I have a friend that is p1$$ing me off.
Why...
She lies about everything. Shes said she has a band that has been to China and Japan, shes said shes had sex with M. Shadows (the lead singer from avenged Sevenfold) and other stuff.
She invited me to a concert, but she decided to go with some boy.
She flirts with EVERY BOY IN SCHOOL!!!!
so, dump her or keep her?
2007-10-12 11:21:53 · 5 answers · asked by luv bites (so do i) 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, first ask yourself: "Can I really consider her a friend?" If you can for some reason consider her a friend, then I'd say seriously think about it yourself. However, if you can't do that, then I don't think someone who habitually lies is a person worth keeping in good company. She could cause you a lot of trouble, but that's just my opinion.
2007-10-12 11:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to just dump friends when things aren't working out because they are acting strangely. The reason people lie about these things is because they feel attention starved. How well do you know this girl? She may have something going on at home or elsewhere in her life that is really bothering/hurting her. Try talking to her. That aside, some people just like attention and it can stretch out to unhealthy heights. YOU don't want to be caught up tangled in her web of lies, so make sure if you're going to keep contact with her, try not to take part in what she says. And don't expect her to be reliable either.
It looks like she needs to get some things sorted out, like she doesn't need each and every boy to like her, which ties on to the attention-starvation thing. People who constantly want attention might not be loyal or commited to a friendship. Try looking into meeting new people.
Good Luck. :)
2007-10-12 11:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Navy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend but distance yourself because she is getting you upset. A friend shouldn't be putting you into an uncomfortable position. Just be honest with her and tell her what annoys you, and if she doesn't listen, still don't dump her but don't be as close a friend to her. ;) You just don't want her to have another scare even though she may seem like the ignorant type.
2007-10-12 11:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nightwolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate lier! special if they lie for no reason....they won't stop do in that!!!! I was with a friendship like that and trust me...she get me in so many problems...but is your choise...just good luck
2007-10-12 11:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't dump her! Just enjoy the drama and let the chips fall where they may.. There must be something you like about her. But don't count on her coming through with what she says.
2007-10-12 11:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by luteachris 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋