what would make a woman sleep with a stranger after a 14 year marriage.?

Question

I think every answer was the right answer

Answer 1

Maybe the man in the 14 year marriage has become a stranger.

Answer 2

Either you cheated on her so its pay back time!
You do not satisfy her in bed.
You guys are together for kids only.
She is no longer in love with you.
There is no spice in the marriage anymore, your boring!
There can be may reasons why don't you ask the woman who cheating after 14 yrs of marriage if you know her!
You will get your answer because there has to be more to the story!

Answer 3

I agree with the woman who said maybe the husband has become the stranger. Men forget the lil things woman need in relationships! Woman just as men will go find what they are missing in a relationship. I feel sure the wife had communicated her unhappiness on several occasiion before she strayed from the marriage. Open your heart and tell her how you feel!

Answer 4

Go to marriagebuilders.com and look up the section under Infidelity.
There is a lot of information on the website that explains the possible reasons why she would do this. If you want to work it out, then do the exercises with her.

Basically, she needed to feel emotionally loved by you -which she does not.

If she normally hides her feelings from you or feels that she cannot talk to you openly, she will not tell you how she feels about your marriage relationship. In this case: how she felt (emotionally) unloved by you. (love is not sex - sex is the result of the love between you two)

She then found a guy that listened to her and validated her. He made her feel special.

And finally he got to nail her.

Answer 5

Well when a woman cheats it is usually because of emotionally reason. If she cheated on you then you shouldn't be with her because if you take her back then she will think it is okay to cheat and you are always going to take her back. What you should is leave her and don't talk to her because then she will see that it isn't right cheating on someone and she will want you back more than you want to stay with her, trust me. You have to set boundaries and it starts when she cheated on you. Even though you love her, you have to teach her that sometimes things you do in this life have consequences!

Answer 6

this will be absolutely horrible of me to say but here it goes: you must've done something very wrong without realizing it, even have made her so bored to death or just some other issue that i cannot begin to comprehend right now. you must care a lot right now to try and get answers from complete strangers. then again you just may be desperate for trying to understand why.

Answer 7

It may be a way of venting... how have the 14 years treated her? Do you think it may be an attempt to get out - yeah bad way to go about it but poeple do crazy things.

Answer 8

Sometimes people just aren't happy with what they have and where they are in life, and something they do on an impulse destroys everything they have. No one can accurately tell you what was in her head except her, so ask. Don't get defensive. Just listen. You might be surprised at what she has to say.

Answer 9

Some people are poverty stricken in morals. She may be not very deep. She may have married for reasons other than love. The 14 years may have been not really meaningful for her.

Answer 10

Your question has the sound of a door slamming in it. My guess is, you slipped up somewhere in those 14 years bud. (I'm married 24 years, two kids, no probs).