6.2(with out shoe) is my height. i am in depression mode.many times my mind is diverting 2 suicide view(death)

Question

my age is 23, i look some more heavy with height 6.2(with out shoe) & weight ( 85kgs)...i feel people look me in a different way.. when they look like that i feeling sie...i dont no will an indian girl like my height or not..i dont no will any person with this height in this world or not...thinking about all this things i am going 2 depression mode..and many times my mind is diverting 2 suicide point.(death)........that time hardly i am controling my self...plz tell me how 2 control this kind of thoughts...bcoz i want lead my life happlly...like others...how much of weight should i loss 2 look good..and what kind of dress should i ware 2 look good...will an indian girl like my height and they will like 2 marry me? or not!...is 6.2(with out shoe) is over height? is people will be their with this height?.....plz give me an idea how 2 acheive my life in a happy way...plz plz give me ur valuble suggestions 2 me.....plz dont give joke &silly answere....bcoz its my life...my dear friends.

Answer 1

I am also 6'2" but my weight is closer to 100 kg. I beg of you not to commit suicide, and to strengthen your body if it causes you this insecurity. I cannot make you do this. You must realize that should you kill yourself you leave your life exactly where you left it, without improving it. You CAN improve it if you try.

Why would an Indian girl not like a tall man? You are not to speak for every woman out there. Certainly some women like taller men.

My valuable suggestion is to stop feeling self-pity, self conscious and insecure, and revel in the gifts you have. You will no longer be lonely when you realize how much you already have.

You mention no goals in your post. To feel life inside you, you must develop short-term and long-term goals, and actually strive for them. Without goals, your life will indeed be meaningless. What dreams do you have?

If you desire to have a woman attracted to you, you simply cannot be sad and depressed and a victim of life. A woman would most desire a man who has control of his life and wants to add more to it. Please reconsider your acting out towards suicide. It's too soon to call it a lifetime.

Answer 2

Aww you <3 don't worry and don't give in into these negative thoughts that's filling up your mind. Thoughts like these will and can catch anyone at anytime. I've had experiences with this in the past, and I actually did try to commit suicide with cutting. Realize that because this is how you interpret things right now, you can change it. I was able to, so you can too. =)

Everytime you look in the mirror, stand up straighter and smile. A lot of guys are your height and your weight seems to be very healthy for it also. Exercise is a stress reliever so I suggest you go for a 15 min walk at least, outside in your town or somewhere, and then come back.

Maybe taking a shower can refresh you and calm you down too, imagine the soft, streaming water. =) Just hold your head up high and be yourself, smile even more often and be confident in what you do. ~ Give yourself some more time and care. Remember that not all girls are alike so when one girl may not prefer you as a partner, another one will come along one day and would. =)

P.S Live your life for yourself my friend, be aware of what others got to say about you but never take their opinions into serious consideration. What you think about yourself counts the most because afterall, you are you, you know your own experiences and nobody else does. ~

Answer 3

Try and calm down. Here are statistics and remedies:
You are tall for an indian girl but not quite average height according to the overall height. outside india this is quite a common average height. Men are larger.
You are here just accept yourself first and dump whatever others are thinking it never helped anyone with it.
Statistic surveys and experiments show that people expect people to believe and think that people think what they themselves are thinking. So in order to help yourself first change your perspective. So may see it the way you do but most just forget your height and weight as soon as you are out of sight
The depression yes that's trouble and I will suggest remedy and that too is what you can do best on your own and medication does not helps if you are not ready for it. So decide whether you will be helping yourself or not. You already feel that something is wrong.
Remedy:
Tall people should avoid pants and jeans, it makes them look taller. Skirts slightly diminishes height. Wear flat foot wear instead of heels as would already might be doing.
Try home remedy of honey 2 teaspoonful with lemon juice three times a day to get slim. Eat salad everyday and drink lots of water. Do not try diet but take normal diet. That should stop your weight problems.

Try looking outside for a change in other countries they have people with your height quite a lot and stop feeling embarrassed as it will not help any one and certainly hurt you.
You are what you are and cannot change anything about it.
Luck on you recovery.

Answer 4

Your height and weight are fine, many women find tall men more attractive than short ones anyway..Indian women included. I suppose that it would not hurt you to loose 5 kilos or so, perhaps at your local gymnasium..which will give you something to do with your spare time. My own husband is 6' tall and I am only 5' tall but we have never found this to be any sort of problem..and my grandfather was 6.7, my grandmother..who adored him, only 4.10.
Tall men look best wearing jeans and pullovers or loosely tailored suits..in my opinion . As for marriage,as you appear to be Indian, from what you say, this is something that your family will help you to organise, surely? If they do..treat the lady with gentleness and respect and you should find that marital happiness has much more to do with mutual consideration than the height of the husband.
If your depression continues then talk to your doctor about it, he or she will be able to offer advice,treatment and counselling and will keep the whole matter private. In the meantime ,why not set yourself a goal..an achievable one..such as loosing a little weight or toning up your muscles, saving for a deposit on a home for yourself and the wife you hope to have and so on.

Answer 5

well i would say that your height and weight shouldn't matter. if you want to change your weight i can give you some good workout plans to fix that. don't worry about your height. let me tell you right now that i know how you feel. life for me was going bad and i didn't know what to do. i overdosed on meds just so that i would die because i couldn't take life anymore. i felt like i wasn't needed and nobody wanted me and all different types of things. i took the pills and went through hell. i through up 14 times (at the end it was blood) and the doctors said that i died a few times, but kept coming back. it was a huge wake up call for me. in the hospital my family was there and when i got back home my friends supported me and were there for me. i realized that i was needed. i went through counseling for 4 months and got everything situated. since than i have been happy and good. my advice is to maybe find someone to talk to. preferably a psychologist that can help you. believe me they can help you. if not, find a good friend that you trust and tell them everything. a few things that i do is i go to my happy place. it might sound stupid, but it works. for me it's playing my guitar on the beach. you just need to go somewhere or imagine something that will completely clear your mind of everything. to where you don't even think about anything. get your mind off all your problems that your having. also having friends and family for support and to help you is another big thing. try to play some sports. just do things to get your mind off of everything. your mind needs to relax. if you ever start thinking anything suicidal, just tell yourself no that's stupid and take your thoughts from that and think of something that makes you happy. there are so many things that i could say. i would honestly talk to a psychologist though. they work wonders. i didn't want to go to one, but once your in the hospital you are forced to. good luck my man. if you need help you can email me.

Answer 6

6' 2" with a small frame 155-168 with a medium frame164-178 with a large frame172-197, but you can't go by what doctors think, do whatever makes you happy. Don't change yourself for someone else, all that will do is eventually make yourself miserable!!! Since your 186 pounds, your at the perfect weight for yourself, your tall, and tall men should always weigh more!!

Answer 7

I am, also my sons are, 6'2" plus, what is wrong with that? only small people (body and mind) will say anything. You could, however, do with putting on a little more weight. The world is open for normal people and you ARE normal, be big and enjoy it. There are not many women around that don't like tall men.

Answer 8

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