I am a 13 year old girl and my mother is always causing controversie with me and my best friend. Every time my bff invites me over my mom will either say yes or no. Usaually no. Then 10 minutes later she will change her mind, and a lot of times, she does it again. I have no idea why, because she has no reason whatsoever not to trust me. Here is an example: Last night my friend called and asked if I could come over. My mom said yes so that was the plan. Then she found out she had to go to her Grammy's house. So I asked my mom if I could go with er there instead. She said no and I asked her why and she said it was because she didn't know her grandparents well enough. Note: I have gone camping with them 2 hours away for 4 days before, and have spent the night at thier house twice in the past 6 months.) So I told my friend I couldn;t come. I got off the phon with her and 15 minutes later my mom said yes. So I called my friend back and told her. Now, this morning, I woke up in a great moodready to get my schooling done, chores done, laundry done and get ready to go with my bff. But my mother informed me that i had t do quite a few extra chores before I could go, and that I had to put 6 full hours or work into school as apposed to the usual about 3 and a half hours i usually do; which gets the job done. I got very upset at this, as I wouldn't ever have eenough time to complete all those tasks in time to be picked up at a decent hour. So I started to cry. Note also: I had JUST woken up and got out of bed, expecting a normal day. I realize my mother was in a bad mood because she had to work all day, which only happens on a rare occasion, but I was just sooo upset that she felt she needed to "take it out" on me! She told me I couldn't go, 10 minutes later, I could. Then couldn't again. (Literal times, here folks.) So when my friend arrived home from school she called excited about having me over and when I told her AGAIN that I coudn't go, she was FURIOUS! I told her maybe
19 minutes ago
she could come over to my house tomorrow, and she was all mad and was like: OMG HANNAH NO! NO! I AM SO SICK OF THIS. And so now I don't know what to do. :( She's mad at m and I am realllyyy upset. What do you think...?
2007-10-12
07:32:49
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