i play softball twice a week with a group of older guys. im talking like from 60-80 years old. my husband is actually jealous of these guys! he started taking off work on the days i play so he could keep an eye on me. my husband is 39 and im 44. obviously i like younger men not older. do u think this is as rediculous as i do?
2006-06-16 11:05:49 · 15 answers · asked by scooter trash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is nuts!! what does he think u are gonna do? hook up with grandpa? Tell him to get over it. You love him dearly and would never do that to him.
2006-06-16 11:08:07 · answer #1 · answered by Vidra 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think your husband is jealous of the older gentlemen, it's most probably the time you are spending with them that is getting to him.
Do any other ladies play in these softball games?
I wouldn't like my wife getting together with a bunch of men twice a week to play anything no matter how old they are. Find something you can do with your girlfriends and you probably won't have a problem.
2006-06-16 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Miami_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not totally ridiculous. I don't think your telling the entire story here . What would he be jealous of some Geezers for. Maybe you should try to get on a women's team instead. Men are needy when there putting there hearts on the line, they want all the attention you have especially when it comes to guy friends, Your old, and married. you don't need a bunch of guy friends
2006-06-16 11:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by bcrawford1980 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband is jealous too! I tell my husband there is nothing to be jealous of and if you are having that big of a problem you do not trust me. Explain to your husband that he needs to trust you.
2006-06-16 11:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he's not hurting you or saying hurtful words to you, it may be ridiculous, but maybe he just don't want any other guy claiming you. if i had a guy and he was jealous (in a quiet but obvious way), i'd actually be flattered. but if he was to hurt me or treat me badly, then he has crossed the line. (that means, he sees me as property or something like that)
2006-06-16 11:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I wonder if he is jealous that you have a hobby and he doesn't and just uses the men as an excuse.
2006-06-16 11:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% ridiculous ask him why he is so insecure of himself, unless you gave him a reason to in the past but thats another question
2006-06-16 11:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by jayrok027 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not related to anna nicole smith don't worry be happy. You ahhhh do know C P R right!?
2006-06-16 11:09:25 · answer #8 · answered by matt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it's pretty sad. But, ask yourself , have I given him any reason to be jealous? Hmmm.....
2006-06-16 11:09:56 · answer #9 · answered by catmanbigwil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You needs to reassure your husband that he is the only one for you and those older guys cant please you like he can.
2006-06-16 11:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋