It was in small European town, I picked her up in a small slizy bar. she is from Italy. we had great night and day together and in the next night I lost a bet to her - promising to marry her if i lose.
what to do now? should I marry her or should i break my word? I
I don't know nothing about her although the time together was the best of my life.
2006-06-16 11:35:26 · 11 answers · asked by jb1220jb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Assuming this is a serious question, I cannot think of a more foolish reason to get married.
Here's a thought: tell her "it would be incredibly foolish to make a commitment like that just because I lost a bet; it would be a horrible way to start a long-term relationship. However, I'm really tempted, because you're fantastic. How about we see if this relationship has legs before we agree to spend the rest of our lives together?"
If she's good long-term marrying material, she'll laugh and say "of course" -- and if she gets angry and upset, then you know she's not a reasonable person with good judgement, and you should run away as fast as you can.
2006-06-16 12:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get to know each other first. You did not say When you would marry her, so it could be in two or three years when and if you marry her....but you see how unwise it is to make a bet with such a stake!!
What kind of man is she looking for and are you ready to settle down? If you feel that she is not the woman for you, explain this to her, and ask her what you might do instead for her since she won the bet.
Hopefully she won't hold you to your promise.
Good Luck!
2006-06-16 11:40:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious and that thrilled with her that you put up a bet.
Someone told me sometime back that you bet what you can afford to lose. So, I guess you were interested in her and thats why you placed a bet.
Anyways, No the reasons for marrige has to be more than a bet. If you dont follow that, there will be more than enough reasons for divorce.
2006-06-16 11:38:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didn't even read your details yet, and i knew what to answer... No, you should not marry her. just by doubting if you want to marry her or not is a red flag -- it means you're not ready for marriage, and you don't love this girl.
that is one reason why divorce rate is so high in this country. people don't choose their partners carefully and they marry for the wrong reasons.
come to think of it -- im starting to doubt if this question was true or you're just trying to see how many people will answer. the question is just too ridiculous since i read the entire details.
2006-06-16 11:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuldnt marry her that fast get to noe her better. as for the marrying thing just tell her that ud rather get to noe her better than to just rush things like that. and if shes a good person she wuld agree with u but like if she only wanted to for her own enjoyment then she wuld force u to marry her. good luck
2006-06-16 11:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW COULD YOU ASK SUCH A STUPID QUESTION? AND WHY WOULD YOU DO SUCH A STUPID THING. WE CAN MAKE A BET AND WHOEVER WINS JUMPS OFF OF A BRIDGE. YOU NEED TO LEARN SOME COMMON SENSE.
2006-06-16 11:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry a stranger. It's not a good idea.
2006-06-16 11:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't marry her.
2006-06-16 11:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you board?
2006-06-16 11:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by September 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-06-16 11:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by rache001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋