How many time per week....?

Question

do you think a couple married 10 years, 4 kids would/should have sex a week? Honest answers please.........

Answer 1

It just really depends on the week and how tired you are, I have been married for 11 yrs and there are some weeks when we have sex everyday and then there are the weeks when it is only once or twice. It just depends on how tired you both are. I know one thing for sure that the same person should not have to always be the one to approach the other one. It has to definitely be something that you both want.

Answer 2

Um-can't believe I am sharing my sex life with strangers, but I've been married 12 years and I can offer what we do. It varies alot. It can be a month...then twice in a week ,then maybe 2 weeks goes by....then two days in a row. It is whatevers comfortable to both of you but I can say that rarely will you get in the mood at the same time. Sometimes you have to kinda take turns giving in to each other even if your not in the mood. I think you know what I mean. Here's to long happy marriages!!! I do have a co-worker in a happy marriage that hasn't had it in 2 years! Her husband just doesn't "think of her in that way anymore"

Answer 3

After 10 years and 4 children Bart, where ever and when ever the two of you can steal a few moments! I'm sure with 4 children it's not that easy. You could both work together in the evenings getting the children ready for bed, this way you may both have just enough left over to enjoy each other. If you work together on this, it will increase your chances greatly!
Good luck

Answer 4

I've lived with someone for a year and a half, and we haven't had sex for like 9 months, so I'm not sure I can really answer that. Now, if the couple is married and still madly in love, then at LEAST twice a week, if not closer to four......or at least once a day....

Answer 5

In my 20yrs, we had it several times a day to nothing for a few days and back again. Communication is the key.

Rekindle the romance - get yourself a babysitter and take her out on a date - and get all dressed up- once you do this a few times she will desire you more - which = more sex.
Call her up and ask her out - you should make all of the arrangements, including the babysitter. If you can't get a babysitter, both of you should schedule a day off from work when the kids are in school. Then do a daytime date when they are in school.

BTW - have you asked her this question? She has the only right answer.

Answer 6

Well, you guys should have sex as many times as you feel like it and possibly can. Once you have kids, most people find it hard to find enough time to be alone with their partners. If you both don't feel like having sex as much as you used to, then there isn't anything to worry about, Things happen- you get swamped with work, you have kids, and just other things that make up life are all roadblocks. But you should each make an effort now and then to do something special for one another and try to reserve alone time.

Answer 7

I think at least once per week. But it really depends on the couple. Sometimes there are other factors. My husband and myself have been married for 7 years now and twice a week seems regular. What works for us may not work for you. We only have one child. We lead simple lives so stress is kept to a minimum.

Answer 8

at least 3 times a week, 5 to 7 would be best though

Answer 9

7 times of more! Just cause you have kids doesn't mean you have to give up your sex life! They have to go to sleep sometime! I have 3 kids and have been with my fiance 4 years and we hit it every night if not more. If you don't take care of that , your spouse will wind up going elsewhere!!

Answer 10

Are you saying once a week? Why not more often? Try to rekindle what you had 10 years ago. Romance always leads to sex!