Please help me?

Question

My friend and I like the same boy. He likes one of us but we don't know what one. We asked him like 19 times and he still won't talk to us. What should we do?

Answer 1

time for a threesome!

Answer 2

Enjoy the fun? He's just playing. What kind of "like" is that when he doesn't tell the person he supposedly likes? So if you are having fun too, just go ahead and play. If you think any of this is serious, no, it isn't.

How do you even know he likes one of you if he won't talk to you? You asked him 19 times? Have you heard of stalking? You might be guilty of it here.

Answer 3

He likes the attention. He likes having you both chase after him. He likes knowing something you don't. Take a minute to think about how cruel it is for him to let one of you think that he likes you when he doesn't.

After you've thought about that, remember that he won't get *less* cruel once you're his girlfriend. He'll always be a cruel little boy.

It's time for you both to move on. When you find someone who really likes you, you won't have to ask him 19 times -- he'll shout it from the rooftops. Don't settle for anything less than someone who tells you you're the most awesome thing in the world.

Answer 4

Women tend to be more emotional about love than men and they tend to throw all their feelings at a man in many cases over too short a period. Eg: Love at first sight.

You have to realize that you can't always have what you feel you want. And no matter how hard you try it may never happen. You have to step back and say just because I like him I can't expect him to feel the same about me just because I like him.

If you've approached a man and he didn't respond the way you wanted well then that's it. You have to move on and accept it.
Many women try to get "their man" by over flirting and using sex only to find out years later it was a big mistake.

People that try too hard to make things happen usually end up in divorce many years later because it was always only a one sided attraction bought on by too much pressure at the time.

Answer 5

You should intentionally, forget him - a guy who would play on a person's emotions like he is with the 2 of you is not worth the time of day - my mom taught me a poem as a very young child: "look not for beauty, but for a heart that is pure within, for beauty may vanish, and skin grow old, but a heart that is pure will never grow cold..."

Answer 6

If I were you I wouldn't ask him so much.He might getbored from your questions.Just wait... If he really likes one of us he will come and say soon.But the important part is your friendship.If one of you starts to go out with him there will be really bad things between you and your friend.If you really love your friend and think there will be problems between you don't let a guy to make your friendship collapsed.

Answer 7

i would say to..MOVE ON!!!! friends should'nt be liking the SAME boy..thats not right...it will tear u guys apart in the long run....and he shouldnt be trying to play both of you.but boys will be boys...so take the advice and find another boy to crush on

Answer 8

Ignore him. Stop answering his calls, emails or whatever. Let your friend try out the relationship with him and step away. If it does not work out with her, then she should step in and you should give it a try.

Answer 9

I think you should fight your friend who ever wins gets the guy. Who ever wins just has to hope that there the one the guy likes.

Answer 10

hey leave the boy u both like coz bcoz of him u can loose ur friend and it depends whom u like most ur friend or that boy.

Answer 11

dear dnt ask him constantly...otherwise he ll feel uncomfortable while talk to u...if u like him go n tell him abt d fact indirectly n c whts his reaction...u ll automatically get d answer...