead for awhile and back off until she's ready to deal with whatever issue broke you up in the first place. You'll gain more points and respect if you just say to her Ok- you won't be hearing from me for awhile, but if you need me, you know how to reach me. Don't rush it cuz it'll end up in disaster again. If the relationship is worth saving, go with the flow for awhile, don't push it, and if you ex needs to make the call and the next move....let her. Good luck
2006-06-17 00:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by SonoranAngel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want to be with you boy. If she did, she wouldn't be telling you to leave her alone. Just because you act lovingly does not mean that emotions follow. She could have said it to keep you as a back up incase what she wants doesn't fall through for her, or it could be just doesn't want to look as the bad guy, let you go easy. You should move on and find another.
2006-06-16 16:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by trustnoone_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has something else up her sleeve just move on if she doesnt come back begging then leave her alone after all she is causing this not you find a better woman she sucks because she putting you through all this unneccessary bull just to make things work Forget her man you deserve a up front woman who doesnt beat around the bush and play with your feelings.
2006-06-16 17:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by Justin D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe it is somthing from her past... if you really love her don't let her get away continue to show and prove your love...it sounds tough but if you ant her you need to put up a fight and show her you love her..after all marriage is for better or worse, sickness, and health, richer or poorer and til death....good luck
2006-06-16 17:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by mysterious_wisper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants lots of time apart. Maybe she has second thoughts.
2006-06-16 17:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋